In the face of someone I don t hate too much, is it okay to consider getting married?

If you are a person who is very emotionally apathetic, it is likely to be a black hole when it comes to love. Now you may be marrying for the sake of getting married, so it's okay to marry someone you don't like very much, but you don't hate too much.

The relationship of love at first sight seems romantic, but there are not many that can last for a long time. And the relationship that is slowly cultivated after marriage can last a long time. Especially when this person likes you very much, and has a stable job, and is a real young man, then you should be happy after marrying him!

When two people love each other deeply and get married, both parties feel that the other should give more. However, the fact is that after getting married, everyone needs to face more things together, but they don't have the energy to treat each other better than when they were in love, so there will be a lot of contradictions at this time, and these contradictions always make everyone very sad and can't be relieved at all. Every quarrel will dilute the feelings of two people.

If one person in a relationship likes the other person more, and the other person feels ordinary, this relationship will often get better after marriage. The party who likes it will cherish this hard-won happiness, and the party who is liked will slowly feel the sincerity of the person, and of course it will be slowly moved, and will eventually transform this feeling into love.

The feelings that have come step by step are also very gentle when they go through the run-in period, and they will not seem too excited, and because everyone is very careful, so such feelings are not easy to come to the brink of breaking, so everyone will cherish the feelings exchanged for sincerity very much, and they will go further in the future.

So if you don't have other suitable candidates in your heart now, and you don't have a very good feeling for love, you can consider marrying him when you meet such a person who has no obvious shortcomings, likes you very much, and you don't hate it!

I think getting married is a very important thing, you have to think about it very carefully, and don't choose a person just because his conditions are good. There are too many things to consider in a marriage, and the most important thing is love, only two people who love each other can make this marriage go a long way.

Some people have been on a blind date for a long time and feel numb to marriage, and feel that it is okay to find someone they don't like, as long as he can meet the requirements of being together. But I don't think it's feasible, and I think everyone will have a suitable person for you. The right person who belongs only to you.

What a long thing a life is, if you are with someone you don't love, that life will be too wronged. Maybe you feel that others are not annoying and can be together, but after a long time, you will begin to envy the kind of loving couple and envy the loving marriage of others. Over time, you will start to get bored with him, and then there is no basis for love between you, and the relationship will soon be defeated by this boredom.

I think I can only be friends with someone I don't hate too much, and if it's a lover, it's reluctant, and it's not okay to be a husband and wife for a lifetime. If you always give in like this, always force yourself like this, in the end it is you who regret it, because after a long time, there is no affection between you, and this love is an empty shell. In marriage, only by loving each other, can we tolerate each other's shortcomings, everyone will find each other's countless shortcomings after marriage, sometimes it is not the same as what you thought at the beginning, but if you don't have love, there is no way to fully tolerate each other's shortcomings, you will feel that the other party is different from what you imagined, and you will begin to regret this relationship and regret this marriage.

In response to this problem, everyone has their own choices and practices, and this situation is also often encountered by many men and women, such as two men and women who met through blind dates, and finally they may enter this situation, and they are not so annoying to each other in the end, but when it comes to getting married, they don't have this impulse, and if they don't get married, they don't have any other objects. This is what a married colleague of mine told me, and she used to ask me similar questions, and as far as she knows, most people actually choose to be together in such situations.

Of course, it's not an intolerable thing to not hate each other and get married, as long as you are willing. You must not reluctantly choose to marry each other, and then you are extremely annoyed, that is, you are irresponsible for yourself and the other party, and this behavior should be condemned. Maybe you don't have 100% sincerity, but the other party pays 100% sincerity?

It's very unfair to the other side.

It is essential to consider whether to marry someone or not, and the second is whether you want to spend this life hand in hand with the other person. When you have the consciousness to spend this life with him, it is possible to live a good married life with the other party, otherwise if you are unwilling, it is easy to have contradictions and estrangement, which is equivalent to burying a marriage in your own hands. So when you want to enter a marriage, you must think about it carefully, maybe you don't necessarily love each other at the moment, but you must be ready to overcome the difficulties in the future with the other party, and take an irresponsible attitude to enter a marriage will hurt many people, and think twice.

Of course, if you decide not to be with others, be decisive, and don't drag your feet.

The future that makes you sad now will definitely make you forget, the future that makes you happy now will not necessarily accompany you, falling in love is about the present, and marriage is about the future, what will really affect your life is not the current mood, but the character of the other party, the one who will be greedy for love is not necessarily a good man, but the one who does not talk about love may be a good husband.

If it were me, I wouldn't be married! After all, it is difficult to be happy in a marriage without feelings!

I definitely won't marry someone I don't love, although I don't hate him, and I won't marry him, because I think a marriage without love can't last long, and a happy marriage must have love as the foundation. Although many people say that love and marriage are actually two different things, but in married life, there are too many trivial things, and two people will definitely have a lot of contradictions.

Many people feel that their age is not young, and if they are waiting for love at this time, they may miss the best age to get married, so they go back on a blind date, and then find one they don't hate, and get married. And whether such a marriage is happy or unhappy may only be known by those who have experienced it, but for those who are demanding in their love life, it is unacceptable that they can live together without love.

A marriage without love is not worth looking forward to, and such a marriage can only be improvised and described, which is a very helpless thing. Therefore, love is definitely the foundation of marriage, and a marriage without love must be carefully chosen, life is only a few decades, don't waste your youth on things that are not worth it, and don't do things that you regret. Love may be late, but it will come, as long as you wait patiently.

