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Choose your future with the most mature mindset.
Real friends, ordinary friends.
An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. A true friend has the shoulders to make your tears water.
An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names. A real friend has their** on the address book.
An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning.
An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps. A true friend will ask why it's only called now.
An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.
An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out.
An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest. A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.
An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.
An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever!
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A true friend can share joy and pain with you. Standing by your side and supporting you in your difficult times.
Of course. He's human too. There is also the possibility of making mistakes. But he didn't mean to hurt you.
The most important. He is able to tolerate your shortcomings. Put yourself in your shoes.
Trust between friends is important.
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There are no real friends in the world.
It's just taking advantage of each other.
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A true friend is the kind that will never dislike you, and you are lucky to meet one in your life.
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The person who walks with you through the wind and rain, the person who cries with you.
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knows how to use you but you can't see it; deceived you and told you that it was a white lie from him; betrayed you many times; said bad things about you behind your back, and you heard them and felt wronged; This is my personal experience. I was in pain, but I finally understood: friends are people who can use each other or need to use you, and as long as interests are involved, it is impossible to say what friends are.
I advise you not to ask such kind and simple questions, if you have the same experience as me.
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As a child, the reason for becoming friends was simple. Maybe I have a common interest in hobbies, Jun lives in the west of the village, I live in the east of the village, and when I want to play table tennis, I can make an appointment at school from afar. It may also be because of the proximity to home, the ability to talk about everything, and the farm work can often be done together.
Because I know enough, I feel at ease.
1. Along the way in life, there are many people who have met Tu Zhiduan, and there are also some people who have made friends. But later, some friends became passers-by, some friends turned against each other, and some friends never saw each other again, which was sad. There is a saying, this time, that time.
No one can stop in the past, and no one can stop for you.
Growing up, I found it especially hard to be friends. The years have changed, people's hearts are changing, and the former "dragging the family to meet each other" is just a later sentence. Your life is very different from his; What you want to talk about is not on the same channel as what he wants to hear.
2. No matter where you go, as long as the other party can leave a warm memory in your heart, so that you can recall it, and still feel that those years were not in vain, it is enough. It's not that they are separated for no reason, but the three views have long been different, and their hearts are gradually estranged, and they slowly withdraw from each other's worlds.
Don't be surprised at the fragility and transience of friendship, when the tide of time dissipates and the stone that symbolizes the truth of adult friendship comes to the surface. The truth of dating for adults is just three words: light, cold, and far. Friends, less is less, more often.
3. When you miss the days when the two of you used to stay together, you should also understand that such two parties are destined to separate, and it is better to let each other go than to force them together to increase their disappointment. Just say goodbye quietly, and go to each other's path before the two have a greater conflict, but leave the friendship at its best.
The reason why friends are friends is because they understand each other and take the initiative with each other. He keeps an eye on your news and is willing to listen patiently to see what can be done for you when you have something. And you, too, always remember each other and keep in touch.
4. In the end, many relationships are based on interests and each other's values. To this day, the truth is still the same. Under the interests, it is difficult to have true friends, whether we are willing to mature or not, the other party may have matured a long time ago.
Gradually, it disappears, just a symptom.
5. When a person no longer meets your needs, and a person can no longer keep up with your pace, you will consciously or unconsciously abandon him, and at the same time, you may also be abandoned by others. We will eventually become the old people of the mountains and rivers. What is a friend?
People who come together based on similar emotions or common interests. Therefore, it is also possible to drift away due to the divergence of interests and emotions that are no longer there. "Don't drag your friends on the road, look for friends on the road.
Everyone has a personality and a direction in life. If you force yourself to walk with someone, you will lose yourself. As a person who focuses on reading, if he devotes a large part of his energy to managing the world, he will be disturbed by the world and will not be able to be a "bystander of the world".
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Friends themselves are a kind of interest relationship, which is why there is a so-called true and false friend: you can get help from a real friend, that is, get benefits, while a fake friend is not.
Therefore, there is no difference between true and false friends, the difference between the so-called true and false friends is only in their eyes, some people think that your value is enough to compensate for his efforts, then he will be more generous to you, and some people think that your value is not enough to compensate for his contributions, then the friendship between you will only stay in name.
So the key is still yourself, your own personal ability determines your value in the eyes of others, and your positioning of yourself determines the expectations of others, which will affect the probability of you making "true friends".
