If my boyfriend is from the countryside in the future, should I accept it?

Updated on Three rural 2024-05-18
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If so, then I support you in choosing him, you would rather choose one who truly loves you than choose one like your cousin-in-law, yes, he does have money, but he spends his heart, he doesn't know how to love, he doesn't really like your cousin at all. If you marry because of money and you don't like it, then it's better not to marry. You will not be happy if you marry for money like this.

    The so-called sincere love is not contained by money, and love cannot be contained by money. If you like money and get married, just like your cousin, you won't be happy. Fortunately, your cousin gave birth to a boy, and if she gave birth to a girl, I really don't know what your cousin-in-law would do to your cousin.

    But if you really like it, you can get happiness, and the conditions are not bad, even if it's rural, you're not afraid, anyway, it's all true love, aren't rural people people? Rural people can also give each other happiness. Who said that rural people don't know how to love?

    Rural people can also be developed! As long as he works hard, rural people can also be rich. One of my relatives is also from the countryside, and he makes a living by selling fish, but he has been working for a few years and has a net worth of millions, and he still drives taxis.

    In fact, as long as it is what you like, it doesn't matter if you have money or not. Only if you can get happiness, it is better than you marrying a rich man, at least he can treat you with his sincerity, unlike your cousin who can't get happiness. Remember, happiness is in your hands, whether you want to marry someone who can give you happiness and has good conditions, or whether you want to marry someone who has money but can't give you happiness, (like your cousin-in-law) that is only your choice.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    3l that...

    Your discrimination is almost pathological.

    Oh, what about the countryside, what about the cities.

    You're killing all the rural people with a rod like that.

    In fact, rural people are really so bad?

    Don't you know that in the eyes of rural people, city people are also very snobbish?

    On the contrary, a lot of rural people are simple and ruthless, and they just don't fit in with the big cities.

    Hehe, you discriminate against rural people so much, aren't you also enjoying the rice grown by the peasants, etc., etc.

    In fact, a person who can discriminate against others and speak like this will not be a person of any quality, hehe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, people from the countryside have that kind of treacherous selfishness from the roots, and this is caused by the underdevelopment of the countryside compared to the cities.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Finding a man who is honest and reliable and has a good character is more important than anything else.

    Do you want to marry a man who lives in a villa and has three thousand beauties?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To be honest, it is not a big problem whether the farmer is a rural person or not, the key is that he is willing to pay for you, work hard for you, if he works hard, he can also buy a house in the town in the future, the hukou is rural and there is no problem, and now the rural hukou in this society is very good, and there are many so-called subsidies. In short, it's still the previous sentence, if he can think for you and work hard for you, it doesn't matter if he is the best person. Come on, I wish you happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Explain everything before marriage, and some of the things that you don't have a good relationship with must be explained in advance.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I am the countryside. In fact, cities are not developed on the basis of the combination of multiple rural areas.

    With money, everything is not a problem. Parents can send them out to study.

    You can go to foreign countries and big cities to buy a house yourself. I'm afraid that when the time comes, you won't be worthy of him!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's said that it's the next day.

    What else to accept is not accepted.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There will be some generation gaps. After all, living habits are different.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course it will, the conditions in the countryside are quite good now, not to mention, counting three generations up, your family is also a peasant, don't look down on the peasants, many peasants' conditions are much better than those in the city.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If I were also rural, I would definitely get married, and if I wasn't, I would definitely hesitate because I wasn't sure I could live like that.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My boyfriend's family is rural, and you should get married and will get married, because of you, the two of you are willing to share and struggle together, rather than marrying a city person, or what about anything? The family looks at two aspects, one is life, the other is life, and the other is spiritual, and these two must be satisfied, one of them.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If your boyfriend is from a rural area, you will still choose to marry him, rural people are more likely to get along with him, and you will be good to you after getting married.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My boyfriend's family is rural, and if the other person is good and we love each other, I will choose to get married. Now all rural marriages buy houses in the city, and the environment is also good, as long as the people are good, they are worth marrying.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My boyfriend's house is rural, I think I will get married too, and this doesn't matter, as long as my boyfriend is good enough, and I like my boyfriend very much and is worthy of being entrusted for life, I will get married.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your boyfriend has a good temper because you are not married, and he likes your family conditions. How can normal men and women not quarrel, a man is bowing his head to you now, and he will pay it all back after he gets married. Patting is a matter for the two of you, and marriage is the union of two families.

