I like a boy at the same time as a good friend Should I confess to this boy

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is no right or wrong in love. If you like him, you should tell him that whether he likes you or not is another thing, and it doesn't mean that you are sorry for your friend.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Sister, if you're still in school, I advise you to put this matter aside for a while, and if that boy is really interesting to you, you don't have to choose, you can let him choose, you have to say yes to your good friend, no matter who he chooses, the other one must bless them, maybe the boy will choose you, or maybe he won't choose either? Now the problem is that you're a girl, he's a boy, oh, the first love of puberty, that's it, everything is very clear, it's embarrassing to him, embarrassing to friends

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Give it up, what you don't get is often the best, maybe when you get it, you will find that you don't like her very much, but when you find out about it, friend...It's gone, love....Lost. Got it?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Explain to your friend, you have to chase him too, I don't think she will be good, because I used to like a girl at the same time with my friend, and chasing at the same time did not affect the relationship between friends, if you want to confess, anyway, now that you and he used to joke, you choose a chance, joke with him and say that you like him, see how he is,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Young man, don't ink, say it if you can't say thank you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings are selfish, and once you miss it, you won't get another chance.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love isn't reliable, but friendship can.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I understand what LZ means, she is afraid of hurting her relationship with friends.

    You can start by smelling your friend's feelings.

    In doing the next step of the plan put.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The feelings of good friends are important, but what about the boy's feelings? Have you ever wondered how he feels? You look like you're pushing him around like a commodity, although everyone is thinking about each other's happiness, but only two people can be happy if they love each other, right?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Like is just a good feeling, there are many people you will like, but you haven't met it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is selfish and you may hurt the feelings of 3 people by doing so.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't wait until you miss it, regret it, and confess it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are some things that you will not have anymore if you give them up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, it doesn't matter if you take the lead or not, this boy may not like you, just try, but don't have too much hope, there are two girls in one of your bedrooms who like it, then it proves that everyone else likes this boy too, and there will be no fewer girls who confess to this boy, so the confession may not be successful, or discuss with your roommate, see what to do about it, an unknown love seems to be more important than roommates.

    Give it a try, if you can't do it, let yourself die, don't tell anyone about your confession, after all, it's not very glorious, what if you lose it, think about what you like about this boy, or just because it's a boy that your roommate likes, if you're sure that this boy you like, then go and confess, how do you know if you don't succeed if you don't try? I think that don't hide this kind of thing like people, you have to try success and failure, if you don't try, it's always unrequited love, in case you let the latecomers take over, even if you once liked each other, it's impossible, then you regret it.

    When I was in college, I had two friends, and I fell in love with a boy at the same time, and the two of them were humble to each other, and they both felt embarrassed to rob each other's boyfriends, in fact, there was no need at all, this man didn't like the two of them at all, and once because a girl wanted to confess, the two of them were drunk, and they fought, and when they woke up the next day, they were like enemies, and then they didn't know how to discuss to confess at the same time, and one of them wrote a note to the boy to explain his love, He also wrote his name below, but the boy rejected them both, and said the reason, he already had a girlfriend, but he wasn't in this school.

    Confession also has to be happy with each other, the man's confession should be romantic, the woman's confession is to tell the boy that I like you, you see if you like me, if I like me, the two of us will be together, in fact, it's that simple, I think if you like someone, you have to confess, at least you won't miss it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can confess first, and if you have a certain development opportunity with that boy, you can also talk to your roommate in advance.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it should be, after all, the two of them are not together, so I think I can fight for it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't preemptively confess first, first find out if this guy has a crush on you or a crush on his roommate. Because the relationship is a two-way street, if he has a crush on you, then confess to him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it should be, emotional things can't let each other go, you have to work hard to fight for your love, you can't give up because you're embarrassed, if you give up, you will only achieve others and wronged yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't worry about these, if you like it, you have to chase it, even if it is a good friend confession, there is a chance. All you have to do is observe the reaction of the person you like.

    1. Pay attention to the other person's reaction.

    Although a friend confesses first, it does not mean that the other party will accept it, so it is necessary to observe the reaction of the confessed person and whether he has accepted the confession.