The chances of a beggar becoming true friends with the upper class are very small, because he is worthless in the eyes of the upper class, and the benefits that the beggar can bring cannot meet the expectations of the upper class for the relationship between friends, but this beggar is easy to find friends among the poor buddies, because their value in each other's eyes is equal, and a beggar's expectations of friends are often much lower than those of the upper class.
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A real friend will be extra happy when you are happy, when you are sad, more anxious than you, she wants to make you happy, even more than herself, when there are good things, she wants to share with you, so that you are also happy, when you are sad, at first I don't want to tell you, I am afraid that you will also be sad with her, but I regard you as a real friend in my heart, so I will still confide in you, when you do something wrong, he will call you fiercely, but when he calls you, his heart hurts more, but he just doesn't want you to make mistakes, he doesn't want you to be wronged, When you succeed in showing off, he will not show off with you, just use the usual attitude to say "don't be scared, continue to work hard", in fact, he is happy for you, he may not understand you too well, but he will be with you for a long time from the beginning, remember what you like to buy, remember your loss, remember what you don't like to eat, remember your usual shampoo, remember you...
And a false friend, who is only talking to you about a superficial friendship, will say something nice and obedient (maybe not true), will not tell you about your shortcomings, when you celebrate, he will be the first to share your happiness, when you are in trouble, he will hide away and respond to you with all kinds of excuses...
Judge the friends around you, see what they are like, if it's fake, it's better not to make friends, if it's a real friend, it's good to cherish it! There are not many such friends in life!
Don't be sad when your true friend calls you, because he is for your good, don't think that he is a real friend when you hear sweet words, and good words are good for you!
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A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke. A true friend will try to help you, understand you, and pull you along.
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The standard of a true friend: not only can you not do without you when you are proud, but also can still follow you more when you are disappointed in life and work; Otherwise, it's a fake friend.
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Generally speaking, as a true friend, you will help your friend when he is in trouble.
Fake friends often excuse themselves for a variety of reasons.
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Usually I always look for you to eat and drink nonsense, and almost all of the people who party are fake friends. I haven't been in touch for many years, but I still warm up when I meet suddenly
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True friends are there to help you when you need or are in trouble! A fake friend is a brother who calls you a brother on the surface, and when you touch his interests or don't need to slap you, he will kick you away.
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When you are in trouble, it should be a real friend who will help you, and vice versa, a fake friend.
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A fake friend asks you for help because of something.
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You'll know when you're in trouble.
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Friends don't beat each other with two hearts, but two hearts are sincere with each other. Friends trust each other, care for each other, and love each other. When you make a mistake, he or she will be able to point out your problems or mistakes to your face, and will not point out your mistakes for fear that you will be angry.
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No matter how far away you are, you can keep in touch with each other, trust each other, share with each other, and support each other.
Won't be a friend with your crooked beans.
That's how I feel.
Thank you for adopting.
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1.The one who brings you out of the trough when you're sad.
2.Someone who laughs with you when you're happy.
3.Remind you of people who are not proud when you are successful.
4.Someone who gives you confidence when you encounter setbacks.
5.Someone who helps you in time when you need it.
6.and those who forsake thee neither when thou hast been rich nor rich.
Remember: a true friend is generous, and the person who accompanies you all your life is your lifelong wealth.
Cherish it.
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A friend who can really point out your mistakes、、、 never leave your friend behind in the face of difficulties、、、 stand by your side when you receive doubts, and always trust your friend.
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A friend is a friend who bears hardships and hardships together, enjoys the joy of life together, and never abandons it.
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When you are sad, they will comfort you, when you are lonely, they will accompany you, they will quarrel with you, they don't care about your identity, money, beauty and ugliness, etc., and so 、、、on
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Friends are not defined by words, real friends need time to reduce, it also takes time to increase friendship, and you need to pay the price with your heart to get your sincerity.
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Wealth is not a lifelong friend, but a friend is a lifelong wealth!
Because there are a lot of ordinary friends, and they come and go quickly. Only mutual appreciation, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, mutual support, honesty, affection and righteousness, mutual tolerance and no exclusive friends are the greatest assets in your life!
Friendship only sublimates, grows and develops after it is acquired! (despise plagiarism of my own answers).
A true friend is a good person who is thoughtful, caring, and will help each other.
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