Essay In the face of difficulties and setbacks, I chose kindness

I kept telling myself that life's frustrations are endless. I'm going to overcome it, I'm going to learn to be strong ??

The inscription was when I was 6 years old, and now it has been 7 years, but I can still feel the feeling of helplessness. At that time, I was playing with a few young friends and filial friends. "Hey, what a big hole!

One of the children, Hua Yi, sighed, "I don't know what it's for? "Maybe it's a small dry well! One of the older learned sisters said.

A lot of children were scouting [the dry well], like a group of archaeologists, and I was putting my little hands into the hole. Driven by curiosity, I couldn't help myself. "Ah, help!

What's wrong? Some of the other children gathered together, "Haiyin has fallen into the big hole, let's run quickly, lest the adults come and reprimand us later." "Okay, let's run!"

Hey, help, help me. I shouted as hard as I could, but there was no response. At that time, the bottom of the cave was some soft loess, and all around it was potholed and black, and when I saw all this, I curled up in the corner of Yiqing, panicking.

Suddenly, I heard someone sobbing and wondered who it was, but it turned out to be me. As the minutes ticked by, it seemed to be deserted and there was no one, and I began to try to climb up. Although the surroundings are uneven, because they are all loess, not only can they not climb up, but they are all loess.

I was desperate, kicking and beating as if out of breath, and suddenly I felt a rope hanging inside, so I pulled the rope and climbed up. I can't care about that much, even if it's just a trap, I'm going to crawl. The desire to survive led me to overcome my setbacks in the end.

That was my first setback. When you grow up, the more frustrations there are. Like not eating well, not sleeping well......The list goes on and on.

Every setback sacrifices many tears for me. Whenever I encounter a setback again, I silently tell myself: learn to be strong, be strong, be strong.

The long life, the vast sea of people, and the road of life are full of ups and downs. Such as difficulties in life, failure in the college entrance examination, no hope of promotion, poor physical fitness, obstruction of work, unwarranted control, etc. Whether you like it or not, whether you like it or not, setbacks can come at any time.

How should we view setbacks and how should we deal with them?

Historically, many people with lofty ideals have made extraordinary achievements in the struggle against setbacks. After Sima Qian was tortured by the palace, he wrote a book in anger and wrote the famous book "Historical Records", which was praised by Lu Xun as "the swan song of the historian and the rhyme of the separation". **Home Beethoven, the setbacks of his life are indescribable.

He lost his mother at the age of 17, became deaf at the age of 26, and then fell into the agony of a broken love. For a ** family, what a blow this is! But Beethoven was not depressed, not discouraged, he wrote in a letter:

I'm going to take fate by the throat, it wants to bring me to my knees, and that can't be done. "He has always lived tenaciously and created with great difficulty, becoming the world's immortal home.

Although setbacks bring pain to people, they can often hone people's will and stimulate people's fighting spirit; It can enable people to learn to think, adjust their actions, and achieve their goals in a better way and achieve a brilliant career. Scientist Beveridge said, "People's best work is often done in the face of adversity."

It can be said that setbacks are a special environment for cultivating talents.

Of course, setbacks don't make talent on their own, and not everyone who experiences setbacks can make a difference. The French writer Balzac said: "Setbacks are like a stone, stumbling blocks for the weak, holding you back; And for the strong, it is a stepping stone to make you stand taller.

Only those who hold a lofty purpose in life, establish lofty ideals of life, and consciously temper themselves in setbacks, rise up in setbacks, and pursue in setbacks, can they hope to become strong in life.

When Armstrong stepped on the moon, he became a household name for the phrase "I took a small step personally, but humanity took a big step", but there was also a man named Aldrin who landed on the moon with him, although it is strange to us, but it also makes us admire.

At a press conference celebrating the success of the moon landing, a reporter suddenly asked Aldrin a very pointed question: "Do you feel a little sorry that Armstrong became the first person to land on the moon as a fellow traveler?" The relaxed atmosphere of the scene froze all of a sudden, and under the somewhat embarrassed gaze of everyone, Aldrin said very humorously:

Guys, don't forget, I was the first to step out of the capsule when I returned to Earth! He looked around and smiled and said, "So I'm the first person to come to Earth from another planet." In the midst of laughter, everyone gave him the warmest applause ......

There was a wise man who went on a trip with a friend. As he traveled through a valley, the wise man slipped and fell, and his friend tried his best to hold him to the bottom. When the wise man was saved, he insisted on carving it in stone.

His friend asked: Is it really necessary to do this? Said the wise man

Of course. So, he carved on the stone: On a certain day, a certain year, a certain month, while passing through a certain valley, my friend so-and-so saved my life, and after the carving, they continued their journey.

One day, on the beach, two people quarreled over an incident, and the friend was angry and slapped the wise man. The wise man covered his feverish face and said, "I must write it down!"

His friend said, "Remember me, I'm not afraid!" The wise man then found a stick and wrote on the stall after the tide receded:

On a certain day, on the beach of such and such a year, my friend such and such slapped me. After reading it, my friend asked him puzzled: Why don't you carve it in stone?

The wise man laughed and said, "What I have told the stone is what I am afraid of forgetting, and I will let the stone remember it for me; And the things I told the beach are things that I can't forget, and I'm going to let the beach forget for me. Friends are ashamed.

A smart person knows how to be kind to others, he will not hold on to each other's mistakes, and he will use his own way to get out of the story of no results. Decades later, people may have forgotten Aldrin, but they can't forget his virtue of sharing the happiness of his friends. Let's leave all the things that are not worth remembering to the beach, let the sea sweep away those unpleasantness, and with the birth of a new round of sunrise is your carefree smiling face and flawless heart.

Be kind to setbacks. It is inevitable that there will be some setbacks in people's lives waiting for us to challenge and meet. But what you leave behind is success and joy.

Setbacks are our friends on the road of life, motivating us and making us strong and persevering. Let us have direction.

Beethoven's story.

The Symphony of Destiny is one of Beethoven's most outstanding works, and its theme is to reflect the struggle between human beings and fate, and finally overcome fate. This is too.

"At the beginning of man, nature is good. "When everyone is born, they have a kind heart, and with the passage of time and environment, the flower of kindness will bloom bigger and brighter. During the holidays, I read an article about kindness, which left me with a deep memory, and the general content of the story is like this:

There was a man who took a taxi home after drinking, the driver was a lady, and when the passenger got home, he got out of the car and forgot to take his bag, even though there was nothing important in the bag. It wasn't until he woke up in the middle of the night that he remembered, standing at the window he suddenly saw a taxi parked downstairs, it was the one that took him home, he hurriedly ran downstairs to see, the female driver in the car had fallen asleep, she woke up and only said to the passenger, "Things will be delayed, because I can't find you, I have to wait here, you will always remember tomorrow morning" The passenger was very moved. And I, too, feel it deeply:

This seemingly ordinary behavior is actually the most simple kindness, and there are many kind people in life, **, many people are in a desperate situation, it is they who extend a kind hand to help the victims get out of suffering as soon as possible; During the flood, many people lost their homes, but they showed kindness and helped the trapped people build homes. In the mountains, the children go to school and have no canteen, so they build a hot small dining table and give the children a lot of warmth; Left-behind children have not been able to see their parents for a long time, and they act as temporary parents and give their children a lot of smiles. Don't take the good for nothing, you didn't stop doing it because it was a small thing. You know very well that if you give roses to others, leave a lingering fragrance in your hands, and give more kindness to others, you will be happier.

I also firmly believe that as long as there is love in my heart, more good thoughts, and more good deeds, the society will be more harmonious and people will live a happier and better life.