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I feel a lot of emotion about helping people! Because I have helped people more than once, and I have always taken revenge after helping others. Let's talk about some of my things!
I think it's absolutely right to help others, because if you want to show your value in this society, you have to be willing to give, and dedication will make people happy.
Sometimes a trivial task of helping someone else clean is an alternative experience, and once when I was at school, I helped my classmate clean up, because her parents came to see him at school, so he told me that he might not be able to clean the classroom at noon, and wanted me to help her. At that time, I agreed without hesitation, because helping my classmates is to leave a way out for myself, and anyone who doesn't need help from others in this society is.
There is a misconception about helping others, and they think that there is no point in helping others too many times. However, if you help others once, it means that your value has risen to a certain extent, and in the vast sea of people, how to find beauty is to make some good things you do to be familiar to everyone and affirmed by the public. Just like Comrade Lei Feng, although he is only an ordinary member of the Communist Party, what he has done has actually made people recognize.
Therefore, the spirit of Lei Feng has always existed in our lives.
Maybe you feel frustrated that you've helped someone and they won't take the initiative to help you. I suggest that you don't get frustrated about it, because it's not worth it, maybe one time he will take the initiative to help you. Even if he doesn't repay the favor, we can't care.
There is a saying that gives people roses and leaves a lingering fragrance! When you bring good things to others, you will also feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.
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I remember a classmate in my class, his family was relatively poor, and he didn't like to talk, and everyone in the class didn't like him at that time, but then we became friends, and I knew that his family had no money, so I took the initiative to lend him my stationery every time.
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I once went to see off a friend, at the train station, it happened to rain that day, I saw an elderly man standing under the eaves, very helpless, no umbrella, can only wait for the rain to stop, and then I went to the supermarket to buy an umbrella for the old man, and then gave it to him, he especially thanked me, insisted on giving me the money, and then I said that someone else asked me to give you the umbrella, not I bought it. It's not really much for me, but it really helps people who need it. It feels like a lot of fun.
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I used to borrow money to help others, and I only had a few dozen yuan in my pocket at that time, but because he had no living expenses, I gave half of it directly to him, so he and I are still good brothers.
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When I was in high school, we were very nervous about studying for the college entrance examination, and then my academic performance at the same table was not very good, and I was disappointed after every exam, but I didn't want to see her like this and give up on herself, so I helped him to study hard with him, and in the end we both achieved good results.
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It was about high school, when I had 150 yuan a week of living expenses, and my table mate lost her living expenses, and then I used my 150 yuan with them, and then she returned the money to me in the second week, but then after graduation, we had no contact.
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When I was in junior high school, there was a transfer student in the class, at that time, everyone was more reluctant to outsiders, and they all had their own small group, and the transfer student had no friends, so I took the initiative to play with her at that time, and brought her into our circle to play, and later he told me that he was very grateful to me for pulling her at that time, and she often transferred schools because of family reasons, so she had few friends.
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In fact, I don't feel like helping others. It's just a gesture. Give someone an umbrella on a rainy day. Get caught in the rain yourself. In order not to embarrass others, he is always the first to rush to the front, and when others have conflicts, he is also the first person to relieve the atmosphere.
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One rainy day, I lent my raincoat to a friend and went home in the rain myself.
Every time a friend asked me to pick up the courier on her behalf and help the five of them bring food, I never refused.
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How to thank those who have helped youPeople are indispensable for helping each other. When we encounter problems that we can't solve, we often choose to turn to the people around us for help.
Method: Read step by step.
Thank you directly. In life, when someone helps you solve a problem, remember to express your gratitude to them. There are many ways to say thank you, and you can choose freely.
I can say that this can be done thanks to you, thank you for helping me. Even if they help you but it doesn't work out, you need to thank them, because their hearts have arrived, and their desire to help them is very valuable.
Please eat.
Inviting them to dinner is also a way to express gratitude, and the meal can be casual and not too grand, otherwise it will make the other person think that you are very outstanding. Of course, it's not good to just eat, it's important to let them understand that you appreciate them very much, and you can add some words of thanks when eating.
Give a thank you gift.
You can also send gifts to them. Anyway, picking a gift that they will like can also be a good way to express your gratitude, and it is best to attach a thank you card to let them understand that you are very grateful to them for this heart.
Be there for them.
It is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession, and this sentence is not only applicable to couples, but also can be used in ordinary people's communication. Accompanying a person all the time, listening to their joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and helping them solve problems is rare in itself, and it is also the best gift for them.
Euphemism. If you're more subtle and can't say too straightforward words of thanks, then you can choose a more euphemistic way of expressing it. For example, you can say that the limb, thanks to you, I can get through this difficult time, and if you encounter any difficulties in the future, you must Gansu me, and I will try my best to help you.
This is a way to express your gratitude and your readiness to help them at any time.
Sincerely bend Lala to help him
When they are in trouble, you also have to step up and do your part for them. Because communication needs to maintain balance, if only one party keeps giving without anything in return, then friendship will come to an end.
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Be grateful to the people who have helped you, and you can help them when they need it, or take the initiative to do something good for them.
