How to face a sworn enemy with a calm face?

In life, we must learn not to make too many enemies, especially girls, things in the girls' pile are very complicated, and the phrase "women's hearts, needles under the sea" does make sense. There are many things that we have to learn to let go, rather than always taking them to heart, sometimes this kind of thing is too much accumulated in our hearts, and if it is too long, it will become a heavy burden on our hearts, and we will be overwhelmed, so it is better to learn to let go.

Of course, all the premise is that our interests are not damaged, because if two people really become mortal enemies, then even if they want to get along with each other peacefully, but the other party has been loving himself and many things to make a stumbling block, who can endure it all the time? I really can't do it anyway, and I don't think most ordinary people who haven't reached a certain level can't do it either.

If you want to have a calm face, you have to improve your mind, and your heart must be able to tolerate others, even those you don't like. Improve your EQ, I think most people's IQ is about the same these days, EQ can really make a thing have many results, so EQ really has to be a lot more useful. I have a little secret in life, that is, when facing strange things, I should do what I originally thought rationally and correctly, rather than according to the most primitive thoughts in my heart.

This is the case in the matter of love facing a rival, especially when two people meet and get along, you must want to spray a piece of Xiang in his face, but this kind of thing is too stupid, too many conflicts on the front are useless, and most onlookers will think that you are too stupid, very stupid, very naïve.

But this situation will not be angry, if you want to take revenge on your enemies, you must learn from those around you who have more cities. Those who are more powerful in the city are behind their backs to pull others into the water, who will show their bad side on the surface. To grasp the enemy's weak point, everyone says that it takes seven inches to fight a snake.

I remember when I was in high school, I didn't have a good relationship with my two tablemates, because I can't remember anything now, but it was the kind of awkward relationship that evolved from good friends to enemies. I used to be very stupid, what do I do when facing this mortal enemy, at most, it's usually a little trick for two people to use the table to take up a little more space for her, and now I think about what to care about taking up a little more space, right, I guess it's also because I am tired and stupid because of the heavy schoolwork in high school.

But do you know how the other party retaliated against me? We have a good friend in common and one time I heard her talking about me in the toilet, and unfortunately I heard her. Although it's embarrassing, but since this incident, I've seen it for a long time, and I'm no longer stupid, I think girls learn a little bit of scheming, such as the discord plan, is to protect themselves, it's really like the plot in Zhen Huan's biography.

So let's not be a bad guy, the bad guy will be retributed if he does too much, but he can't be bullied if he suffers a loss, and he bravely confronts the other party.

In life, there are best friends, there will also be their own rivals, maybe for various reasons, maybe because of emotions, maybe because of interests, some people often oppose you, competition, then he becomes your rival, then, what do we do, or what kind of requirements do we have to achieve, so that we can calmly and calmly face their rivals?

I think the most important thing to be calm and calm in the face of your opponent is to be calm, you are stronger than your opponent, you can face it calmly, when you are stronger than him, no matter what he does, his strength will not surpass you at that time, when you face a person who is not as good as you, will you feel uncalm?! <

In other words, if you live in an era of martial arts, how can you be calm in front of your opponents, if your martial arts are not powerful opponents, even if you can skip the level against the enemy from time to time, even if you have the ability to jump over the enemy, but what will happen, you are still not sure, you will still have some waves in your heart, only when your martial arts are stronger than the other party, your heart will be calm, calm, you face your opponent, your state of mind is naturally calm, if you suppress with absolute strength, Then you won't have a trace of waves!

Of course, you don't live in an era where force is respected, in modern times, if you have a strong heart, you can also be calm in front of your rivals, and only a strong heart is far from enough, you must also have enough knowledge, because, only when you have something in your stomach, you will not be timid.

Of course, the most important thing is that your hard power exceeds your rival, so that you can face your rival calmly and calmly, a strong heart is important, but there is no strength, and it is not a long-term way to pretend to be there, so it is better to work hard to improve your ability, and the ability to have a natural inner peace!

