I found that I gradually disliked the person I used to confess

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    With the passage of time, we will find that we are getting closer and closer to the people around us, getting to know more and more about her, understanding some of her things, and slowly entering our own lives, so we feel more and more, feel real, and feel cared! For people who are far away, we will slowly forget, slowly do not understand, slowly fade away in our own lives, slowly forget in our memory, and occasionally say hello, so how is it different from ordinary friends? You are slowly forgetting her, and she is slowly forgetting you, why do you think so much!

    Life is to look forward, to be real, realistic, the reality is that you like the people around you, and even better, the people you like also have feelings for you, I think you are lucky, why should you be melancholy! Even if you live with her and the woman from before now, it will be difficult to get back the feeling of the past, and it is impossible to go back to the past and return to her! I suggest that you say hello when you and her meet, just greet you as a friend, and those around you, seize the opportunity and seize the fate!

    Don't say sorry to anyone, do you have someone now? Is there anyone to be sorry for? The only thing you're sorry for is yourself!

    Think about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you fall in love with two people. Choose the second one, because if you really love the first, you won't like the second.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Just face it plainly, sometimes fate is very important.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't think that love is a noun, you can lie on love and enjoy it when you have it. In fact, love is a verb, and it needs to be cared for and irrigated by the operators of love all the time. "I remember saying something like that, and I agree.

    You don't have to dwell too much on who betrays and hurts whom, I don't think that a pair of lovers who haven't been in touch for a long time are in love with each other, I can only say that they love themselves more, they are not suitable or do not cherish each other and miss each other. didn't say that the breakup was actually a wordless end, just wait for time to precipitate her into a memory. Instead, you have to cherish your current relationship, communicate with her honestly, and even talk to her about your feelings, and she will definitely not think you are a betrayal like me, but sincere and responsible.

    Love is originally beautiful and pure, cherish her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Are you now entangled in the trade-off between love and responsibility, is the distance turning the original relationship cold, or are you growing up and changing, and the person you like has indeed changed? If you really can't see the future, it's better to make a decision early and don't delay each other. Persistence and abandonment, maybe just playing a **, whether the person is cold or hot is decided.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Nothing is more complicated than this. It can also be said that it is important to have a cheerful mood.

    Although go with the feeling. But sometimes it's not always right.

    In my opinion, the time to break is to be broken. Calm your head down and listen to the voices next to you. But don't reuse.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The former does not really accept your confession, the natural lover relationship is not established, like the latter, just do as you like! What is there to consider?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What's the tangle with that??? Love is like this, it's normal for you to fall in love with another girl, that's not called harm! Follow your feelings, you have been together before, so that's not called betrayal!!

    ok???With the girl you like, it's rare to have a happy relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    One foot on two, I'm sure you can, good luck! Personally, I feel that it is still the better point in the back.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There have been cases of confessions, but the timing of their confessions is often not good. It's all when I have a partner, so I'll refuse it directly. But none of these people are my favorite people.

    In fact, for me, even if someone I like suddenly confesses to me, I probably won't agree. Because the person I used to like very much at that time doesn't mean that I like it when I was young, maybe just because he was good-looking, or because some of his words moved me, but I feel that as we get older, there are fewer and fewer things that can be impressed.

    And the likes of the past are different from the likes of the present, how do you know that the young man in the past must be worthy of your current liking. After all, he was and he is now, not necessarily without change.

    Furthermore, although he likes you now, it doesn't mean that you must be single, if you are single, the two of you can start as friends first, if you find that you still like it as much as you did back then, then the two people have nothing together. relationship, but if you have an object, do you choose to give up your current object, or give up the person you like?

    If it were me, I would definitely give up on that person I liked. Because although I like him very much, I can't betray my current partner, so if I still have feelings for the person I liked before, then I will also make it clear to my partner. Choose to go after separating from him and be with the person you like.

    Because liking is a wonderful thing, maybe the person you liked very much one second will not like it so much the next. But it may also be that the person you liked in the last second, this like lasts for a lifetime. If I can't be with someone I like, I will tell him very bluntly, thank him for liking.

    This is his liking, which makes me, who liked him so much back then, seem to shine.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think that if someone I like once confessed to me, then I would consider my own situation to choose whether to reject her, and if I still like her, then I will not refuse.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This needs to be decided on a case-by-case basis. If I still like the other person very much, I will agree with the other person's confession, and if I don't like the other person now, I will reject the other person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If I still had a good impression of the other party at that time, I would not refuse the other party's confession, after all, this kind of mutual affection is very rare.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Some people are affectionate. Since it was someone I once liked, I must have really liked it, and maybe I didn't get the response I wanted at the time, so I had to be forced to stop. Now the other party comes to you, the only criterion depends on whether you still like him or not, if the answer is yes, then I think you can give each other a chance to get along again, so that you will not have regrets.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The key depends on whether I still like it now, if I like it, I will definitely not refuse, if there is an object now, I will definitely refuse, if there is no object but I don't like it, I will say get along slowly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If someone you used to like suddenly confessed to yourself, then you will definitely not refuse the other party, and you will feel very happy at this time, because being confessed by someone you like is something that many people dream of.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I used to like her, and now I have a good impression of him, and he confessed to me that I would promise him, regain this original liking, and smile happily.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Even though I used to like him very much, but now, I have a life of my own, and if he comes back to confess to me, I will refuse because I miss it in the end, and I miss it, and there are many things that I can't turn back, and it's like this. After this village, there is really no such shop.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, the person I used to like suddenly confessed to me, if I still have the same original intention as before, then I will not reject the other party, if I don't like him now, then I will reject the other party.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If someone I used to like suddenly confesses to me, I have to look at the situation, if I am not married, if I don't have someone I like, I will not refuse. But if I were to get married, I would definitely refuse.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The person I used to like suddenly confessed to me that if I like each other very much now, then I will agree to the other person, but if I don't feel for the other person now, then I will refuse, just as a dream when I was young.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I will be very relieved that someone I have liked suddenly confesses to me, and the less I will refuse him.

