How can I make my people happier?

As long as you're sincere to her! than she feels that you are sincere to her! That's enough! Then she will feel happy.

Happiness is water, even if it is only a drop, it will leave a moment. Happiness is water, the tears that glide over the face, the smile or bitterness with satisfaction and relief. Happiness is water, the sweat that oozes from the forehead of the old farmer when he holds the hoe and looks at the gratifying crops for a while.

Happiness is the raindrops that fly freely and dance slowly, and ten thousand drops will nourish a land. Happiness is water, even if there is only one cup, if it is a cup, it should be a glass of light boiled water, colorless, transparent, only by tasting tea carefully can you know its taste. Life is a glass of boiled water, in which if you can see the old, you will think that you are still young; If you see that what others are pursuing is what you already have; Suppose others are down, and you are stable.

Then you are happy. And on this basis, if you can perceive that the red sun is lazily climbing the horizon, a new day is waiting for you. If you can perceive it, the sun is shining and the birds are singing softly......Then you are tasting this cup of light and transparent boiled water.

Happiness is water, there is no direction. Just like a bend in the stream, even if there is no direction, it can flow happily because of the emotion. Happiness is the cat's tail, when the cat chases the tail, it is chasing happiness, but it can't always be chased; When the cat feels tired and stops to walk, happiness follows it.

People generally believe that women can be happy only if they have a good marriage and family, and before the divorce, I also thought so, and it is difficult for me to imagine how a person should be happy. Before the divorce, I was a person who was very afraid of loneliness and needed companionship, and I was very dependent on my ex-husband, and my family felt that I couldn't live without him in my life, and felt that I should be patient and accommodating, but I still resolutely divorced. I think if I have to endure and accommodate for the rest of my life, then I will not have much happiness in the future, why not just divorce and maybe have more possibilities for happiness?

I have been living alone for more than half a year since the divorce, and I am still unemployed for half a year, I came to the field alone with my savings, rented a house alone, moved alone, and ate and slept alone every day. It turns out that a person does not feel lonely, but is very comfortable, he can do whatever he wants, no one will come to point fingers, no one will come to judge, and there is no need to argue with people for any trivial things, it is so cool to be alone. However, the key to maintaining a good attitude is that you can continue to grow and make your heart stronger and stronger.

Now I am a part-time graduate student and spend most of my time in school, with my fellow students. Although I am more than 5 years apart from them, we get along as well as our peers. During that time, I was in the process of getting divorced, and they all knew that although they didn't even know anything about love, their company and listening also gave me a lot of support and happiness.

1. Communicate in a timely manner. If there is a conflict or quarrel between two people, they must communicate in a timely manner to resolve the whole problem. Don't build up contradictions in your mind.

2. Mutual tolerance. When you fall in love, it's usually the person you love who compromises first. However, in marriage, we are usually reluctant to compromise. In fact, as husband and wife, we should tolerate and understand each other.

3. The sense of ritual of life. Some couples do not pay much attention to the ritual sense of life after marriage, and the festival has no atmosphere. In the long run, the feelings between two people become more and more flat. A sense of ritual that focuses on life helps warm your emotional life.

4. Don't overthink it. When you fall in love, the other person may try to satisfy your imagination. But married life is actually very bland, there may be a trivial place, there is not too much imagination, and it should be returned to life.

5. Seek help from others. Sometimes outsiders usually see better, and when we feel confused and confused, we can seek help from others in time.

6. Leaving is probably the best option. For people who don't always feel happy after getting married, if you don't have too much spark in a relationship, it's usually hard to stick to married life. Maybe it's also a good option to leave now, but you have to think it through.

7. After getting married, you can't completely lose yourself, you don't know what you should do, and you don't have your own social circle. You have to learn to have some fun and have your own friends and circles so that you don't feel lonely and lost. Women must know at all times how to invest in themselves and become financially independent so that they can gain dignity and recognition.

8. Women are always easy to feel aggrieved after marriage, feeling that the other party does not understand and love themselves. At this time, you should communicate more with the other person and don't blame the other person for the sense of loss. In marriage, it is necessary to understand each other more, tolerate each other, and communicate well when encountering trouble, so that the marriage will last long.

A woman who knows how to tolerate in a relationship is more likely to be loved.

Find a man who loves you and understands yourself, so that even if you are angry and annoyed, he can understand you, understand you, and enlighten you, so that you will feel very happy, isn't that great?

Happiness is different in everyone's heart, so there are many interpretations of happiness, but in my opinion, as long as it is plain, it is happiness, as long as there is a beloved to accompany it, as long as the happiness is happiness, this is the happiness I want, and happiness is simple. It is the simplest but also the most difficult kind of love to understand.

Very simple! Be your true self and have your own opinions. To pursue your own happiness, not your own, don't force yourself.