How have you used words to educate others?

Generally, it is to educate their own children, when children make mistakes in front of outsiders, parents should learn to respect their children, do not criticize their children in person, and express their parents' own opinions simply and clearly, such as: "Mom feels that you are not doing this right." "Give your child the space to think for themselves, such as:

Think about it for yourself first. When you get home, you will reason with your children and educate them. Children are just as dignified as adults, no matter whether they are right or wrong, they don't like to be pointed at in front of everyone.

This afternoon I took my children to play in the community, my children took the car to play, and a little boy next to me picked up the car and threw it aside, I frowned, but did not speak. Then an older girl did the same thing, and my child was confused and shouted, "That's mine!" "The child is also stupid and can only say this sentence.

My children often encounter such things, and every time they endure it, at most they will say this sentence. My anger rushed up and I shouted at the girl, "Go pick up the car, because you threw it."

This time the girl was stunned, so she squatted there and didn't speak.

He is very strict with his children's education and has high expectations, so he will be strict with his children in their usual behavior. When the child was 4 years old, the father decided to get up early every day to take the child for a run, and in order to cultivate the child's perseverance, the father asked the child not to stop for a day. You can imagine how tormented the child was at the beginning.

I talked to my dad a few times about this matter, but I couldn't resist him, and in the end, in order to encourage the children, it became that the whole family got up early together, and no one was allowed to sleep lazy.

My 2-year-old baby often "makes mistakes", for example, she just broke a bone china lid cup last week, and the process is very simple. Instead of criticizing Xiaobao, he told her: "In the future, we will put the cup on the low TV cabinet next to it, or on the coffee table that he can easily reach, and you don't need to tiptoe to put it back after you drink water, you just need to put it back in its place - the short place where you can reach it just right, and you can continue to use it next time you drink water."

No one can afford to make mistakes, and even more so our children. What happens if we don't accept our child's mistakes and they make mistakes? Yes, he can only escape, hide.

Many parents come to me for consultation, and they complain that their children are liaring. Instead of pointing the finger at your child's mistakes, you should examine whether you have made mistakes in not accepting your child.

For children, if they really make mistakes, parents should not expand the mistakes made by their children and tell them to many people, which is very unfair and disrespectful to children, and they can't label children with a label that can never be erased because of their children's mistakes.

My mother, she never thought she was at fault, she couldn't say anything, and said loudly: I'm like this, what can you do to me? Infuriating !!

In the blink of an eye, my mother is 77, has been bedridden for 3 years, has Heimer's disease, and has aphasia. If Mom can still speak, I'd rather you scold me as much as you want.