What do you think of the elegance of manners, in the final analysis, comes from the heart ?

<> if a person's appearance is given by his parents, then the elegance of temperament is something he has acquired. And what's particularly amazing is that elegance is not taught by teaching.

So why is this elegance so magical? Because the elegance of a person's behavior is mainly based on how the person sees the world, how he treats his friends and family, and how he deals with some things he encounters, and these are the true reflections of a person, that is, the true reflection of a person's heart. If a person does not have a beautiful mind, I don't believe that she will be an elegant person, even if she has temporary elegance, she must be pretended, and there will be a moment of "exposed".

Because the beautiful soul cannot rely on the parents to give it, nor can it rely on the ingenuity to take it, it can only rely on its own slow practice, only when a person's heart is rich, he can show a kind of grace from the inside out.

For example, a female star I particularly like is Zhang Aijia, I think she has a natural elegance, although she is not the most beautiful star, but her elegance from the inside out deeply moved me. Whether it is her film and television works or her literary works, they all reveal a faint tranquility, a kind of calmness in looking at the world, and I believe that she has a beautiful heart to support her to continue to exude this charm.

The elegance of manners reveals the overall quality of a person.

It's not that you have name tags all over your body and drive a luxury car to behave elegantly.

This kind of elegance is volatilized from your temperament, it is hidden in your bones, and it slowly exudes in your words and deeds.

It's not just a piece of clothing, a piece of jewelry that can be created.

Some people dressed like dogs, dressed in famous brands, hung with expensive jewelry. At first glance, people labeled him as an upstart.

And even if some people wear ordinary casual clothes, her elegant temperament naturally exudes.

An ordinary piece of clothing can also make it feel unusual.

The reason for this is the embodiment of the comprehensive quality of the individual.

A person's comprehensive qualities include a wide range.

Some of them are upbringing from their original families, while others are upbringing that is slowly formed behind them.

That's why women nowadays advocate reading more.

Reading books can change people's thinking, improve people's consciousness, and open people's eyes.

It invisibly increases your self-confidence, so that women are no longer panicked when things happen, and women can also make judgments and decisions like men.

The best cosmetics can change a woman's complexion, but not a woman's complexion.

Fineness refers to the comprehensive quality of a woman.

A woman's appearance will gradually age with the passage of time.

But a woman's elegance will only grow rich and deep with the passage of time.

As the saying goes, "there is poetry and writing in the belly", a person's behavior and behavior have a lot to do with his inner values and other ways of thinking.

People who quarrel over a few cents in the wet market are generally not highly educated, people who scold on the street are generally not people who love to read, and people who have dirty mouths generally don't resonate with literature.

People with clear hearts like to turn the world into their ideal appearance, and will not complain about the injustice of the world, nor will they break the jar and let their bad temper grow wildly. When a person pursues the beauty of her soul, she will not be haunted by the unreasonableness of others, because she knows that if she retaliates with a tooth for a tooth, then she will be no different from that unreasonable person.

People with a good heart will know how to be quiet when others are sleeping, and will not shout loudly, so they are very polite in the eyes of others. They have a pure land in their world, and they will keep smiling no matter what kind of friction they have with others, and they will not scold and vent their anger on others, or smash things, because they care about every object, and they know that they can't destroy it because of its value.

And those who behave badly, most of them have a lot of dissatisfaction with the world, complaining that life is full of thorns, complaining that they are not favored by the east wind. Their hearts have long been filled with pain and hatred, and they don't care whether life is good or bad, and they use wanton behavior as a way to vent their emotions and relieve their inner pain.

Therefore, most of those people who seem pungent and unreasonable are caused by the emptiness of their hearts and their lack of expectations for the world. And those who have a full heart, even if the world is lacking, they can use the pure land in their hearts to purify her. The heart is settled, and the demeanor is not too exaggerated, so it appears elegant.

First of all, I myself agree that elegance comes from the heart, just like looking at a person's behavior can roughly see a person's behavior.

The brain is always the first reaction of a person to action, so the embodiment of action reflects a person's heart, your brain reflects your thoughts, and your thoughts determine the nobility and ugliness of your heart essence, so every action is the gap between each person's heart level. I have always felt aggrieved and worthless for an actress, it is Lin Chiling. She has always been criticized, and just because of her natural baby voice, she has been subjected to countless arguments about pretending to be weak and tender.

And she herself didn't mind. The elegance of her demeanor is not just a temperament that she has received from her education, but the beauty that overflows from her heart. There's a scene that keeps coming to my mind.

We all know the competition between actresses in the entertainment industry, and group photos have naturally become a way to compare. I only remember that among the countless group photos I have seen, Lin Chiling will always give up the high heels that will have more advantages, and even squat down a little to take a group photo. It may be a show, but isn't that squatting posture a reflection of her own spiritual elegance?!

In other words, it does not mean that the so-called acceptance of a lot of etiquette will make a person elegant. True elegance is a clean and pure you, maybe it is to leave a chic back after the help of your hands, or maybe it is to put yourself in the shoes of others after the embarrassment, this is your elegant you. This elegance doesn't go through your brain, it comes from your heart's first reaction.

Every gesture reflects the first feeling you give to others.

The grace of your demeanor that comes from the heart will make you as noble as a swan.

I think that a person's behavior is largely based on her own spiritual knowledge, because I think this kind of behavior will be ** in your heart, which is difficult to say.

Elegance is a feeling, which feels more in the rich heart, wisdom, fraternity, and the perfect combination of reason and sensibility. A beautiful woman is not necessarily elegant, but an elegant woman must be "beautiful", because her knowledge and wisdom make you trust, and her delicacy and care make you rely on it. And this wisdom, delicacy, and caring, you will experience it from her charming woman's gestures, smiles, and smiles.

Elegance also includes a woman's unique insight and pursuit of beauty. If you don't dress neatly and unkemptly all day long, you can't associate it with elegance in any way. So the elegant woman, her dress is always unassuming and stylish, and it feels like listening to the Scottish bagpipes quietly, clear and refreshing.

The temperament of an elegant woman is like bamboo, slim and noble, even if you are wearing a cloth dress, you will capture this extraordinary feeling from the simple and simple appearance. An elegant woman should have a full connotation and a rich cultural heritage, which is a realm other than appearance.

An elegant woman is also a woman who knows how to love, she loves herself, the elderly, her children, her friends, her colleagues, her work, and she knows how to love life. She understands that men need love, sometimes understanding, sometimes caring, sometimes gentle, sometimes rude, sometimes plain, sometimes the warmth of fire, sometimes the tenderness of water. An elegant woman, her emotions are delicate, rich and sensible.

Of course, an elegant woman should also have a flirtatious taste, and she will have the occasional mischief; will pick small flowers from the mountains and fields to decorate life: will give a surprise to those who love her and the people she loves on Valentine's Day; Will read by himself to pass an afternoon with tea.

If a woman is like water, then an elegant woman can wear it with water drops and stones, and use wisdom to gain love and dignity. The external beauty is fleeting with the wind, and the superficiality cannot bear to be tasteful, and the elegant woman uses her rich inner world and wisdom of life to make herself always a flower tree with 101 kinds of scenery.

Elegance is an inner embodiment that takes years to experience. Otherwise, the achievements of youth and old are not elegant ......

The Chinese nation is a country of etiquette, and everyone learns rules and etiquette, so that they can get along comfortably.

Don't be vulgar in front of strangers, don't be too pretentious, in short, let others feel natural is the most elegant.