My girlfriend is always unenergetic, she doesn t speak energetically, and she is not generous enough

Marriage is not a target, so think about it and then decide.

Look at yourself, if you can endure it for her, you can communicate well, and you can't be decisive.

Communicate well with her and exercise her.

No one is perfect, don't you have all your shortcomings?

Just breaking up for this is not an unjust death.

Decent and generous bai those are all through the experience, or because of the family environment, their decent and generous dao fang are the right to receive goods brought to them by the version experience. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of communication, some are introverted because they are really rich in heart, have their own thoughts, and have a world of their own.

You have to find out what is the reason for your fear, why you are afraid to communicate, first understand yourself. Find out where the problem is, and then work hard to overcome it. You have to learn to give yourself self-confidence, not locked in the shell of the world, and come out of the shadow that you are afraid of.

But being able to realize that you need to make a change is the first step in your determination not to be afraid of being hurt, which is the way to live.

First of all, you must understand yourself, and it is recommended that you can read some books that bring energy to yourself.

Whether the working environment is also very quiet, it is recommended to find someone who you feel is skilled in contacting the society, study her way of speaking, and then integrate your own, and you will not be afraid if you have confidence.

Open your heart and heart to your heart, don't wait for others to communicate with you first, communicate boldly and relax, don't have a burden, once you will change it a second time, slowly change, I wish you can change yourself and surpass yourself.

Change your mindset. You're not used to it yet, so you don't have to reach out to others. But when people come to talk to you, you seem to be a little warmer. If easily shy. Just go to places with a lot of people. I didn't go out before, but now I'm a girl.

You should be open-minded, talk to people and look into their eyes, it is best to find a job that deals with people, and the effect is obvious after a period of time.

Take the initiative to greet people, talk to people, and cheer yourself up.

Don't be afraid, read more books to improve your self-cultivation.

Your girlfriend is comparing you to others unless you get better.

Bother? What qualifications do you have, there is a dark side to your personality, maybe you don't say a lot, but you can see it in a few short sentences, work pressure? Why, your personality problem, you can't do your job well, you make less money, you don't communicate enough with the people around you, even if you quit your job to the next job, even if you break up with her now, the next one will have the same situation.

What should be changed should not only be the personality, but also the attitude and way of life. Exercise more, communicate more, smile more......Speaking goes through the brain, and every sentence and word goes around in the head before it is spit out.

Falling in love is the stage ...... of tolerating each other and running in with each otherIf you don't want to let go, you have to treat each other wholeheartedly and tolerate each other!

Having said this, it is useless to say more, I hope you will be positive and enterprising in the future, your family will be happy, and your work will be smooth!

In fact, girls are easy to coax, you can't open your mouth, you can always send messages and the like to say some intimate words that you can't speak, don't people say that men are not bad and women are not loved? Give her no less than 10 sweet messages every day, women need to be coaxed, usually the weather changes, commuting, sickness, and meals are giving her text messages to remind her to pay attention to what to do. If you like it, you have to give up, and you have to know how to fight for it.

It's the same with love for family and work, all of which have to be paid. If you give, you will get something. If you are too tired from work, if you don't want to do it, take a good rest, go out with friends to relax, and I believe that you will adjust your state after a while.

Hehe, the pursuit is endless, why give up!

When a person evaluates another person, he tends to be entangled in the impression of that person at a certain moment, which means that if you hurt her, she will definitely remember the circumstances in which you hurt her, which is a text message for you.

Now you send a lot of text messages, it seems that there is a sincere recovery, which is useful for some people, but it seems that your girlfriend belongs to the tenacious faction, hehe, the more uncompromising the more you have to chase.

There's a huge contrast between the enthusiasm you text, and it's easy to tell you're not genuine.

Therefore, you should not be obsessed with how many text messages you send, as sending too many will cause her more disgust. The more you do this, the more she thinks you're hypocritical, and the worse the effect of this contrast becomes.

So I suggest a different way, as for what way, I think there should be a lot of it on the Internet, I won't repeat it, here just to analyze the reasons, to guide the confused landlord

You're talking like my boyfriend. The personality is very shy, he thinks he cares about me very, very much, but I always feel that there is no at all, angry and angry with him has tried everything possible, I am tired.

Landlord, the advice to you is the details! Of course, you should remember the anniversary, it goes without saying. When two people are together, you don't just have to make her happy, accompany her to eat and watch movies.

You have to listen to her carefully, and you have to worry about her what happens to her; If she is unhappy, you should comfort her in time. These things are not done on purpose, the point is that you love her, don't you want to know anything that is going on around her?

I don't think she's demanding. You may not understand the mind of a girl because you are your first love. Any girl is like that...

You may have a boring personality and some things you don't want to deal with. I can understand it so well, hey, my boyfriend is your type. Annoyed! If it's really worth cherishing, I hope you can improve it.

In fact, what you are missing may be communication. Don't care enough about her, is it ** not caring enough? Can you give examples or something like that, so that you can also have a direction.

If you can't do it all, can you change the status quo through hard work? If not, will she still be able to accept it? So the key is to find where the gaps are.