In short, no matter what choice you make, you still have to face life seriously, marriage is a very difficult thing, and it is also a big thing in life, you must consider making a decision, if you must make a decision, you must pay everything to take it seriously. Life is to be content and happy, so that the days will be more chic. Love is what everyone yearns for, I hope it can arrive earlier, and my other half can be in the wind and snow, such a life is truly happy.

I wouldn't marry someone I don't love but I don't hate either, because I think that to form a family with someone is to have a loving presence, otherwise I will become extremely miserable.

I feel like there's a good chance I'm going to marry someone I don't love, because there's a good chance I'll be defeated by reality and compromise with it. But I still want to be with someone I love. But if you marry someone you hate, it's completely impossible.

No, I think you should marry the person you love the most, not marry someone who has no feelings, otherwise you will regret it, and you will not be happy.

No, because marriage is still based on love, and love includes including an inexplicable liking for each other.

You have a heartfelt appreciation for a certain shining point in him, and there are two people who have this desire to be close. If not, the marriage itself is not very stable, so I will not marry for the sake of getting married.

Yes, after all, even if love reaches the moment of marriage, if you don't know how to transform it into family affection and don't know how to maintain intimate relationships, it will sooner or later become an enemy and become a general, there are not many such examples.

Therefore, there is no problem in finding someone you don't love very much, and the most important thing is whether the two of you can get along in life; whether they can be interdependent in the maintenance of emotions; whether the two people have the ability to love themselves and have a sense of family responsibility; Can we grow together? - This is the most important issue that should be considered in marriage.

The essence of marriage is never because of love, because you haven't found it, because love marriages don't last long!

But love and material things are indispensable in marriage.

This love is actually the ability to love yourself and your family, even if two people don't feel love at first, it doesn't prevent you or her from developing the ability to love each other.

The material things are: raising children, reducing personal costs, redistributing resources.

When you understand what the nature of marriage is, you will find that before marriage, it doesn't really matter whether two people are in love or not!

Marriage is marriage, love is love.

Not all marriages have love, and not all love can enter the marriage hall.

I would choose to marry someone I don't like, and marrying someone I don't like has the following characteristics.

First, the division of labor is clear, and there are not many contradictions.

It is precisely because there is no affection between two people, so women will have no expectations for their husbands, in fact, many conflicts in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women will have a lot of strange requirements if they blindly ask to be loved.

So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.

Second, the self-satisfaction of emotional value.

Women often think about whether their other half loves them or not, and she feels happy when she feels loved, and feels sad on the contrary.

In fact, emotional value is the most useless thing, the sun will not rise because you are depressed, and the night will not come a little later because you are happy today.

So what's the difference between being happy and unhappy?

Perhaps the most important thing is to achieve a marriage relationship where 1 plus 1 is greater than 2, when you pin your happiness on yourself, you will get it.

For example, for the wife, the husband's flowers on Valentine's Day are nothing to look forward to, she thinks that the flowers she bought cost 100 yuan, and the husband bought them is also worth 100 yuan, so there is no difference between what she buys and what her husband buys, and at this time her happiness can be self-satisfied, and she will become a stronger person.

Third, men are more likely to succeed.

A man's character should be neither humble nor arrogant. I'm good to you, you're good to me, and I treat it like a treasure. I'm good to you, you're not good to me, I'm abandoning it and looking for the next one.

There will always be women who will appreciate you. Then, you get married, have children, work hard, and make the family better.

You were born to your parents, and you have been poor for decades, but you can't be soft-boned. Soft bones never end well.

When you marry someone you don't like, you don't need to meet his bizarre demands, you can concentrate more on your work, you don't need to have all kinds of messy holidays, you don't have to face your wife's changing emotions.

Love is short-lived, hormone secretion is also temporary, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old, so choosing to marry a person you don't like, and choosing a more suitable person to marry can reflect the value of marriage greatly.

So I will choose to marry someone I don't like, the best result is that the person you like is also the right person for you, if not, maybe choose a suitable marriage partner is happier.

I won't regret it.

In love, if you can't go through the life with the person you love, there are regrets, some people may not be able to marry the object of love very much because of family reasons when they are young, and he may break up with that object for the sake of his family.

In this society, the cost of marriage is too great, and having a house and a car is extremely important in the eyes of parents, and they can only make such unreasonable demands for their daughters to be happy, but they don't know that their daughters don't value these.

Marriages without love will end sooner or later, when you marry a boy whose family conditions are good, but you don't love him, you will find how wrong your decision is, and you will begin to regret it, in fact, sometimes if you stick to it a little bit, the ending will be much better.

If I don't marry the person I like, there is a premise that the other party also likes you, for me, if the other party also likes myself, I also like each other, then I must regret not getting married, the two like each other but can't be together The kind of mental torment is actually difficult to describe in words, regret may be just a form of expression. If it's just that I like the other person and the other person doesn't like me, even if there will be regrets, then I won't regret it, because you can't ask people to like you, and you don't have that right. Then there is only the last one left, the other party likes you but you don't like the other party, maybe you understand that the love at that time is too unclear and clear, there are regrets, but there are not many regrets, when you look forward to the arrival of love, love is already waiting for you in the same place.