    The gap is too far, and life will be awkward. And he doesn't say it now, after getting married, a whole bunch of rules in the countryside are waiting to be put on your head. What does an uneducated mother-in-law represent?

    Endless mother-in-law and daughter-in-law wars in the future. If your boyfriend is an only child, your in-laws will inevitably come to the city to live with you in the future, and it is difficult for ordinary people to bear the conflict of various living habits.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Even if the boyfriend is rural, but you love her, it's not that you love the question of whether their family is rural, I think this, as long as you think he is a responsible and responsible young person, I think you will be willing to marry him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The most important thing to get married is to look at the character, if your boyfriend has a good character and good personal conditions, even if you add a rural one, you can also consider it, because he will also support his family in the future, and his career will develop, if the family is rural, his conditions are generally far inferior to you, you have to consider it clearly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The boyfriend is rural, and if he is really strong and full of hope for the future, he can also get married, depending on what a person's pursuit is.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, as long as he can meet some basic personal living conditions, he can choose to get married, mainly depending on the sincerity of his boyfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, it still needs to see if the boy has potential and whether he has the ability. If he has the ability, it doesn't matter if his family is in the countryside, he can get married.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My boyfriend's family is rural, and I will also get married, because the most important thing is that two people have feelings and it has nothing to do with whether he is rural or not, and many people in the city now used to be rural.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think my boyfriend's family is rural, I don't think it's anything, and now the rural life is also very good, not necessarily that people in the city have a good life, so you shouldn't consider whether he is in the city or the countryside. Okay, just marry him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course it will, what's wrong with the countryside? After all, the countryside still accounts for the vast majority of China's people!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think if your boyfriend's family is a little poorer, but he himself is very good, and he is very self-motivated, very hard-working, and works hard, then there is no problem for you to marry him, and he will buy a house in the city in the future, and it will also allow you to live a good life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I'm definitely going to get married, because I'm just married to my boyfriend, not his family, and even though his family may be rural, it doesn't seem to have anything to do with the love we love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hello, I will still get married, because my family is also rural, and there is nothing bad about the countryside.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My boyfriend is rural, will he get married? It depends on your boyfriend who has no development prospects, if it is just a farmer, then you think about it, there are many people from the countryside, and the future development will be very good.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you really love each other, it doesn't matter if your boyfriend's family is rural or not? Even if it is rural, you have to choose to marry him, only two people who truly love each other can live happily after marriage.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    As long as the person I love will marry him no matter where his home is, because he is living with someone, and it is okay to be a good person.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Regardless of whether the boyfriend's house is **? It doesn't matter if he's rural or not? As long as you love each other and the other person loves you, you will definitely marry each other.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think I'll get married, because it doesn't matter if their family is rural, we just need to live together in the future.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    My boyfriend's family is rural, and I will definitely marry him, because we have a good relationship, he is rural, and I am also very willing to marry him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think that since two people love each other, they must know that each other's hometown is **, so they will get married. Personal opinion.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    My husband will also be rural, there is nothing bad, you can think it is suitable, as long as your boyfriend is promising, it doesn't matter what the family affairs are.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    What's wrong with the countryside, now the living conditions are better, and the living standard in the countryside is no worse than in the cities! If you have concerns, you can not get married, or you will regret it later!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There is nothing wrong with men in the countryside, it cannot be said that all are good. But most people are hard-working and hard-working people. If you treat him well, they may protect you with their lives.

    It is undeniable that men in the countryside are more affectionate and righteous. They can travel for a lifetime for a home.

    As long as two people are in love, what's the harm in being together.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I do. Because I love him, as long as it's him, it's okay to be in the countryside. As long as he really loves me and is self-motivated, that's enough. Now the countryside is developing rapidly, and the infrastructure in many rural areas is actually very good, even better than many resorts in the past.

