Will a person who is too discerning between right and wrong live an unhappy life?

It's okay.,Actually, it's too much to worry about others.,Such people actually hope that those things that aren't good enough are perfect.,But in reality, everything is incomplete.,You can't change much by one person.,It's a little bit of a waste of worry.。。 So try to relax and see the beauty in the incompleteness, just like the good and bad in everyone's heart are many different, what you think is bad may be thought by others to be good, so take a break yourself.

Yes, people say that it is difficult to get lost, and when the water is clear, there are no fish.

Of course, because the world itself is not made up of right and wrong, and it is very tiring and extreme to have to divide right and wrong, and if you look at the spectrum, there is an excess between each color, and thus a world of color is created, not a world of black and white.

The world is gray, not just white and black.

Yes, the one who makes the mistake may not be painful, but the one who sees it is painful. So, don't judge others.

I think this person may think that he knows right from wrong, but in fact he is not, and I think that a person who really knows right from wrong is actually wise and foolish.

Yes, this unhappiness has two parts: external and internal.

The external causes are: if you are too discerning, others will be jealous of you, will worry about you, will fear you, and will have a certain negative influence on you, so that you will not be happy;

The internal causes are: often walking in the two extremes of right and wrong, good and bad, black and white, you have to figure it out, you don't allow ambiguity, too much internal friction, physical and mental exhaustion;

You should learn: if you are wise and foolish, it is rare to be confused, and you are stupid and stupid.

What is right and wrong, after being discerned?

I guess I'm here to ask for myself. Reasoning is to guide oneself not to do things that are not in line with principles and avenues.

Unhappiness is because we unintentionally measure or demand these norms from others, lamenting that the world and people's hearts are not ancient.

Asking others is the easiest thing to get yourself into unhappiness.

Demanding oneself can make oneself feel at ease, and asking others to follow the same concept of right and wrong as oneself is a kind of forcible demand, which will bring inner troubles.

Because it violates the basic facts, the fact is that everyone is very different from each person, we respect certain norms, but we can't and have no right to demand from others, and whether we do right or wrong is considered by everyone from the starting point of their own interests and needs.

By figuring out and accepting this reality, we don't need to use our unhappiness as the price of our own understanding!

Accepting some axioms is our happy and voluntary thoughts! That's enough!

Being ourselves is also a beautiful little flag, and after a long time, some people may feel good and join in learning!

Because everything should be made clear, so that others can understand and not oneself, and that's the reason.

Because that kind of person thinks that what he says is right, why should he listen to you.

I don't know if you've ever heard your parents say that when you were a kid, you are blessed to suffer. This principle should have been passed down from generation to generation and used to this day, I didn't understand too much why suffering is a blessing, I always felt that only fools are willing to suffer. After all, suffering a loss means that you have a loss, and you can't even protect your own rights and interests, let others take advantage of it, isn't it a fool to do this?

But the more I grew up, the more I realized that fools are the happiest. The more we see and understand, the more we will be disappointed in the world. When you really understand something, you will find that sometimes, it is better to live in a vague way.

Whoever is more sober than anyone is crueler than whom, when we were children, we looked at the world, the sky was blue, the grass was green, what was right was right, and what was wrong was wrong. It was the happiest time for us, because we didn't understand anything, and we were curious about everything. The world is all new before our eyes.

Later, as we grew up, we began to see a lot of things that were different from what we imagined. And those things shatter our beautiful view of the world. We begin to discover this ugly world and begin to feel the horror of the human heart.

For everything around us, we don't think about problems in the same way as before. We're starting to see the scheming of everyone around us.

If you are a rich man, you are surrounded by beautiful women, and you have a young and beautiful wife, of course you know that the women around you are with you for your money, and you know very well in your heart. But if you keep understanding it like this, you will feel that all this is so ugly, and you will not be able to look at these beauties around you with an appreciative eye for beauty, and you will not be able to feel pleasing to the eye at all. Isn't that a painful thing?

Obviously, you can enjoy it to the fullest, but you have to make yourself unhappy for the sake of your own clear understanding, isn't this finding yourself unhappy?

The root of people's unhappiness lies in living too clearly and clearly, what if you have seven exquisite minds, if you see too thoroughly, you will feel that all the surroundings are dark, and you are the only one in the light. You may even want to save those who don't quite understand it. Everyone is drunk and I am sober, no one can understand you, no one will admire you, you can see clearly, some people are willing to live in confusion.

Sometimes self-deception is also a kind of happiness. Therefore, do not think that sobriety is also wisdom, and you can be happy, but in fact, great wisdom is foolishness.

It may be that you don't want to grow up yet, although you were silly in your childhood, but you were really happy.

In the words of Chen Zhengsong, a famous brand figure in the world, true happiness is to live in the hearts of everyone, to be needed, loved, and respected. The degree of happiness depends on the rate at which your wealth grows.

A person whose wealth grows too slowly is that he thinks too much about himself and too little for others, and throughout the ages, he has never found a selfish person who has achieved any career success. If you want to make a difference in life, you must not only be literate, but also know people, you don't know people, you don't know people, people are not right, everything is sparse, people are wrong, even if you do more, it is a word "tired", why are the poor tired, because the poor only look at money and do not look at people.

Teacher Chen Zhengsong told us that happiness will not take the initiative to come to you, beg you, and beg you, only if you take the initiative to create happiness and manage happiness, can you live in happiness.

When you understand it a little more, it will become bland and happy.

