Help me solve a psychological problem, okay?

No, don't think so much, everyone's thoughts are different!

There's nothing wrong with liking someone because the temperament, the charm of the song, and the magic of creation attract you. This is normal, because people love to fantasize. So the more we care about the impossible, the more we want to pursue it.

So you like Jay not called crazy. But liking to be tight is a part of life. Or your work and life and friends and loved ones.

These are all things that you will be indispensable for the rest of your life. Take control of your life, and since you like Jay, let's see what attracts you. His character, his language, his pre-talk, his temperament, and how his charm came about.

These are all things we have to learn when you understand why Jay is so popular. You'll know why you like him so much!

Learn from his strengths! Don't believe other people's nonsense about Jay Chou being unpatriotic. I've been studying Jay for 10 years, and I hope to be a friend and help you enlighten.

No, you just like Jay too much, and you like it a little too much! After all, we are not people from the same area as him (of course, if you have ambitions to go hand in hand with him, you can), they just say that Jay is bad in front of you, they want you to face the reality and strive to become a successful person like Jay Chou!

It's a good thing to have idols, idols can help a person move forward, and they are a person's motivation! But if it is only blind worship, it is false worship, worship must have a limit, and it cannot exceed this limit, and if it is exceeded, it will get the opposite effect!

No, if you like it, you like it. Stick to your own decisions and be happy. You can do whatever you want. It doesn't matter what people say. When someone says he's bad in front of you, it's okay if you think he's the best.

No, you're just more obsessed with the point than the average fan, and if you think it's not good, you can like other singers as well, thus reducing your love for Zhou. This is the method of emotional transfer.

Not counted. In fact, this is the idol in my heart. You don't have to worry too much about what others say. As long as you like it, but you have to learn something from him that is good for you.

Probably not, just don't like it too much, have a certain degree.

On the surface, you are afraid of a small animal, but carefully experience your emotions, behind your fear, you point to your relationship with your mother, especially in childhood, the insecurity formed by neglect of care, under the change of the external environment, induced again.

Babies or young children, if they do not receive the attention and careful care of adults, will grow up with a strong sense of distrust of the outside world, and often feel that there is a crisis. It seems that your mother's heart is not particularly delicate, and it is estimated that she is also relatively negligent in her desires and desires when you were a child. Then these subconscious backs accumulate.

In fact, the power of any kind of small animal is not stronger than that of humans, and they hurt people out of a kind of self-defense. It is estimated that you have encountered such an environment with rats, which has made you regress to a childhood state, and is arousing your family's attention and protection of you.

By facing up to your own psychological weaknesses and shadows, you can get out of the circle that limits you.

The symptoms clearly point to zoophobia, and it is best to go to a specialist hospital to confirm the diagnosis.

Phobias are relatively common, for example, fear of heights, fear of dogs zoophobia, fur phobia, claustrophobia, etc.

You are light, you have a kind of agoraphobia, you don't dare to go to an open place, you can't even get out of the house, that has a big impact on your life.

For phobias, there is a very well-established system of cognitive behavior**.

If you really want to change, you can talk to a counselor or specialist.

Looks like it's time to **. It's too much to be afraid of mice, and there are a lot of cute things about rats. Buy a pet mouse and keep it for a while.

I was afraid of snakes, and when I was little, my lord caught a snake for me to play with, and I fainted on the spot, until I got bigger and had a girlfriend, and my girlfriend and I saw a snake while hiking, and I thought I would run, but I didn't run away and picked up a stick like a snake and swung it, if you're so afraid of mice, find a girlfriend you love very much, and then face the rats with her. I'm sure you won't be scared.

You are a mental illness, a shadow of childhood, and it is recommended that you get a cat.

Why does the brain sometimes think about a problem all the time, afraid that something is happening, and be anxious, worried, afraid, fearful? I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain, all human behaviors and feelings are the activities of my own brain, human beings (including animals) in order to survive and continue must have a sense of anxiety to protect themselves, the higher the IQ, the more these characteristics are, this is the instinct of evolution, all the worries and fears of human beings are based on this instinct, irresistible, the root of various neuroses such as obsessive-compulsive disorder is also based on this instinct, everyone's living environment, growth experience, and knowledge level are different, so everyone is worried, Fear is also different, and each person's different time may be different, in fact, this is the focus of everyone's brain at this moment (excitement), but this is irrational, people's emotional feelings rely on the brain's sensibility rather than rationality, so people who can't convince themselves are painful, not that they understand this truth rationally.

Neurosis is the instinctive reaction of the brain, just like when you are hungry, the brain will have an instinctive response to eat, so I don't think this should be called a mental illness, there should be no mental illness in this world, it is the instinctive reaction of the brain at this time, this experience, and under this condition.

You are not sick, you are normal, your feelings are the inevitable reaction of your brain at this moment and under this condition, this is the instinct of the brain, it is the instinct of human evolution, it is normal to have this reaction, and those who do not react will face huge losses, so it may be really sick!