Am I a ruthless person? 20

There is no ruthlessness or ruthlessness, only right and wrong. If you feel like you should be ruthless, it's not painful. If you don't do what you should do ruthlessly, it will be wrong. Leave each other with deep pain, what pain, what pain.

It's hard to be a man, it's hard to be a man, but you have to have a heart, a conscience, and after being able to recognize, it's a good thing to correct it, and treat others sincerely, and you won't be ruthless.

Let's just say that the company is not opened by you, it depends on whether the leader approves it or not. If you really don't want to help, just say that there is no shortage of people now, or you can arrange a position that your brother doesn't want to go to at all. I'm also often compared.,I'm bored.,It's better than other people.,It's very boring.。

Your brother and you should be able to play well, and there should be no difference in age. On the other hand, if you help your brother, your uncle must be so snobbish that he will be impressed with you, even if you may not need that impress, but it is me who satisfies vanity. Alas, the gods and horses are all floating clouds, the past is gone, and they are always entangled by themselves, and people don't necessarily always think about it, do they suffer by themselves.

It's not ruthless, it's just that your uncle has made it darker. What to do in the end depends on your mood...

This is the person who is too realistic, there are too many such people now, and almost everyone has such people around them now. When you are still starting a business, you don't give help and encouragement, and when you are successful, they come to you again, life is like this, and it is colorful. But you have to believe that there are still many good people in the world, let him pass the trivial matters of the previous generation, after all, he is still a relative, he can help as much as he can, and he has a clear conscience, after all, people can't just live for themselves, there are also relatives and friends around you who are the elderly and children.

You should find a job for your brother, first of all, family affection, and secondly, if this can really be done, then your uncle will also look at you differently? I won't say anything more about your unpleasant words, so I'd better calm down.

Kindness... It's not ruthless, it's already good, okay, my sister can't find a job, and she also plays the computer at home, so it's not promising、。。

Your uncle must regret it now, that's enough, and I'll help my family in the future. Influence them....

Everyone has their own ideas, go according to your own heart, and don't care about others.

It's not good, it's good that I didn't fight your uncle.

No, your brother really can't.

It's terrible, it's not ruthless, and you can't do big things.

People who are not afraid of ruthlessness, as long as they have a valid reason in hand, they don't care who the fuck is!!

心 (rén xīn), a Confucian Taoist term. At the beginning of man, the nature of the good human heart and the Dao heart (the heart of the Dao) are opposite, proportional, the more victorious the Dao heart, the better the human heart, and the deeper the Tao karma; And vice versa.

There is a saying: If people are not ruthless, they cannot stand steadily. If you want to gain a foothold in this complex world, ruthlessness is the key. The past life is no longer important, no matter what; The road ahead is still waiting for you to break through, not ruthless or strong, you will only let yourself stand still, or go backwards.

As the old saying goes: "Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others". But in real life, people are always tolerant of themselves, when they make a mistake, they forgive, when they encounter difficulties, they escape, never strict with themselves, if they are a little unsatisfactory, they complain, others suggest, turn a deaf ear, never examine their own rights and wrongs, but if you are cruel to yourself, no matter how deep the ravine will be crossed, no matter how hard the life can be lived.

As a human being, we have to be ruthless to ourselves, tolerant and generous to others, otherwise the people of this society and this era of liking the new and hating the old will be even more ruthless to us. No one will be young forever, but I hope that all of us can live a prosperous and healthy life in old age because of the hard work of our youth.

The reason why successful people are able to break through the encirclement and take the first step decisively is because they understand that an ideal with only a plan is worthless; The reason why losers fail before they even start is because they plan every day but never come up with effective practical measures.

In life, most people are accustomed to other people's lives, acting as a wait-and-see role, most of them are accustomed to seeing what others have after success, but they have never carefully observed how others pay hard sweat to achieve success. I always see the glamour in front of others, but I never think about the hard work behind it.

In fact, successful people are the same as us, the essence is people, but they have improved their value and pattern, so they stand up. They are the same as us, there is no difference, the only difference is that they are more ruthless than us, work harder than us, have higher requirements for themselves, know how to plan their lives carefully, and use every bit of time and every opportunity to achieve themselves.

