How can I improve my temperament, such as what books to read and what to do!

Temperament is the embodiment of a person's inner cultivation and personal quality. A person's origin, character, cultivation, and education level can all be reflected in personal temperament. Here's an example:

When we walk on the street, we can always tell at a glance whether the person on the other side is a rural person or an urban person (I have no intention of discriminating against rural people), even if a rural person is dressed in fashionable clothes and looks like a city person, you can still see that he (she) is definitely not an urban person. Because a person's growth environment from childhood to adulthood will leave an imprint on his (her) body, it will have a great impact on their personality, living habits, and treatment of people and things, and the level of education is not high. Unless they have the knowledge to close the loophole.

If you are only 18 years old and already working, it means that you have entered the society without a university education. You feel that you are not mature and stable enough, firstly, because you are not very old, and secondly, because you have no knowledge to precipitate in you, so people seem very small and naïve.

If you want to improve your temperament, you can only read more and study more. It is not just to read a certain type of books and do certain things to improve your temperament, but to read a wide range of books, and to absorb all aspects of knowledge, in order to improve your knowledge and comprehensive quality, so that as soon as you speak, people will be impressed by you.

Haven't you heard of the phrase "poetry and books in the belly"?

Read more philosophical books, when your ideological realm goes up, the temperament of the whole person will naturally improve, even if you wear rags, you can't hide your temperament.

If you want to be vulgar, you can't reach it. If you're looking for a boost because of your work, I don't think you need to. It looks like I want to be a child to give others a sense of security. When everyone else is dull because of maturity, you have the innocence of a child, which is your advantage.

If you insist on being mature and steady in a short period of time, then watch more of the tragedy.

Although you are not asking about dressing, it is true that dressing can change a person's temperament, combing hair, wearing glasses, and wearing dignified clothes can help.

18 years old, still very young, you don't need to make yourself too mature, maybe vigorous and energetic is what you need.

Self-confidence and authenticity are the keys to success.

There is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book"。This poem of the people of fast moxibustion can fully reflect the benefits of books.

It's not enough to just have a book, you have to read it, put it in your stomach, and practice it.

Reading also pays attention to methods: Confucius said: "If you learn without thinking, you will be reckless, and if you think without learning, you will die.""。It is useless to just read books, but to understand the knowledge points you read and become your own things.

Look at Su Shi's: "There is poetry and books in the belly, and reading thousands of volumes is the beginning of the mind.""。

A learned person and a cultured person will naturally reveal a temperament that makes people feel comfortable and fresh.

Reading a good book is like making a good friend, talking to a wise man. It is beneficial to people's words and deeds, and the way of doing things, and people's temperament will naturally improve over time.

People's temperament is difficult to change due to nature. Reading can change temperament . Through the observation of people around them, the temperament of people who read a lot is very different from those with low academic qualifications.

Temperament is an internal thing, which cannot be seen or touched, but it can be reflected in a person's language, behavior, cultivation, and way of dealing with people.

There is a distinction between vulgar and urbane language. Since childhood, our parents have taught us to speak, and then we have read books, accumulated language, and improved our language expression skills. I read a lot of books, I have mastered more vocabulary, and I have a strong logical thinking ability.

Language skills will improve. What kind of expression is elegant, can be improved by reading.

First of all, people who read books are knowledgeable, understand the necessary etiquette, have a gentle personality, have a calm attitude towards others, and are easy to get along with others. A person who reads a lot of books has the air of books in his body, and under the influence of books, he slowly changes and forms a reader's unique words and deeds, and his way of dealing with others.