In life, even if we live well, there are some people we hate, and this is inevitable. Everyone has a sworn enemy in life, but they rarely face it, and most of them don't come to each other. Because there is hatred in my heart, I don't know what to do when I meet, and I often may make things, but it is better not to see them.

There are many rivals who have played well and have sincere feelings, but in the end, because of some things, the two have parted ways since then, and sometimes they feel a little regretful and helpless. What is life like?

In fact, seeing a sworn enemy is the same as seeing a former lover, and both have strong emotions in their hearts. But what can we do? It's best to stay calm and control your emotions.

Just as if you have never known this person, you will face it often, and one day you will get used to it.

Say goodbye and forget, and no longer pursue the past. If we continue to quarrel like this, it is useless to do anything. The most important thing is to let it go, it may be like a big wave in life, which needs to be faced calmly. <>

Don't do impulsive things, the most important thing is to control your thoughts, just treat it as an ordinary person, think about yourself greatly, think more about your own good, you don't need to meet this kind of person.

Let yourself die, and treat that person as if he were dead! It's just a corpse in front of him, so why should he bother with the corpse.

Do you think that many things that you once couldn't let go of will eventually turn to dust and everything will dissipate, so why do you need to care so much about life? Learn to forgive others, and you will forgive yourself, people, always learn to see openly, make yourself happy.

Be brave, look into each other's eyes, this is what everyone should do, let others know that they are not so timid, dare to face bravely, if you don't even dare to look at other people's eyes, then you have already lost. Just like ordinary people, don't take this as too important, be casual, and live the way you want to live.

You can practice the saying: joy, anger, sorrow and happiness are not good. But there are very few people who can really do this, and to this day, I have never seen anyone who can do it without joy, anger, sorrow, or sorrow, or because of my lack of knowledge.

But I have done it with a calm face in the face of my sworn enemy, and I have done it, but I don't know if it is standard.

I'm not a particularly calm person per se, and I really don't like the person I hate in any way, and when I see that person, I can't wait to turn around and not want to see him. But I'm a person who doesn't hold grudges, as long as he is a little good to me, I can't wait to return him very well, I am like this, even if my sworn enemy is a little good to me, I will not doubt whether he is true or fake, I am willing to believe that he is real. In other words, I will treat him as he treats me.

Before, I had one of the strongest competitors, but it was only in terms of learning. Both of us studied very well, but in the past few years, every time he took the first test and I took the second test, but the two of us never did a discussion problem together, because we both had our own careful thoughts, but we both wanted to take the first test and then surpass each other. There's nothing wrong with us, it's just that we all want to be better and higher, so crazy learning, sometimes, it's still good to have a competitor.

Looking back on that experience now, I still feel very grateful to him, but it's a pity that when the two of us grew up, we didn't study very well, and there was one person in the same class who surpassed us, but except for that person, we were still very good, and now, we are alumni in college, and when we meet again, we will still say hello. Because we used to be rivals, we are friends now, and we have always been good friends in the absence of competition.

Ha ha.. It's so green!! I really envy you, I think I had a similar experience like you in junior high school!

I don't think this state will last long, if he really has thoughts about you, sooner or later he will not be able to help it, don't worry! It is recommended that you study hard, first of all, don't fall behind in your own courses, for him, just smile! Slowly, even he himself will feel impatient with himself, and once he is impatient, it is you.

Hey, hey, hey. Or he confessed to you at a festival, or at an event, what about you, if you really don't feel it, don't hurt him, just say what is in your heart, just say, I don't feel for him!! As a girl, you must choose your first boyfriend well, maybe the man you are talking about just looks good!!

Ask him what he wants. What if you put up with it and keep it over and over again? Or make peace with him

Well, is he just targeting you?

Or is it for some reason that he is doing this to you, if he is only doing this to you, you have to think about what you have done before, as for the people around you who say that. They should have their reasons, and if you really think you're right, then go your own way and let them say go!