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Dear, according to your question, there are the following results for your reference: 1, say thank you to him, this is the most basic thanks, and it is sincere to say thank you to the other party in your heart, and remember his great kindness, the next time he needs help, the first time to help him. 2. Give him a gift, buy him a gift in order to thank him for his help, this gift must be that he needs pants, so that people will know that you are truly grateful.
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First of all, you have to understand that real relatives do not ask for anything in return. You can be more arguing about the person who cares about you, and when he needs it, you can help him and defend him without reservation. Personal insights.
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Hello, have you helped others or have anyone helped you talk about your experience, yes, I have helped others, there are many people in my life who have helped me, and there are some that I have helped others. One of my most influential experiences was when I organized a team of volunteers at school to help teachers prepare textbooks. We put a lot of extra hours into this project and we were inspired by the enthusiasm of the teachers.
Then, we decided to continue to do things like this, constantly helping teachers and students, even with a little help. I have helped a lot of people. Friendship, cultural exchange, and helping others have always been my favorite things in my life.
Once, when I went to live in a poor mountainous area, I learned about their plight of poverty, so I would spend some time with them every day doing simple tasks such as planting crops and helping them to read. Another time, a friend of mine was having a little financial trouble, and I helped him with it. Therefore, I have always known that helping others is a very important thing, and I am very grateful for the opportunity to help others
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Summary. I remember that summer vacation, I went to play with my classmates, and on the way, I met an old lady pulling a garbage truck. At that time, it was just uphill, the old lady was already tired and panting, the slope was so high, if you relax a little, you will slide down, the consequences are very serious, it is likely to overturn, then the old lady has been working for so long in vain, and more serious is that the old lady will be injured by falling.
I couldn't wait any longer, and when I was in a hurry, I saw that I rushed up, and with great strength, I pushed the old lady's car with both hands, and walked forward with that heavy step with difficulty, moving forward little by little, and finally pushed the car up. The moment you leave the car with your hands is really happy. At some point, the old lady turned back to me and looked excited
Thank you, kid! Thank you so much Ra, thank you ......That's the phrase "Thank you, kid", wow! It's so cool!
My whole heart floated, sweeter than honey.
Hello dear, I've helped others.
Someone has helped me too.
People are always grateful to be helped by others when they are in trouble. But it's easy to lose sight of the other side of things: people who help others also find pleasure.
In the past, when I was in trouble, I was always afraid to ask for help from others, thinking that asking for help would only bring trouble to people.
But since that time, I have learned that those who help others also feel joy.
I remember that during the summer vacation, I went to my classmates and played with them, and on the way, I met an old lady pulling a garbage truck. At that time, it was just uphill, the old lady was already tired and panting, the slope was so high, if you relax a little, it will slide down, the consequences are very serious, it is likely to overturn, the old lady is so long and bright to rent the time is not in vain, and more serious is that the old lady will be injured by falling. I couldn't wait any longer, and when I was in a hurry, I saw that I rushed up, and with great strength, I pushed the old lady's car with both hands, and walked forward with that heavy step with difficulty, moving forward little by little, and finally pushed the car up.
The moment you leave the car with your hands is really happy. Before I knew what to do, the old lady had already turned to face me and looked excited: "Thank you, child!
Thank you so much Ra, thank you ......That's the phrase "Thank you, kid", wow! It's so cool! My whole heart floated, sweeter than honey.
So when you're struggling, don't simply think that asking for help will only cause trouble. Someone sincerely helps you, expects to get your cooperation, and looks forward to tease you to experience the most beautiful things between people and people!
Therefore, helping others will also feel happy and gratifying.
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He has helped you in the past, you should be grateful, and now he hurts you, you need to communicate with him head-on, find out the problem, and stop the loss in time.
1. He has helped you, and you should be grateful.
The grace of a drop of water is reciprocated by a spring. Regardless of where he is now, it is a fact that he has helped you. That means that from the beginning, he didn't want to hurt you, and even wanted to protect you at one time, and you must remember this kindness.
Money debts are easy to repay, love debts are difficult to repay, and when you get along with him later, as long as he doesn't ask too much, you have to try to meet him, which is equivalent to repaying his love debts.
2. Communicate in a timely manner, find the problem, and don't let him hurt you again.
He is hurting you now, this is a change in attitude, you have to analyze the reason, why a person who helped you before is going to become your enemy, is it his problem or your problem. If it's your problem, you want to correct it and make it clear to him that you're fixing the mistake so that he stops hurting you. If it's his problem, you have to have an open and honest communication with him, express your gratitude to her before, and also be distressed about what he is doing now, ask his demands, if it is reasonable and not illegal, you try to meet him.
If it's illegal, you have to explicitly stop it and refuse. Everyone has a code of conduct for doing things, no matter how good he was to you before, once it comes to matters of principle, you have to stick to it. You can't bully you for the rest of your life because he has helped you before, it's a sick mindset that will lead to bigger mistakes if you don't stop it.
A friend of mine was like this, who had just transferred to a new school and was bullied by others, only one girl stood up to protect her. My friend was very grateful to her, but the next year, the girl fell in love with my friend's boyfriend and asked my friend to quit, which was ridiculous, and finally the two broke up.
Yes. And it's intentionally bullied, because others also deliberately bully, then use other people's ways to return it.
For example, when I was in high school military training, I just met my classmates, and I looked at a girl stupidly and felt that his grades should be very average, and then I found out that he was actually a top student.
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