The smart bai people see the world too clearly, but sometimes they can't do it

Table remarks, dao or what, you can only hold back, this vulgar point is that you obviously want to, but you have to hold it and you feel good? And it's easy to be greedy, and if you don't know how to be satisfied, you will be very tired and tired. Besides, fools, their world only has sunshine, few requirements, easy to satisfy, can they not be happy.

Because people who are smart and clear know a lot, they will become more and more troubled. Sometimes we should learn from some fools. It's just nothing.

Sometimes the more you don't understand, the better. Happiness is often simple. Let's not overcomplicate happiness.

Tightly tense, happy, happy, not a good thing.

The smarter people think about things, the more they think, the more tired their hearts are, and they live a very miserable life, and there are only a few decades in their lives.

Rong Huang is in the past, so everything wants to open, and if you can live it, such people will live happily, precisely because fools think less about things and are carefree so that they can live a big age.

Smart people are usually good thinkers.

A lot of things don't stand up to scrutiny.

That's why it's rare to be confused.

There are not so many big things in daily life.

The little things are a little confused, a little bit, a little bit.

I am also a little happier, and the people around me are a little more comfortable.

Have you ever heard a sentence to copy?

Smart bai is mistaken by smart! Fools have fortune!

In fact, it's du, zhi smart people think too much, and they think too much, they don't want to be lost, they always want to take advantage, so, don't look at them as if they are very glamorous, in fact, they are not necessarily better than people who look stupid, they are too tired!

And stupid people, in fact, are not stupid, but people don't think so much, and they don't care so much, people live a very simple life, although sometimes they suffer a lot, and they look stupid and naïve. Sometimes it's a blessing to suffer. Life is simple, open-minded, optimistic, so life is easy and tasteful, so how can life not be long!

People, the key to longevity is mentality. People live with a breath, and people are smooth, and people are smooth!

Who told you that smart people live more painfully than fools? Chicken soup for the soul, easily poisoned? For example, if I give you an example, an old man who smokes every day until he is 95 years old and dies, and as a result, you think that smoking is harmless to your body.

Isn't that? You know a few smart people, you know a few fools, don't take an example to represent the whole.

This is a universal social law, because the smarter you are, the more you know, and the more you know, the more painful it becomes.

The reason why smart people are miserable is because smart people think too much about complex problems, but they are too tired of thinking about themselves, a real fool will not think too much about complex problems, if a fool really thinks too much and too smart, he will not be called a fool.

The so-called smart person is too understanding, too calculating, too serious, putting on his own shackles, and getting along with others in tiredness! On the contrary, the so-called fool, that is wise and foolish, and sees everything indifferently, in fact, it is a problem of mentality!

Because smart people have good brains, they are always willing to think about some things, and they think too much, so they are very tired and have a lot of troubles, so they are unhappy. And the fool doesn't want anything, he knows how to eat and drink, so he is very happy.

People's suffering** is more than desire, and smart people will definitely have desire, so if the desire cannot be realized, they will feel pain. What desire can a fool have? But really smart people know how to be satisfied, so there will be no pain!

Because he has food to play every day, it is easy to be satisfied, and the more things a smart person knows, the less he finds that he knows, and keeps exploring and discovering new knowledge.

Because a normal person knows the ups and downs and knows how to fight for life. On the contrary, a real fool does not know how to fight for life, he will be carefree, he will eat when he has food, he doesn't know what sorrow is, he only knows that he has food to eat, and he will not die of hunger, so he will be happy. I don't know what to worry about, I only know happiness, and my life will be long.

As the saying goes, sorrow, sorrow, sorrow, sorrow, nothing to do.

You're not a fish, how do you know how a fish feels? A wise person is not necessarily miserable, and a fool is not necessarily happy. There are no absolutes in everything.

The result that the gap between the ideal and the reality cannot be bridged.

The more you know, the more you want, the more you can't get, the less you know, the less you want, the more you can do, the more you can be happy.

The smarter people think, the heavier the load, and the heavier the responsibilities and obligations. And your so-called "fool" is content, peaceful, and lives for himself, without carrying anything, and of course will live happily and live a long life.

Smart people think about things a lot, of course, they will be tired and painful, so if they can't think about it, they don't want to think about it, live one day less than one day, don't put anything in their hearts, life is just a few decades and pass quickly, why think so much, it's not good for the body.

Smart people think too much about things, they will be very tired if they think too much, they can't all be good things, of course they will be troubled and painful when they encounter bad things, fools are fools, they only know how to eat and drink, they don't care about anything, and they don't have people and things in their heads, of course they are happy.

It's not that smart people suffer, it's that smart people don't use their smart minds to make themselves unhappy

Fools are carefree, and even if they are hungry, they don't know how to eat, they only drool.

There will be gains and losses, and there will be gains and losses. If you want to live a happy life, then don't pursue too much. If you pursue too much, then you must learn that you don't have much happiness.

Life is like this, you can't have it both ways. There are a lot of things in the heart, and that will definitely be suppressed. If you can release all your psychological things, you will find that the stress is gone, and you will naturally become happy.

People mature with age. Your thoughts and desires are growing. You will feel that nothing can satisfy you.

So you will be more and more unhappy. Life in childhood was nothing more than a blank slate for you. Nothing has been contaminated.

Even a small lollipop can make you happy for the day. And as you get older, you see more things, and you see more things.

Learning to be mature and sensible can be really hard. In this process, some people may suppress their desires and emotions to avoid conflicts with others, and may even directly lead to the habit of not daring to reject others and only pretending to be themselves, thus leaving many grievances and regrets for themselves.