Twenty five or sixteen is called the age when it should be married, so what kind of relationship is

I feel that this question is questionable, twenty-five or sixteen years old is obviously a grade that is struggling, why has it become a grade that should be married?

That's the way the question is asked, and that's all it can be.

Asking this question is actually like asking what do you like? And what is love?

To like is to "get", while to love is not to "lose".

When we first meet someone we like, maybe it's the so-called first sight, and we want to please them.

And love is that after we get TA, we will think about how to get along for a long time, how to bring our happiness to each other, and make two people happy together.

Maybe when two people are just together, many times it is the man who lets the woman do everything.

But over time, the man may feel tired or bored, and there will be a slight or heavy quarrel.

But if they really like each other, both people will reflect on each other.

Gradually, the two people went through hardships, struggled together, and worked together for a warm nest, gradually turning each other into the softest place in their hearts and their own weakness.

After the long journey, the two people gradually became familiar with each other's days by their side, gradually became familiar with each other's everything, and wanted to become each other's heroes.

The other party will make you feel absolutely at ease by your side, and you will not be disturbed by other worldly things, and you will not blame each other because you are too tired to get along.

They will not be too emotional with each other and lose their rationality, just like a long stream of calm and gentle.

I think this time should be the relationship that can be married, two people will cross all obstacles, understand and tolerate each other, will cherish each other, regard each other as the softest point in their hearts, free and calm.

I know baby you can see (manual funny).

Twenty-five or sixteen is called the age when you should get married, and the feelings that you should get married may be twenty-five or sixteen years old.

As for the damn age, maybe seventy or eighty.

If there is really any saying that you should do something at an age, is it waiting to be buried in the ground after the age of 70?

I don't think that's how I can judge, let alone think so.

There's never been a saying about what you should do at an age.

Your life is your own, your life should be decided by yourself, not by what others think you should do at what age, at least, I do think so, what about you, do you think I'm right?

The point is whether you can judge for yourself and decide your own life.

If your life is always arranged by others, then if someone arranges for you to marry at the age of twenty-five or sixteen, you should get married, and you don't need to think about what is the emotional ...... of marriage

Anyway, when the time comes, everything has to be ...... according to the time

In fact, in my opinion, when you really want to get married, even if you are only 23 years old, you can do it, the law allows you.

When I was in college, the school had a junior sister Xiao Li from the School of Foreign Chinese Languages, and Xiao Li married her boyfriend in her sophomore year. And her boyfriend is actually just over the marriageable age, a senior brother who has graduated for a year or two, but in fact, she and her boyfriend have known each other since high school, until college, and ...... he graduatedThen they got married directly......

Of course, it was a shocking eyeball......Why is there such a hurry?

You must know that Xiao Li has not graduated yet......She is beautiful and temperamental, and her foreign language skills are not bad, and she can be a translator at any exhibition in ...... field

According to the above, she was not even twenty-one years old at the time, wouldn't it be more in line with our expectations to wait for another four years......

But if people want to get married, they will get married......our ......

By the time Xiao Li graduated, her children were ...... years old

What kind of relationship is it time to get married?

I remember someone saying thatPeople who have a short-term relationship can look at their faces, but people who want to be with each other for a lifetime, in addition to looking at whether their personalities are compatible or not, they also need to look at their character and whether the three views found when they get along are consistent.

Therefore, the relationship that should really be married should be like this, each other has enough understanding of each other, recognizes each other's character and three views, two people get along happily and comfortably, and want to live a life with each other. Instead of a whim, I want to cope with the desire of my parents to force ...... marriage

If you don't have such an emotional foundation, if you get married because of a momentary impulse, then it is easy to have irreconcilable contradictions in the later married life, leading to the breakdown of the marital relationship ......

What do you think?

Of course, I feel that this life is you, and I am very down-to-earth with you, so this kind of relationship is called marriage.

I still remember that when I graduated from junior high school when I was in junior high school, it was still very popular in that era to write a message book, and the format of the message book was probably that the above part was personal information, with name, favorite color, favorite star, favorite book, hobbies, etc., and one of the items I remember most clearly was how old do you want to get married? I still remember that there was a heated discussion about this project, because at that time, marriage was still very far away for everyone, and everyone was very new. I remember that the result of the discussion was that it was better to get married at 26 and have children at 27.

Because in the concept at that time, only girls who got out of school early in the morning would get married and have children, we had to be intellectual women, so naturally we couldn't get married too early, and we had to think about having children when we got married.

As for what kind of relationship is called the relationship that should be married. I think it has something to do with age and the degree of fitness. For example, if you haven't even reached the legal age of marriage, this kind of relationship is of course not called the relationship that should be married, this kind of relationship may seem mature to yourself, but in general, since the country has this regulation, there must still be a certain scientific reason, not that you want to get married at any age.

This run-in degree is to get married at least the same three views, otherwise even if you get married in the future, it will be full of problems, so the run-in degree is that the two parties have been together for a while, know each other well enough, and have determined that you are the object I want to marry, and then go to meet the parents, and the parents also agree. ok！You are married.

<> I feel that the age of marriage is determined by the feelings of marriage, not because it is time to get married.

