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Marriage is a matter of two people, not your own decision, take advantage of the absence of that relationship to break it, otherwise you are together and have children, in the future thinking about these problems will be too irresponsible, now a woman's heart has been polluted by society, some things we can change, and then before it happened, but some people you can not change in your life, unless it is us who change, think about your future, if divorce is your only way, then do not have regrets, go happy, go chic, If you can't separate, you can work harder, it's too late to solve anything now, it's not enough to hurt their hearts, and when the child has a divorce, it will hurt everyone's heart, the child is much more important in the eyes of the old man than we are in the eyes of our parents, you won't go to divorce because the child is full of everyone's psychology, do you bear to hurt him, hurt the elderly, two people can only get married if they love each other, even if they cultivate their feelings, they have to work together, I see you work hard now and don't see him work hard, so long in this way, not only unhappy, There will be things that will make you all miserable, this is my simple advice, there are many things that are wrong, Happy New Year
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It seems that you really like him, your so-called her doesn't even seem to have given you a chance, but if you like her, 1, to make him feel that you are very attractive, she has to see what personality he likes, 2, you have to have a little, you want to make the life of the two of you have more good surprises (this is difficult for some people) 3, the sweetest, but not too sweet... Otherwise, you'll have to wipe your mouth. These are my experiences with girls abroad, and it's best to help, and if it doesn't work or you do it wrong, then have self-esteem and let it go, and there are problems.
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You are in the same situation as me, get married first, then fall in love! It's all an outlier of this era! But my baby is two years old now.
We are happy now. What I want to say is that if you know what you are wrong with, you have to change it, marriage is not child's play, if you really like her and love her, don't give up, and falling in love after is not necessarily more unhappy than falling in love first.
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It's the wayward post-80s again, I think. If you can't control her, give up on her.
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A loveless marriage can survive, but it often requires joint efforts and compromise on both sides. Here are some ways to do it:
1.Respect: Both parties should respect each other, respect each other's feelings and needs, and not hurt each other's self-esteem.
2.Build trust: Both parties should trust each other, not hide important things, and face difficulties and challenges together.
3.Common goals: Both parties should develop common goals and plans and work together to achieve them.
4.Communication: Both parties should maintain good communication and exchanges, so as to better understand each other's thoughts and feelings, and solve problems in a timely manner.
5.Seek help: If you have a problem that you can't solve on your own, you should seek help from a third party, such as a marriage counselor.
6.Increase interaction: Both parties should add meaningful, fun ways to interact, such as cooking together, watching movies, going for a walk, etc.
Although a marriage without love can be sustained, it is difficult to survive without a common goal and trust in Fenglingqi in Yincha, and it is difficult to sustain it through compromise and sacrifice alone. Therefore, both sides must be aware of the existence of the problem and work together to solve it.
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1. Mutual respect.
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Because they have already had a failed marriage, and if they say they remarry, they certainly don't want to repeat the same mistakes. So the question is, how can a second-married marriage last for a long time? In fact, I think that first of all, as a party, you must be relaxed, don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't feel that you are a second marriage, you must pay attention to all aspects, and repeatedly put pressure on yourself, but there will be results that you don't want. >>>More
After reading what you said, I think it is a wise choice for you to leave, you can't choose to accommodate, some things can be accommodated, like this kind of thing, you can't accommodate it for a lifetime, just get a certificate and start calculating money, such a man, you be careful, while you are young, you have to choose your other half, this is more important than anything else, you have to choose what is really good for you, don't accommodate, wait for you to live for a few years, when you can't bear it, then it will not be good for you to remarry, remember the most important point, Marriage is the happiest thing in a person's life, if you don't feel happy, then end it early! Wishing you happiness!