Pull a relationship with him.,Treat him well with high seniority.,But pure friendship between classmates.。 Impress him first with a small favor. If he is good at studying, take the initiative to ask him some questions.

Don't overthink it. Be relaxed. It is precisely because you think that he is your sworn enemy that you are not good, and think of him as a good classmate who is helpful to others.

Middle school students are no small anymore! That's too much for you! Looking for a chance to talk to him?

Or speak ill of him in front of his girlfriend? Let them break up? If it doesn't work anymore, tell the teacher!

Teachers don't care about you, let your parents come to the school! This student is too much for you! You're a poor doll!

Take care of him more and let him be touched by you? Hope it works for you!

I've also experienced it, so it's annoying, that's called one!

Teach you a trick: what he does. You don't pay any attention. Go and get closer to other boys and girls! See how he reacts!

I think it's a way to show that I have a good impression of you!

If you ignore him for a long time, you will be jealous of your kindness to others!

You're right, and that's because his appearance gives everyone the feeling that he's a good boy, a quiet person, and that he treats you like that maybe he's looking for something to do to get your attention, maybe there's something wrong with him, as you say.

Can you ask his parents, is he referring to you or is he sick? Or maybe he really wants to be your friend? Maybe you should talk more?!

Don't think about it, obviously I like you! But another way to put it is just that, and this is probably 99 per cent

Ay! Another little boy who can't express his thoughts correctly!! Let's talk to him!!

Find a bunch of people, beat him, and warn him not to stab him again.

You've already said the answer, what do you want others to say! It's obvious!

I'm in love with you, really -; Trust me. ~

Full of regret to let me dig it, Xie Bihail thanks.

Such a move is indeed very scary, especially when the other party looks very serious and says very scary words.

There's a hairy feeling to the bones.

It's scary, this kind of not making people mentally prepared, surprise is the most terrifying, and it will be extremely scary to think about it.

Encountering a rival in the workplace is not only a workplace fight, but also a psychological warfare.

First of all, seeing the other party as a "sworn enemy" itself loses to yourself mentally, which shows that the other party's position in your heart is important enough, you are inferior to the other party and afraid of the other party, and you are full of hatred for his advantages in all aspects. Therefore, the first thing you need to overcome is yourself, and what you need to improve is your ability and emotional intelligence in all aspects.

Even if the other person is not a friend, don't turn him into a sworn enemy.

Even if you are a professional competitor, you should be friendly and polite, not too hostile to the point that it affects your mood and work, so even if you can't let the other party become our friend, don't become a sworn enemy, one more enemy is to create a little more risk for yourself.

So,It's yourself who needs to exercise.

When you are capable enough, fearless in any challenge of your opponent, and confident in suppressing each other, no matter what you face with each other, what you have is definitely not disgust, but condescending and prideful, because he will never be your rival again.

In the face of many grievances, the two sides have become "opposites", of course, it is best to treat them coldly: do not approach or distance themselves, and keep a "safe distance", but they cannot avoid intersection in the workplace.

No matter what the reason, when you need to work together and have to face it, you must temporarily put away your personal petty grievances, focus on the overall situation of your work, and tolerate all the "unaccustomed" and "disgusted".

On the other hand, it is not a bad thing to have a rival in the workplace, the workplace is like a competition, and if there is an opponent staring at you, you will not slack off, and you will step up your efforts.

Secondly, "Rivals" can also give you a whole new perspective. Opposing opinions are often at odds with each other, and even if the other person's words are not in favor, you can find different suggestions from them, and it is also rewarding to see the problem more comprehensively.

In the end, it is precisely because there is the opposite person that it seems that you have your own opinions and positions.

As long as you can understand these and understand the real pros and cons, your mentality will naturally change, and you will not be particularly disgusted with each other, and your emotional intelligence will be better exercised.