I m an ugly boy. Very inferior, autistic. What to do. No friends.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How old are you?

    I used to think so about myself, but I found it wrong.

    Because this label was imposed on me by others, and then I also followed other people's statements and labeled myself as ugly and inferior.

    Actually, it's not like that, but then I found that I have to think more fully than others when I do something, and I can understand other people's ideas better, and slowly I feel that I am just like others, very good, and then it really is.

    As the saying goes, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, we can't compare our disadvantages with the advantages of others, we have to explore our own strengths, and then we will make ourselves confident. A confident person will have a good temperament, especially for boys, temperament is more important than appearance.

    You are still very young, learn more things, make better grades than others, and then you will feel that you are a sunny boy.

    Happy to you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    As the saying goes, people can't look good, and there's nothing wrong with being ugly, just don't be ugly. First of all, don't look down on yourself, don't feel inferior, be confident!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You have to think about it first, read a lot of books, and then don't say anything else, you look at the one on the second floor, like that!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ugly, no need to have low self-esteem, everyone is born with no possibility to determine his appearance, no need to be inferior, you should let go of your heart, try to socialize with friends, they don't talk to you, you can take the initiative to talk to them, slowly your personality will be cheerful, there will naturally be more friends, friends, you don't care about your appearance at all, and you look good, can it explain everything?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe! When you regain your self-confidence, you will explain your identity.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Correct the way of thinking, and look at people, things and things objectively and comprehensively. The ruler is short, the inch is long, and everyone has strengths and weaknesses. People who are too conceited should be good at discovering the strengths of others and their own shortcomings.

    People who are too inferior should be good at discovering, discovering, and giving full play to their strengths, advantages, and resources.

    2. Cultivate and develop your own interests and strengths. Especially some meaningful, active interests and hobbies. It makes itself richer, and makes life more fulfilling, vivid, and interesting.

    It includes reading some useful books (such as literature, history, and inspirational books) to make your knowledge structure more complete. Pay attention to watching some social and news programs, constantly broaden your mind, horizons, and thinking, and increase your knowledge, insight, and understanding.

    3. Appropriately learn some knowledge, common sense and skills of interpersonal communication and communication. To do a good job in philology, including learning some polite words, blessing words, etc., you can first communicate with relatives and friends you are familiar with, and then slowly expand the scope of communication.

    4. Remember the truth that "failure is the mother of success". When encountering difficulties and setbacks, we must have confidence, patience, resilience, and be positive, optimistic and open-minded.

    5. Develop good habits of outdoor activities and sports. It's good for both body and mind.

    6. If you have bad habits and hobbies, pay attention to correcting them.

    7. If the problem is serious, it is recommended to consult a psychologist!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello dear, you should do this: first, learn to beautify the mind; The second is to learn to like yourself. If you have a beautiful heart and your heart is full of sunshine, if you have accepted yourself and liked yourself from the heart, then you will re-examine yourself with a bright smile: fat is plump, thin is slim, short is stocky, tall is tall, a few freckles, a few strands of gray hair, the shape of the bridge of the nose, the scar on the forehead, will be a playful and chic unique style.

    As long as you appreciate yourself and like yourself, everything in you shines with a unique youthful demeanor. Isn't that mole of a great man of a generation just a unique style! Learn to like yourself, and what's even more amazing is that if you like yourself, the people around you will gradually look at you and like you in this way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can be a radio DJ.,And the boy's handsomeness is only useful before the age of 30.,Accumulate more of your own connotation.。 Only if you are excellent will you let others like you, handsome guys are unreliable these days!! Genuinely unreliable. Affordable men are king.

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