Do you think I should get back together with him? 5

Men, always unforgettable for their first love, usually contact, it is possible to have a meal, but the frequency will not be very high, and it will not be possible to go out alone together, only stay in the interaction of ordinary friends, and will not develop further, you look at the degree of your boyfriend, and make a judgment. Then see how good he is to you, whether he cares about you very much, whether he loves you very much. If your boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend are just ordinary and have not crossed the boundaries of ordinary friends, and they care about you very much and treat you very well, you should forgive him, maybe you were just angry at the time.

If you talk about it again, let him stay away from his ex-girlfriend, not too close, if he cares about you, he will do it. Love needs to be understood and tolerant, if he really loves you, but accidentally thinks of his ex-girlfriend, isn't it killing your feelings by doing this? Take a step back, some people, once they miss it, they won't come back....(My experience is similar to that of your boyfriend, and now my girlfriend is my second one, and I love her very much, but sometimes I still want to have my first love, so I think I'm a good fit for this question).

Let it be. At least let him take the initiative to find you and say it clearly and clearly, otherwise you don't make any judgments. Put your mind at ease and do what you have to do. Study, work, and live can be. Let go and you will be happy. Hope you can be happy.

I think you still like him, why do you think it's better to keep friends? In fact, as far as my personality is concerned, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, and no one's first love will be so easy to forget. But in any case, that's in the past.

If you like it, you like it, and if you find a chance, you can give him a step down, and it's good

It's not that because he once said this because his ex-girlfriend broke up with you, you can see from this incident what kind of person he is, a person does things so half-heartedly, and he doesn't know how to cherish it, and he doesn't know who he loves, so he treats feelings, no matter who he is, I don't think he is very reliable.

Once the two of us quarreled for a long time over some small things, and finally reached the peak of the conflict, and even had the idea of breaking up. But at that time, I saw his sincere apology and change. He admitted his mistake and was determined to correct it.

I saw his efforts and actions and found that he really wanted to get us back together. I was deeply touched by the fact that he proved his sincerity and determination to me. I knew it wasn't just me, it was a win for both of us, so I didn't hesitate to decide to be with him again.

My past experience has taught me that mutual understanding, trust, tolerance, and mutual support are all essential in a relationship. Even though we had quarrels and disagreements, I knew that our relationship was not over, but that we still needed to cultivate a deeper bond with each other. It is this belief and determination that we have finally succeeded in retrieving our feelings through communication and hard work, and also made our relationship stronger and stronger.

Looking back on this experience, I deeply understood that everything in the world has a certainty, and the same is true for feelings. If there is real love and trust between two people, then some small disputes and conflicts are just passing, and they will not make a qualitative change in the relationship.

And if there is a lack of understanding and trust between two people, then even if there is no external contradiction, the relationship will gradually drift apart. Therefore, I believe that love requires the continuous efforts and pursuit of both parties, and the maintenance and management of the heart, in order to achieve true happiness and harmony.

There are two possibilities.

1.You see things too superficial. The other party is not necessarily inferior to you, but you need to understand deeply to find the charm.

2.The other party is indeed inferior to you in many aspects, but at a certain point, there are qualities that can impress your ex.

You have to understand one thing, whether your ex wants to get back together with you depends on his thoughts and moods, whether you are good or not, it is important to judge the comparison by objective standards, but more importantly, in the eyes of him, how you are.

As your former partner, he has a ruler in his heart, and the criterion for evaluation is how much happiness he can see in the future when he gets back together with you, as long as he feels that he will not be happy, how good you are in the eyes of bystanders does not constitute a reason for him to reunite.

But this does not mean that it is useless for you to change your behavior, because even if it is less, you are accumulating bargaining chips for recovery, and those changes will become new attraction points, and secondly, usually I personally do not recommend that promotion be regarded as redemption, at least not just for the sake of redemption, you always have to put yourself first.

It's just that, at the same time, you have to look at your new love, analyze what is good about the other party, where you lose, and admit that others are indeed better than you, so that you can see the wisdom and adjust the direction in a targeted manner.

Let's talk about unwillingness.

First distinguish between being unwilling because you want to get back together, or just because you are possessive.

If it's possessive, like the uncomfortable feeling of having your lost toy picked up, then let it go, divert your attention, and try to invest in a new relationship if you have the right opportunity, even if it is a complete turnover.

This needs to analyze how the relationship between the two of you is, because of what separates, in order to tell you how sure you are to get back together.

Dear, I very much hope that you and him can get back together, as our emotional mentor, I very much hope that every relationship can be paid attention to, a hundred years of cultivation with the same boat to sleep together, so many people in this world, some people just meet to meet, it is already a very lucky thing, if you can still have the fate to like each other, generously talk about a love, what a beautiful thing. But all the things in this world, and will not be so satisfactory, there will always be twists and turns, there are difficulties, compound things, easy to say, difficult to say, both fate to decide, and both sides of the efforts to match, but there is a heart to live up, if you still want to reunite, then there must be a chance, you must not give up! Come on!

I believe in you and support you! Hope to get your good news soon! Thank you!

Yes! The reason for the reunion is that both parties can't let go of the relationship, which shows that the reunion means that the relationship has gone one step further than before, and both people will accommodate each other, and now they don't think it's a shortcoming when they see each other's shortcomings. This separation has made you appreciate each other more!

The vast majority of them are after breaking up, and they still want to redeem each other, but they are worried, afraid of chaos, afraid that the other party will not love them, afraid of being rejected, and even afraid that if they really get back together, both parties will have psychological shadows and their feelings will become sour, so they dare not take the step of redeeming each other. The opinions on both sides made them hesitate.

Although it is difficult to recover the water, we have the opportunity to repair the relationship. If you are reconciled as before, why bother to mind that since you were once the only one, why can't you be the only one who knows to move forward again, knows that problems may still arise, and why not find the reason from yourself? I would say, instead of thinking so much, why not try?

Since there is a fate to be together, two people must persist and grow together. It's not that I don't love when I'm separated, many things were originally misunderstandings, and it became true by mistake. Strive to resolve misunderstandings, resolve existing contradictions, and care about the other party, so you must be willing to make concessions and changes for the other party.

In any case, you have to believe that both of you will be more mature than before when you get back together, and you will understand each other better and accommodate each other. Only when you lose do you know how to cherish, so if you get it again, you will cherish this relationship even more. I hope you can cherish the person in front of you, since you love each other, don't give up easily, only after hard work will there be gains, and in the end you will not regret it.