What is it like to have a performance that does not match your strength?

I don't think the performance matches the strength, there are two states. The first is dysfunction. For example, in the exam, due to nervousness or sloppiness, the answer is wrong, and the market is played. The second is to exaggerate your own strength, but you don't have such ability.

This is a sign of a lack of self-confidence, and some people perform very well off the field or in training, probably because there is no psychological burden at that time. But when you actually go on stage or take an exam, you will have a nervous feeling and can't give full play to your strength.

Therefore, you should adjust your mentality well, don't let yourself have too much psychological burden, and deal with it easily. "When you practice, you take the test, and when you take the test, you practice."

I often encounter this situation when I am taking exams, is it probably due to the influence of the exam? Or the mentality is not very good, usually he does what he does, but he always has various accidents when he takes the exam, and then he can't get the score, and he feels that his usual efforts are a little bit worthy, but in the end, I can only learn this lesson, and then improve my mental ability in this kind of exam, so as to get better performance in the future exam.

I have always been the main force in the team, and I am often the focus of the opponent's attention, and I am still well-known in our small place. But in the game, there are always times when the state is not good and the performance is not good, sometimes I make low-level mistakes in a row, such as not scoring in the empty basket, making my own dribbling mistakes, such a performance makes my teammates hold their heads and feel annoyed, I myself am quite a scoundrel, but I don't blame myself very much, and my mentality is not bad, because I know that this is not my real level, and I can re-enter the state as long as I make adjustments.

Slap a swollen face and fill a fat man, who knows who hurts.

When I went home for the Chinese New Year, my husband boasted about his ability at the dinner table of relatives in his hometown, but not long after he came back, someone came to borrow money, and he didn't borrow much, just 3,000 yuan, but he paid the mortgage and car loan, except for living expenses, there was no extra money. For the sake of face, my husband actually used a small loan to give that relative, but as a result, in addition to the principal, the extra interest of 2000 is not counted, and five years have passed, and the relative has no intention of repaying the money.

Is it just an abnormal performance, speaking of which, my biggest regret is that I played abnormally in the college entrance examination. Because I made up for a year, I was psychologically unstable, and my classmates and teachers thought that my ability was no longer a problem, but I didn't give full play to my strength, and I ended up in a three-book.

I have a friend like this, to be honest, he is really difficult, but in front of our friends, he never shows that he has no money, and he buys a 3,000 yuan watch in installments when he looks good at other people's watches. Now he is in debt, but he is very beautiful on the surface. This is the kind of person who dies to save face and suffer sin.

I used to be inconsistent with my performance and strength, I suffered a lot, I didn't have money and liked to pretend to be rich, so I took out loans everywhere to pretend to be rich, and now it's time to repay the money, and I find that I don't have the ability to earn more money to pay back, and now I rely on my family to help pay it back, not to mention how much I regret it.