Why is my life so bad?

Everyone's life is not smooth sailing, and through your description, you are saying that you can't meet someone you can talk to in your workplace, but the social circle is opened by yourself, and often you can't meet real friends at work, and you need to expand your interests and hobbies to find friends through outside of work.

The mentality is not right! Life is just a joke, if you laugh at everything, how bad will it be? Smile when you are proud, smile bitterly when you are frustrated, where is not to be funny in life? If you laugh at everything, it's just a game!

Hope it helps.

To make your life easy and not worried, first of all, tell yourself tomorrow that you are great, that you can do anything as long as you work hard, don't feel inferior, don't pander to others.

If you feel that you have a bad life, you should review whether you have not worked hard for so many years, which is why you have let your life be so bad.

It's just a small circle in your life. You can expand your development. You can have more contact with outsiders. Building relationships isn't that hard.

How long is your life? If you are only in your 20s, you can't say anything about your life, because a person can only say this when he reaches a certain age, like 60 70

Everyone's life is good or bad by their own choices, and a certain result is really the wrong choice when you choose, so you feel so bad.

In fact, don't be so pessimistic, in fact, your life is also very exciting, this requires your own efforts, if your level of effort is reached, it will definitely be very exciting.

The conditions are like this, but people are alive and can find ways to change them.

A person has a bad life, it may be that he is unlucky, or it may be that he is not working hard enough, it depends on his own reasons, if you work hard enough, maybe it is bad luck.

It is related to your own personality and temper, and you can get better by changing it slowly.

If you really can't communicate, you can only choose to separate. But what to do? You can't be half-hearted. Be a man with all your heart.

Anyway, you work to earn money, don't worry, just pay you a salary, you just do it yourself, work is work.

Sometimes you may feel this way, but if you think about it from another angle, it's not like that, so let's live well.

If you don't have a good life, you will create.

Then you will definitely be alone, all the time, no one to talk to.

Why is my life so bad? It may be because you didn't work hard to make your life better.

Why has your life been bad, you should find the reason from yourself, first find the subjective reason, and then find the objective reason, maybe the subjective reason is the most important, so you should find fault with yourself and reflect deeply, so you will find an accurate answer. Disguise.

First: laziness that goes deep into the bones!

Second: I can't control my physiological needs, eat, drink, prostitute and gamble, and infinitely amplify!

Third: selfish, narrow-minded, short-sighted.

Fourth: It is too easy to be proud, too easy to be self-righteous and forgetful, and does not know the truth of being prepared for danger in times of peace.

Fifth: forgetting righteousness and being overly greedy.

Sixth: blind comparison, vanity without a bottom line.

Seventh: Being too selfish and never considering the feelings of others.

Eighth: too cowardly, submissive, and timid.

Ninth: I don't know how to learn.

Tenth: Even if you know your weaknesses, you don't take action and don't make any changes.

It can't be helped, because that's life. Why do people encounter so many different troubles in their lives? It's inevitable, isn't it?

Why do you think a new life cries when it is born? Because he is here to accept the ordeal, otherwise there would be no human beings, and they would all be immortals, wouldn't they? In fact, no matter what setbacks you encounter, if you want to drive some, it will be okay for a long time, come on!!

Friend, in fact, life is very simple, as long as you do two things well, your life will be meaningful and perfect: I think the most important and must exist in these two things is "responsibility" and "faith"! We live in this world, not for ourselves, but for the responsibility of our families, and it is our greatest responsibility to do our best for them (her) to make them happy and happy; In order to realize our dreams, so as to show our self-worth, and never be discouraged in the face of difficulties, never give up, is our never-ending belief.

What do people live for?

If you say it's famous, it's too far away from ordinary people, and there are not many people who "linger for a hundred years" and "leave a stench for ten thousand years"; If it's for human beings, but it can't be connected with reality, scolding the street for a trivial matter, complaining and calculating for the sake of face, how can you talk about being a human being? If you are born naked and die with a pair of skins, but it is just a trip to the world, eating and drinking is very fake, eating and drinking are gone, and having fun can only anesthetize people, what's the point...