    2. Give yourself a chance.

    Many people, because they like someone, but their friends take the lead and give up the pursuit of the person they like, in fact, you don't know whether the other party is more willing to accept your pursuit, so you have to give yourself a chance, don't give up easily.

    3. Confess your heart.

    Although your friend has confessed one step ahead of you, and the other party has accepted it, you still have to confess your heart to the person you like, tell the other party that you also like each other, just because you don't have the courage to confess your pursuit, and hope to be a good friend with the other party, so that the other party knows that you like yourself, and you still have a chance to be loved, even in the future.

    3. Be brave to compete.

    The person you like is confessed by a friend does not mean that you are in love, even if you are in love, you are still qualified to pursue your love, because love is just the process of understanding each other and getting along, in the process of understanding each other, you can determine whether the other party belongs to the pursuit of your own love, so you don't have to take it into account, really like each other, you are brave to pursue, brave to compete.

    4. Quend oneself and save the way.

    If the person you like shows that you love the friend who confessed first, then you can only bend yourself and wish the person you like happiness.

    5. Believe in fate.

    If you lose the person you like because you missed the opportunity to confess, don't be sad about it, love sometimes needs fate. Even if you confess to the person you like, you may not be accepted by the other party, and even if you accept, it may not be a permanent love, this is fate. Sooner or later, it's not that you can't force it, the love that really belongs to you may be waiting for you to pursue.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You also confessed to the boy, she was unkind first, so you can't blame you for being unjust, see how the boy chooses, if he chooses your friend, then you quit, fulfill them, bless them.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Stay away from this friend, if they are already together, don't associate with the two of them, if not, you go and confess.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Face it normally, since you like it, go to confess, you don't confess yourself, you are preempted by others, you can't complain about others, even if you like him, your friend knows, your friend didn't say it doesn't mean she doesn't like it, it's not good that she has always had a crush on him, and it doesn't mean that you know that you like him, you can only like him alone, and others can't like him, if they really bless them together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If the guy accepts your friend, be generous with your blessings. And then I don't have to deal with these two people anymore, there's no need for that.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let's face it calmly, after all, people confessed first, and it would be embarrassing for you to confess again, and you have to slowly put this boy down by yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Facing it normally, since you like it, it must mean that the boy is better, so it is normal for your friends to like it, and there is no rule that the person you like is not allowed to confess to him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Face it calmly, after all, it was your friend who hurt you first, you have nothing to avoid them, you can face it how you want, and bless them if you can let it go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Then stay away from this friend, he is not worthy of your sincere fellowship, and I think it is worth it to give up a boy but recognize a friend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let the boy make a choice, no matter who he chooses, he can no longer play with his friends, and if he likes a man at the same time, he will no longer be good friends.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Here are a few hints for you, and you can judge for yourself (if you think it's useful, take it):

    1.Always look for opportunities to be with you.

    Always looking for opportunities and excuses is to be with you, and always show happiness, which shows that he likes the feeling of being with you, which is a sign of love. People have self-esteem, and they courted each other when they didn't get the favor of the other party, for fear of rejection, and such men are more cautious, so they take a subtle form to show their affection and love for the opposite sex.

    2.Happy to help you.

    Men are naturally protective, and of course they want to show this advantage in front of their beloved. When you need help, he silently appears in front of you, which means that he cares about you and hopes to gain your attention and favor through help.

    3.Care about your life.

    When men often ask you about your life trends, such as, what are you doing, do you have activities on the weekends, etc. This shows that he cares about you very much, because there is no man who doesn't love you who is so full and has nothing to do to ask boring questions.

    4.I care a lot about your casual words.

    When chatting, keep in mind your casual hobbies, and often mention them when the two of you chat, and follow you or satisfy your hobbies, only someone who likes them will be interested in everything you say.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When I was in school, I didn't like anything, and my liking was often simple. He confesses to you that there is nothing wrong with liking. But it should be important to focus on schoolwork, because the love when you are a child is not for the purpose of marriage, it is just impulsive.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Confession is not necessarily like, at most it is a good feeling, and the next step is to do what he likes to do with you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It depends on how you feel about him, and if you feel it, you're happy. If there is no direct polite refusal. Generally speaking, the confession of a boy to a girl is that he likes you, and the most important thing is what you think.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Confession during school is pure lack of responsibility! It's too early to study hard with your parents' money, and a man who is not financially independent is in love! What can he give you?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Confession doesn't necessarily like it, he still needs to be tested.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Is like you, but only for a short time.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    After deceiving your body, I won't marry you anyway, I don't believe you try it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Summary. Because as long as you confess, it is possible for the two of us to be together and have a chance.