    There are many benefits to marrying a rural man, first.

    1. Rural men are less likely to dislike women's vices than urban ones. Women have some vices, such as being verbose, going shopping, etc., which many city men dislike very much. But rural men can't, and women are verbose.

    When I go out shopping with a woman, I go away with a lot of excitement and return with a full load, and I help women carry things with large bags and small bags, and I don't complain at all.

    Clause. Second, rural men are more able to bear hardships and stand hard work than urban men. Because he was born in the countryside, he is accustomed to hardships and has no complaints at all. Besides, men in the countryside are very down-to-earth, one-sided, and will not cheat and cheat.

    Marrying this kind of man makes people feel very secure and reliable.

    Clause. Third, rural men are more likely to care for women than urban ones. Although rural men may have average economic conditions, they know how to love women. Some men in the city, although they are rich and fashionable, can play, but when they encounter a woman who is sick, they don't even see a ghost, and they are chic outside all day long, and they don't care about the woman's life or death.

    Clause. Fourth, men in the countryside are generally stronger than in the cities. Due to the factors of living environment, rural men have developed a good body, and a strong body enables them to bear many pressures in life, and they will embody more masculine beauty than city boys in all aspects. Today, health is the greatest asset.

    Clause. Fifth, rural boys are far less suspicious than urban men. Once a rural man has chosen his lover, he will generally give the other person a greater degree of trust and be less suspicious. But because of the living environment, men in the city will have a richer imagination, thinking that their girlfriends or wives are unfaithful, and Lao Wang next door is always eyeing him.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The reason, as long as we truly love each other, these are not reasons to stop us from feeling, I am willing to fight for life with him.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Yes, a person's background does not mean everything for a person, people from the countryside are also very good, only we love each other, I think others are good.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Willing. Love can't be measured by money, as long as my boyfriend loves me enough, whether he is rural or not, I can marry him.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I am willing to marry my rural boyfriend, as long as he is good to me and has a good character, I will not dislike his rural identity.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Willing. I think that if two people truly love each other, whether they are rich or poor, we will always be together forever.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I don't want to, because I'm from the countryside, I don't want to go back to the countryside, and I don't plan to find a boyfriend in the countryside.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Yes. As long as he is a capable and good person to me, whether he is from the countryside or the city, I am very willing to marry him.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Yes. The countryside is the countryside, as long as the other party loves me enough, there is no money, the economic conditions are not good, we can work together to create.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Yes. The main thing is to look at the person, look at the person's three views, the person's appearance, the person's heart, and the feeling that this person brings you.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    First of all, you have to set this question straight. Rural and urban people are the same, both good and bad, poor and rich. You can't beat him to death with a stick, and then let's talk about it, and then my boyfriend is a rural person, and he is still very poor and poor.

    How poor was his family when he was a child? I was so poor that all the food in the house was given to my boyfriend, and my sister was hungry.

    I feel pity for his background, I have suffered all day since I was a child, and finally I got good grades and came to the city, and now I have a relatively high-paying job. I was proud of him at this point, but after a long time, I realized that we didn't get along a bit. Why do you say that, because he suffered every day when he was a child, and now that his life is good, he will never forget the hardships he once endured, and he told me all day long how difficult it was for their family.

    It's not easy to say that his parents, mothers and sisters are special, and every time I talk about it, my eyes are red, and my sympathy from the beginning gradually changed a little. Because although my family is in the city, the conditions are not very good, I clearly remember that my mother's monthly income was only 400 yuan when I was laid off, and it was not easy for my family to provide me as a college student. I can understand what he means, filial piety to parents is due.

    But it's not just your own parents who are not easy, really, it is not easy for all parents in the world to be great.

    Then they broke up unhappily. Anyway, as a person who has come over, many rural boys will really tell their family things that are not easy, but it cannot be denied that there are still sensible rural boys. We face the choice to be a little sunny, I just based on my own experience and talk about things, and I didn't kill with a stick, so everyone encounters it differently, I believe you can judge for yourself.

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