There are some things in the world that are designed to win, such as sports competitions. Although we have repeatedly said that sportsmanship is about participation, if we do not distinguish rankings and rank seats, there will be no competition and pursuit, and competition will lose its charm. But there are still some things in life that cannot be ranked, such as early marriage and late marriage, which is success and which is failure, it is a personal choice, and there is no fixed standard, because in this regard, everyone can be their own champion.

Yes, you can hate to get married, but marriage is the most unacceptable thing in the world, and the boundary between married and unmarried should not be divided by age. When it's time to fall in love, fall in love. Love is not just about getting married, love is about opening a door, and behind the door is a richer and grander world.

Love is just something like poetry and ** in everyone's life, which should be enjoyed and experienced.

I firmly believe that everyone who comes to this world will wait for someone, who will accompany her on a long journey and accompany her to old age. Two people like each other and are willing to do their best to change for each other, but at the same time they are two independent people with their own jobs, their own preferences, and their own best friends or best friends. They are all willing to accompany each other to grow old together, for them, marriage is not a constraint and a restriction, but a transition, I love you, I hope to go home every night, with your company.

Personally, I think that the relationship of marriage and the relationship of falling in love are completely different things.

If you fall in love, as long as you can attract each other, as long as you are happy with each other, you don't have to take into account the feelings of your family or anything, but marriage is different, marriage is no longer a matter of two people, its existence involves two families, especially in this kind of one-child family.

If two people like each other but the gap between the two families is too big, then the common topics of the two families during the New Year's holiday, the gift gap, and the concept of life are inevitably a lot of contradictions, in the only family, sons and daughters are each other's treasures, in the eyes of parents, the gap between the other family's family and their own family is too big, and they will always feel that their sons (daughters) will suffer in other people's families or something!

Therefore, at the age of twenty-five or sixteen, it is not said that it is a suitable age for everyone to get married, but most people have formed a value for marriage at this age, and it is also a period of time when people generally believe that marriage is suitable for marriage in modern society, but it is limited to a group of people who have formed a sense of marriage. If you just get married because you feel that you are old enough to get married, then you may feel that your married life is different from what you imagined.

Therefore, if you have really understood the correct view of marriage, age is not the key factor that can play a decisive role. Don't get married because you want to get married, sometimes you do need a vigorous love, but love with the blessing of family and friends will be much happier than desperate, love always comes inadvertently, maybe confused, but as long as it is that person in the end, everything is worth it.

Men should get married, women should get married, at the marriageable age, what kind of people should we hold to go to the palace of marriage? How can we have a sincere and deep relationship with this person who has committed a lifetime in order to have the confidence to join hands for a lifetime? There are too many things that are affected by the social environment, and among them, the social environment also affects the perception of love in our generation.

Mano confided in a blind date show: "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle." This sentence caused an uproar in the audience, and at the same time made many people think:

What changed the original intention of love? ”。We have to reflect on the disdain for love in this society, and we have to accept the insignificant weight of love now.

But no matter how society changes, how high the material position is, I think that material is only the spice of love, and material and money are not the necessities of love. It is good if the bread fills the stomach, and the excess can only be stored. But love is different, love is spiritual food, and what comes out of surplus can enhance the value of our existence in the world.

When a person's life is filled with love, she will surely become an optimistic and loving person. If I have a love that I have never felt safer than I have ever felt before, if I have the urge to make others feel the same happiness that I have, if I can't help but want to show off my love to everyone. Perhaps, I will consider holding hands with him and entering the palace of marriage.

Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, our marriage should be serious, and we must obtain the sincere blessings of two families. When our love infects two families, and even the people around us, so that all those who have seen our love believe in love, then I think it will be a love worth practicing for a lifetime. <>

In China, the thinking of the parents' generation is to find a suitable one for marriage, and the conditions are good, and love cannot be eaten. Feelings can't match reality.

Twenty-five or sixteen is called the age when it is time to get married, and when the relationship between the two parties has been sublimated to a certain extent, and even the other party is regarded as a relative, it is the relationship that should be married. Love will always go through a long world and begin to change, no longer the enthusiasm of the former love, especially after the relationship is stable, it is actually time to get married, and it is necessary to set up a small family belonging to both parties to meet a better future.

1. Twenty-five or six is called the age of marriage, which does not mean that you must get married

Many people are trapped by age for marriage, is age really that important for marriage? Do you really have to decide to start a new life at the age when you should get married? I don't think it's important and shouldn't.

Age does not have much to do with marriage, and we should not be trapped by age in love, we do not need to get married at the so-called age of marriage, we should be loyal to our feelings and choose the most suitable person for ourselves to marry.

Many people in life are at the so-called suitable age for marriage, and they find a random partner and enter the palace, and most of the mixed love is failed love, because age is not an important element in determining marriage.

Second, the sublimation of the feelings of both parties, the feelings of marriage are the most important

The relationship that should be married means that the two parties have understood each other enough, and even the feelings of both parties have slowly changed from love to family affection. At this time, it should be the best choice for marriage, and both parties can plan their own beautiful life according to the situation; The relationship of the marriage is relatively stable, because both parties know and are familiar with each other, which can reduce the disputes that arise due to ignorance.

In love, the feelings that should be married are the most important, and getting married by the sublimation of feelings is the most beautiful.