    However, if I have already found someone I like, I can only tell her that it is too late.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you are still single and have liked it, you should not refuse the other party's confession. Of course, time has passed, and now you may not like him, so you may also refuse.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If someone I used to like suddenly came to me to confess, I probably wouldn't refuse the other person. But this situation depends on whether I am single or not and whether I have someone I like.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Do you still like each other now? And consider whether you are single or not? If you have started a new relationship, then you must reject the other person.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let's see if there is still a heart that wants to be with him, if not, there is no need to promise him, if you don't love, don't hurt.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If I still like him now, of course accept it, and if I already have a better partner, then I can only say no.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Do you still like each other? If you like it, if the other party confesses, you will agree.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it were me, I would refuse, once was the past, and there was no turning back.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The person who likes it confesses to himself that he suddenly doesn't like it again.

    The first is that you may indeed like him very much, but in fact, a lot of love at first sight will become weaker and weaker after a long time, because you have been in love with him for a long time, or like her, but if she confesses to you after a long time, in the passage of time, you slowly like him less and less, and finally you don't like him very much. The second reason is that you don't necessarily like him, and it's not because your liking for him has decayed, that you have this illusion, but it's possible that you don't really like him very much, but because he has a lot of excellent points, and others admire him very much, or love him, you feel that if you can't get it, it will be very sour, and many people's hearts are always the best if you can't get it, and once you get it, you don't like it so much, probably because of this psychology, which caused you to suddenly dislike him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I've been through it before. I want to tell you that I just want to be his friend. One day, I texted me to be his girlfriend.

    My first reaction was impossible. Either he was joking, he drank too much, or he just made a bet with someone else. Anyway, he didn't believe it, directly refused, and didn't listen to his explanation.

    At the time he thought he wanted to play with me, but I didn't want to play with him. Later, he found a lot of lobbyists, and I got even angrier. I just feel that the farther away he is from me, the better.

    I couldn't stand it and he said he liked me. Can't I change what I like? That's what I thought at the time.

    Later, he said let's be friends. I agreed. Since then, I've always chatted with me as a friend.

    I still say I like me from time to time. Later, I calmed down. People say I like me and I have nothing to lose.

    Why is it so unique? I started listening to what he had to say, so I was sure he didn't just want to chase me, but really liked me, and was a little touched.

    But I know I don't like him. If he continues to touch me like this, he will end up hurting. Even though we're together, I don't really like him, and that's not fair to him.

    So, no matter what he said, I refused. One day he said he had a girlfriend and I said I wished him happiness, but I was sad. A few days later, he said they broke up and I was happy.

    Although I can't be his princess, in fact, I've always liked someone who doesn't like me, and I. I've come to realize that when I like someone, I'm stupid, and occasionally I think of his stupid expressions.

    So I believe that he really likes me. But that approach is unacceptable to me. If his approach wasn't like that at the time, maybe I would have agreed.

    Hehe, you think about it, because I've always been unique to him, I don't want to lose my pride in front of him, so I won't tell him what I think, never. Think about how I've always treated someone who likes me so much, but I always tell him I don't want to play with him. I think what I said earlier was really hurtful.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    After being confessed to someone I don't like, I may feel very confused, because I rarely have contact with him, why did he suddenly confess to me? I don't feel anything about him, I just know this person.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    People who don't like it confess to themselves because they feel very boring, and even feel bad taste.

    But I will say thank you politely and shake my head.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When confessing to someone you don't like, the first reaction should be surprise, and then you have to consider your feelings or how to reject the other person, after all, the other person is not the person you like.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Depending on the degree of personality charm of the person, if he is not bad in all aspects, not annoying, and not bad, but you feel that you don't feel it, then you will feel very regretful and a little satisfied; If the person is very annoying, not good-looking, and unpleasant, then only disgust and disgust remain.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course, I was surprised, and then I first thought about how to refuse the other party without hurting the other party, because the two themselves are not suitable, so a decent refusal is the best.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Although I don't like him, if it doesn't reach the point of disgust and disgust, I'm still happy in my heart, and it's still something to be happy to be liked by someone, isn't it?

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