I m confused, are we really impossible?

I won't ink anything else. There's a lot of talk upstairs. I've also been through this as much as you do, and have done the same thing many times. Useless. I believe that most of the male compatriots have experienced it.

Don't think about anything in case, just in case you wait until you're old to understand.

Women, fickle, have ugly hearts.

Bury your wounds and find your true love again.

Why are we confused? yes, why? I don't know if they are confused or not? Are you confused or not? Anyway, I'll be confused for a while, and I'll not be confused for a while.

As a confused and anxious 18-year-old, it seems like I'm forever living in a whirlpool of self-denial.

I always thought that when I was 18 years old, I could watch the mountains and seas, and watch the sunset, but the facts tell me that I am still on my way. Iwahashi I always thought that all I wanted was happiness, but I didn't know what my happiness was.

Are there any college students who are not confused? It doesn't seem to be. When we arrived at university, we found that the way we study has changed, the pressure has changed, and we don't know how we should go.

The road ahead was like layers of fog that we couldn't see clearly. Little by little, we moved forward into the depths of the fog.

"Confused" is a label for college students. Why are we confused in college?

The first reason is that it was our parents and teachers who urged us in high school. At that time, we had only one goal: to get into college. Admission to university became our only goal.

In our eyes, 985 and 211 mean a good future and a good job. And the regular undergraduate and junior college means that we lose half.

In high school, there is no need for us to be confused. Parents and teachers have filled our schedules, and we don't have time to think.

When we arrived at university, our parents no longer supervised us, and our teachers no longer managed our studies, so we had more spare time. How exactly should we organize our lives? There is no way we can face it.

Suddenly having to arrange your own things is also a matter of adaptation.

Therefore, many students are "confused" and don't know how they should go, and Na Fang doesn't know what to think about what they will look like in the future.

Xiao Ming was admitted to the undergraduate school as he wished, and he suddenly became uncomfortable in the undergraduate school. His grades in high school were relatively good, and when he got here, he found that everyone was at the same level as him. He couldn't find the confidence he had, and he didn't know how to develop it.

He wastes all his time on games, and for him, only games can help him find the value of his existence.

The second reason is because we have reached such an age. The psychological task to be accomplished by college students is the establishment of self-identity. This is something that every college student needs to accomplish.

Every college student will be confused because they need to complete the establishment of self-identity, which is the stage that everyone must go through. Or it can be said that confusion is the stage of psychological development that every college student faces.

"Self-identity" in layman's terms is whether you can understand yourself more clearly, whether you have a clear understanding of your future, and whether you have a good understanding of your role.

After we understand the confusion, we will find that everyone will be confused, and the confusion shows that we are still young from the side, and this hole is the envy of many adults.

After understanding the confusion, how can we keep ourselves from being confused? We can try it from the following three aspects.

Hello! Because I didn't see the road ahead, I didn't know what I should do, and I may have encountered something that I couldn't solve and couldn't get out. When you feel confused, think about whether you are restrained by something and the accusation and defense experience?

This thing may be a distraction, it may be a certain person, it may be a certain thing. When such a feeling arises, quickly enter the review stage, find the reason, and thus withdraw yourself from the sense of confusion. <>