The road of life seems to be getting narrower and narrower, and it is very tiring, as if as long as you breathe a sigh of relief, it means complete destruction...

For what has befallen the world, and what has befallen the beast, and what has befallen it is the same: how this one dies, and how that one dies, the breath is the same. People can't be stronger than they were, they are all vanity. All in one place, all out of dust, and all in dust. ”

But when a person dies, it is not just an "emptiness", it is not that he dies and he is "a hundred", and there is an even more terrible ending of eternal perdition, eternal suffering!

When wandering at the crossroads, not knowing where to go, there may only be a sigh: what do people live for?

The Bible tells of Solomon, a wise king of great wealth who had whatever he wanted: money, fame, status, knowledge, and so on. But he actually wrote a book of Ecclesiastes, the vanity of vanity, all things are vanity.

He enjoyed everything, but he could not be made to rejoice in the material world. He later showed the way to the people"....But I know for sure that he who fears God, he who fears before him, will be blessed in the end. ”

"Why should I let those who love me be hurt? "I've thought about this question too, but it's not as serious as you, but then I understand, what does it mean to be hurt? If the person who loves you is gone, then what kind of hurt is deeper and heavier than this?

Are you miserable for me I was subjected to domestic violence when I was a child, and I was ridiculed in junior high school because of my red blood Now I have flat warts and scars, and I am guilty of living, and now I dare not go out.

The Buddha said, "To live is to suffer, not only yourself, but many people are like this, if you want to open a little bit, the endurance is still small, let the storm be more fierce, and then it doesn't matter."

Death solves problems that are not a problem!

Hello! Don't think too much, everything has its own ending! No one can change it!

It may be that the ever-accelerating pace of work or life has brought you great mental pressure, feeling psychological troubles, and need to be adjusted.

Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries.

How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.

5 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.

15 minutes, and after that, you'll feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure.

Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

Have a good mood!

People always have to learn to face these problems No one can go all the way to learn slowly When one day you look back, maybe life is like this Everyone has to go through the wind and frost to gradually succeed There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome Only people who are easy to fall down Don't sigh life Life is a drama Face it with a smile, maybe you will have another unexpected harvest May you be happy!

Dear, don't think so, actually. , you're really bad, and you don't forget to show off your ugly appearance in real time.

Don't be discouraged and try to stay away from those who are not kind to you.

Try to do your own thing, and you don't need to please people who don't like you anymore.

How do you know what is to come? Don't always care about what other people say...Some people are jealous, some people are proud, and they always feel that they are better than others...I hate this kind of person the most. Because of my poor family background, I was often looked down upon when I was a child, but I never cared about these, I believe that I will rely on my own efforts to make those people regret it at the beginning!

There is a certain truth in the so-called difficult temperament, and it is impossible to fundamentally change, so appropriate changes can be made! If others always look down on you, it may be that you have some problems with the appearance of others, and you need to talk about it in detail.

Take your time, you can participate in group activities, play games, etc.

From what you said above, it seems that it is difficult for you to get along with others, a person must have self-confidence, whether it is for life or work, sometimes a person has to reflect on himself, why is this, so as to change it, people want to exist in the society must learn to face the society, not to escape. Hope you can be happy.

The fate of one's life is in one's own hands, and as for one's own future, it depends on how oneself walks one's own life path. Real life is indeed cruel, but we must first have faith in ourselves, confidence is the beginning of success! You always have to believe that through your hard-working hands, in the end you will get what you deserve!

I wish you a speedy success!

Maybe this society makes people more and more tired, everyone has the value of his existence, it depends on how you look at yourself, find your own strengths, just as you do now, learn a skill, do your best is amazing, come on....

Stick to the path you want to take, and perseverance to the end is victory.