    Hello, Sun, I am asking the answer in the emotional field to tell Kaihe Xiao Luo, who is good at marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication and other directions. Your question I have received, please give me a few minutes to write the answer, I am not a robot, please socks pie do not end the order, thanks!

    Like someone? It is necessary to confess boldly.

    Because as long as you confess, it is possible for the two of us to be together and have a chance.

    But if you don't say it all the time, then in their hearts, it will definitely be impossible for the two of you.

    So your confession is correct.

    Do you have any other questions? If you're happy with me, give me a thumbs up, we're working together, and my colleagues think he likes me. Then I confessed to him.

    He said that he was not worthy of me, and I shouldn't waste time on him, and it was good to keep the two of us talking. After I confessed to him, he rejected me, and I never spoke to him again.

    Actually, you two can be friends.

    It is to start with friends and slowly cultivate feelings.

    I don't have the courage to talk to him now, and I feel embarrassed to meet.

    In fact, you can act like you're fine.

    That's how you can cultivate feelings.

    As soon as I saw him, my heart beat faster and I couldn't speak.

    Let's cultivate feelings.

    Well, you can start with your friends.

    You are sharing your life with him.

    Share interesting things about your surroundings.

    Better yet, it's real to chat.

    We used to work together and talk to each other every day, but now it's a little far away. Each other is busy with their own work, so they don't have time to chat.

    So in your spare time, you can go to him and talk to him about your side.

    If we're together all the time, that's not good.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Content: First of all, if you and this guy like each other. Then this boy mustered up the courage to confess to you first, you should respond, at least you can't refuse, can you say that you are sincere?

    If you are sincere, then let's try to date for a while. Second, if you feel that the boy's confession is a bit direct and unreserved. It's fair to say that I want to think about it for another day and then accept it.

    Yes how to reply.

    You can tell him: It just so happens that I like you too, we really have a good heart.

    We're already together, and he's like he's giving me a sense of security, how to reply.

    Hui: I know that the sense of security is given by me since I am old, but I also hope that you can give me the sense of security in life, and I look forward to you being able to become my strong backstool shield, so that my life can get enough security.

    Can you say thank you.

    You can say thank you, and it's best to add a kind face.

    I chased him, and we were friends for two days and then we'd been together, so how long do you think that relationship will last?

    As long as you like each other, it should last for a long, long time.

    I don't know if he really likes me.

    The only thing is that he gets you too easily, afraid that he will not cherish it.

    In the days to come, whether he likes you or not, he can tell.

    You can't hide your love for someone. Even if you don't admit it in your mouth, repentance will run out of your eyes. If a guy really likes a girl, then he will definitely have these six performances.

    There will be at least these six, and the state will regret it, otherwise you will have to wonder if he likes you only when he says he likes you, or if you are just one of his people. If you like someone, you will unconsciously want to be with her friends, and you can't help but contact her. This can't be hidden, and it can't be pretended.

    First: If a man really likes you, he will definitely want to contact you if he has nothing to do. He will want to know what you are doing, in fact, when he asks you again, what are you doing, the subtext is, he misses you.

    And the kind of man who only looks for you when he needs you and never appears when he doesn't need you must have ulterior motives. At this point, you have to wonder if he really likes you.

    During the festival, he will send you red envelopes, no matter how big or small, every time there is a festival, it should be the happiest time for him. Because he finally has one more Xiang Cong to show his love for you, he will definitely send you a red envelope, it doesn't matter how big it is, the important thing is the heart, it is in the heart that you are in the heart. And the kind of person who keeps saying that he loves you, but important holidays always disappear automatically, even if he loves, he does not have deep love.

    And Zheng Xiang is very likely, just talking.

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