Maybe she will let you understand and observe for yourself, but after all, you are two completely different individuals, and you can't understand each other's minds without a full tacit understanding. Then the words must be spoken. If she is compared with the sisters around her, and see how other people's boyfriends are, you have to enlighten her, people are different, conditions and personalities are different, and it is impossible to be the same.

There are many possibilities, but we still have to talk about it.

In fact, my own experience can give you a reference. My husband, my boyfriend back then, said many times that I didn't care about him. We put this matter on the table and talked about it, and the conclusion after communication was:

My character is like this, I usually take care of myself by my parents and classmates, I don't have high requirements for life, just eat and drink, and I don't care much about my own food, clothing, housing and transportation, let alone him. He thought about it, anyway, he couldn't change his habits after so many years, and he wouldn't mention it much in the future. No, our children are over two years old, which is fine.

The experience we have summed up is: if there is a problem, we must talk about it, listen carefully to the other party's ideas, and do not let the problem become a fetter in the future.

Well, I wish you to find a way to solve it as soon as possible, successfully get rid of the troubles, and I sincerely wish you happiness!

Your girlfriend would definitely burst into tears when she saw your question, .........I'm moved first--

Blessings. I don't know the specifics. Falling in love depends on two people tolerating each other before it can continue...

If she loves you enough, she will feel that she should cherish what you give her now, and then be yourself, she will have more, and she will feel content, although she wants more, remember that she wants more, instead of complaining that you give too little.

My boyfriend just said to me, I don't know what you're thinking about, what you're not satisfied with, whether you think I don't love you enough, or if I didn't do a good job, what I didn't do well before will be good in the future.

I'll just "en" it. I think it's very happy to have him here...

My boyfriend is like this, lukewarm to me, but I really like him, and now I try my best to cooperate with him, but I often feel that he doesn't care about me, I will feel powerless, in fact, I really want to break up with him, but I can't help it, I wonder if he and I will end up together.

In fact, the woman said that you don't care about her, so have you ever thought about what you have done for her? You meet a few times a week, and when you do, do you take the initiative to take her hand? Will you hug each other when you meet?

Do you hug each other for more than 10 minutes? When you learn that she has a cold, will you give her medicine as soon as possible? Now that she's already told you how she feels, it really means that you're not good enough.

First of all, it's not right for her to compare you to her ex-boyfriend, but she may want to make you care more about her. Second, you are an adult now, and you should not bring emotional matters to work, this is your own problem, and it has nothing to do with her. Third, if you like it, you like it, don't make excuses for yourself, if you don't work hard and lose it, it's useless for you, and if you work hard and then lose it, you have no fate, and you won't regret it.

Women love to show off their history like this, it's really annoying, but you're just getting started, so don't worry, she said you don't care about her, it may have something to do with your character, don't like sweet words, everyone is different, some things can't be forced, you care about her don't have to use sweet words, just use your own way, care about her with practical actions, I believe she will understand, and you just got together and don't know each other very well, so it's normal to be a little annoyed, don't take it too seriously, Take your time, it will be fine, you said that you encounter difficulties in dealing with people at work, this is an inevitable thing, don't run away, learn to face it, slowly cultivate your own way of dealing with the world, learn more, do things smoothly, since you like her, then care more about her, keep her, I believe you will be happy.

Then why don't you ask her directly, what is the specific manifestation of your lack of concern for her?

A woman's mind is as deep as the sea, and you can't understand her comprehensiveness without long-term contact.

Also, when two people are together, the important thing is how to communicate, how to coordinate the relationship between two people, some words are stuffy in the heart, and after a long time, it will lead to cracks in love.

So you might as well communicate with her directly: What am I not doing well enough?

First love is very worth remembering, cherish the current feelings, I wish you happiness!

Didn't care about the point.

A Mary Kay National Queens' Superintendent I know once told me that the coast, next to the sand, is full of sand, and it attracts sand; In the vegetable field, the pumpkin is either pumpkin or winter melon next to it, and the potatoes are all potatoes next to it, and the partners attracted by vegetable sellers are meat sellers at most; In the shop, next to the diamond are diamond jewelry, you are white gold will definitely attract ** attract diamonds, not watermelons. Can you understand? That is to say, how many points you are worth, your friends you attract and your partner will also be that score, rich people attract rich people, tasteful people attract tasteful people, low quality attracts low-quality people, can you understand?

You're still improving, how great girlfriend do you want to attract? We girls always hope that the story of Cinderella and Prince Charming is true, and we are the protagonists, but how likely is it? Even if it's true, how long can the relationship last?

I'm a junior in college, I'm glad I understand this, now I'm single, I will be tempted when I see handsome guys, but I know, that's not love, I'm not a diamond woman with love, life, taste, beauty and wealth, I can't attract Prince Charming, attract my platinum man. So I'm going to improve, I'm going to be a great diamond woman. The handsome guy I see now is just the same, I don't know if it has any connotation, but I can be sure that when I become the best woman, my husband will also be the most handsome and great.

I don't know if you can understand this? Understandable?

This means that she loves you! Only love cares so much about you, no matter how heavy the tone is, but the most important thing is that she cares about you very much! That's right!

You can talk to her and tell her you don't like her like this.

Tell him not to quarrel in the future.

Be silent! Use silence to deny what she says!