After confessing and being rejected, how to talk to her and be friends again

I'm in favor of No. 2. Since you like it, don't give up, in fact, it's good to be friends, at least you can see the one in your heart every day, in fact, in addition to love and acceptance, there is also a kind of love called (guarding) you don't want to say that you don't want to talk about and like her anymore, in fact, I think you don't want to face the fact of rejection, you think, since you have been rejected, you are making friends, so shameless. Is that right?

I'm just talking, don't be angry) [When love doesn't come and falls in time, then please let it pass.] Go and seek your own true protection, it will give you better love...Am I writing too much?

Flickering. I'm sorry, but I opened up the conversation all of a sudden. Flickering.

As before, how to greet and say anything when we met before, what should I say now, just be a friend, feelings can't be forced, if you still like him, you should respect her choice, now you can only wait silently, if she also starts to like you, you may be together, if you really like it, don't give up, but now you should be the best friend, just be back to your original self.

When you decide to confess to the girl or boy you like, you may be rejected by others, but at this time, you don't think that this is the case between you, in fact, you can start slowly from friends, but what should you do after the confession fails? Let's take a look at how to be friends after a failed confession and chat skills after a failed confession.

1. How to be a friend after a failed confession.

1. Don't be embarrassed after failure.

If you still want to continue to be friends, don't feel embarrassed after being rejected, even if you are embarrassed, you have to pretend to have a very natural expression, the more pure and natural you are, the more the other party can continue to treat you as a friend.

2. Don't contact them right away

After a failed confession, you will go through a period of awkwardness, so instead of talking awkwardly, it is better not to talk at this time and give each other a little time to calm down. After a while, you can comment on TA's circle of friends and chat with TA as friends naturally.

3. Constantly improve yourself.

Don't be sluggish after being rejected, and actively improve yourself! When you become a better version of yourself, they will feel that you are a very motivated person and may change their opinion of you. Even if you can't impress their hearts, it's a good thing that you can attract the attention of excellent people if you are excellent.

4. Don't overdo it.

There must be some mutual friends between you, so don't go around complaining to people after your confession is rejected. It's normal for the other party to reject you, don't say bad things about the other party, and don't post your very depressed mood on various social platforms, otherwise, if the other party knows, your relationship will be difficult to end.

5. Keep your feelings in your heart.

Maybe you're not dead yet, but you know that the other party can't accept you. Then hide this feeling in your heart, because you have already confessed, and confessing again will only drive the other party away.

2. Chat skills after confession failure.

1.Joke.

After many people fail to confess, they will have no contact with each other, or even no longer contact with each other, but some people will continue to chat with each other and continue to be friends through some very clever ways after they fail to confess.

2.Divert attention.

If the other party doesn't accept himself, he is also very sad. No matter how sad it is, whether it is work or life, you need to continue, so you can divert your attention, and you can devote yourself to some movies or TV series, or even some of your own work and study, these ways are ways to temporarily forget the boredom after the refusal of the table to do the inspection.

In fact, if the boy fails to confess, don't be discouraged, think from your own point of view, why the other party doesn't accept you, and what you are doing is wrong, if the other girl doesn't feel anything about herself, the boy can feel it himself.

First: It's not that I don't like this man at all.

The reason for a woman's refusal may be that she hasn't thought about it yet. I don't know enough about the other party, so I can only refuse first, but I vaguely feel that the other party seems to be good, and I am afraid of missing or making the wrong choice. So I left some room and didn't want to lose contact with him and cut off relations.

Second: I like to stock up on spare tires.

They have people they like, but they don't get them or haven't gotten them yet, and they're not sure if they'll be able to get them in the future. But this confessed man also looks okay, so he wants to be a friend first as a spare tire, and another day he can retreat to the second.

Third: I'm afraid that men will be sad.

This kind of woman is soft-hearted and kind-hearted and likes to be kind, so she wants to continue to be friends, wants to care and comfort each other in the role of a friend, and doesn't want to be too desperate and hurt each other's hearts.

Fourth: I don't want to offend people.

Some women are more cautious and cautious, for fear of retaliation and so on. Therefore, it will not be so direct to reject people thousands of miles away, so it will propose to be friends first, so that the other party can slowly let go of his indifference.

Fifth: The woman is still in an unfinished relationship.

But that feeling has been broken, but it has not been sorted out. At this time, I can't directly accept the confession of others, so I want to be friends first, keep this man by my side, and wait for myself to deal with the old relationship, and then start to develop again.

Sixth: Have the potential to step on multiple boats.

This type of woman may be vain and like to have many people chasing her in order to appear attractive. Even if they have a boyfriend and a partner, they will want other men to continue to love and chase themselves. When I say I want to be a friend, I just want to keep this person by my side, see if I can continue to use it, or if I can also use it as a back road or a tool to show off.

After confessing to her, she didn't accept it and would continue to chat with her. It is said that it is easy to talk about feelings when chatting, and maybe you will enter an ambiguous state while chatting.

Sometimes when the other party confesses to herself, the first thing a girl thinks of is not to agree, but to consider whether you are serious. Maybe the girl likes you, but she's not sure if your confession was a whim, or if she was joking with her and rejected you out of self-preservation.

If you ignore her, she'll be sure you're not serious. When you meet such a girl, you must be patient. Because she will in turn show favor to you and give you a lot of hints.

Some girls are like this, because she is afraid that she will be hurt, so she is very cautious about relationships, preferring to be single rather than start a relationship easily. Of course, this has to do with personal feelings and growth experiences. If you really like this girl and you feel that this girl is worth pursuing, then don't give up.

If you are rejected, don't do anything that touches you, and don't comfort yourself that she has a chance to talk to you. You should be honest with this failure and make yourself better.