Nothing in the world is simple, and the biggest difference between a successful and a loser is in the mind, one can be ruthless to himself, and the other is cringe and indecisive.

To be cruel to oneself is to consciously hone oneself mentally and always ask oneself to work hard. To be ruthless with yourself is to insist on growth and progress, even if you fall on your head and bleed, you must become better and more beautiful little by little. To be cruel to oneself is to one's own mistakes, not to evade, not to shirk, to find at any time, to solve at any time, and never slack off.

Be ruthless with yourself, that is, when you encounter any difficulties, you will not be discouraged, but go forward bravely, accept challenges, and always be high-spirited. To be ruthless with oneself is to have high standards and strict requirements for oneself, stimulate potential, plan rationally, and have extraordinary willpower while implementing life plans.

Be ruthless to yourself, force yourself to work hard, and in the future, you will be grateful to yourself for being ruthless today, and hating yourself for being lazy and inferior today. I always believe in one sentence: I am strong enough to not be trampled on by others.

In life, it is impossible for everything to go smoothly, if you don't work hard, who will help you, if you are not ruthless, how to win. There are a lot of unsatisfactory things in life, you can't let it develop, the more compromised, the more you have no position, in the face of difficulties, don't retreat, the more you retreat, the more you have no way out, please be ruthless to yourself, face the difficulties, face them bravely, and hold on to helpless things, you will definitely pass, and you will taste the sweetness of life.

Be kind to yourself and make yourself happy is the most important thing, and being cruel to yourself is not to curb your own interests and hobbies, but to arrange your time reasonably and enjoy the happiness of self-discipline.

Clause.

1. Always greet each other with a smile.

These people seem to be very friendly, always look like a bodhisattva, laugh all day long, and see everyone as if they have seen relatives. The first feeling these people give you is as if you have met a confidant in your life all of a sudden, whatever you say, he says that it is very good, not bad, you are amazing, I really admire you so much, etc.

Praise you to the sky, in the clouds. Isn't it said as the saying goes? The best way to destroy a person is to exalt him and praise him as much as possible. And he is very interested in what you say about these people, as the so-called "like-minded".

So you accidentally fall right into his arms, you say everything, he knows everything.

Clause. Second, there is only interest in the heart.

They only have the word "profit" in their hearts. The side that was shown in front of you before was all one word, that is, "acting". Life is all about acting!

On the surface, it seems that you are a long-lost brother and sister, but in the heart, he is calculating his little Jiujiu. In his heart, feelings are just a means to profit, and profit is their ultimate goal.

Turning their faces and not recognizing people is the best interpretation of them.

Clause. 3. They are very deep in the city.

These people are very deep, and when they talk to you, they often listen a lot and talk less, and even if they do, they talk about some topics that are not painful. They don't tell you what he really thinks, they cater to your ideas and make you say more, and the more you say, the more he will understand and the more useful information will be obtained from it.

Once they get information in their favor, they will act quietly and secretly, even if they do something sorry for you, they will be justified and have no guilt.

When you associate with these people, you know about the kindness and confidants that you know are all appearances, and you never know what he really thinks in his heart.

Clause. Fourth, good at playing emotional cards.

As we said earlier, the emotional card is their usual method, so they are very good at playing the emotional card, they know the weaknesses of human nature very well, and they know what is useful to you, and even in front of you, it is possible for the voice to fall, making you feel a little sorry for yourself if you don't treat him as a confidant.

When you need help the most, they will often appear in front of you in time to greet you and flatter you.

Once they are allowed to achieve their goals, they will immediately change their faces, and at this time you will have doubts about life.

Therefore, in the process of dealing with people, we must learn to recognize and look at people. If the two sides don't know the roots, it's better to talk less, as the saying goes, knowing the face but not the heart.

You can see it from the little things in life, for example, if you have no money to eat, will he lend you money!

If you are willing to spend money, send him (her) a box of Erha to see what he (she) does.

Seeing people's hearts over time, details can also give you some inspiration.