What do you think of a person who doesn t come home for the New Year?

It is difficult to shirk the affection of the old family, especially the customs in some areas, young people will give red envelopes when they go home for the New Year, and the old and young of the family must send them, otherwise they will make irresponsible remarks in front of their parents. Although young people don't make much money in big cities, their relatives in their hometown feel that they are making a lot of money and should go home to honor the whole family. There are even things about borrowing money to give red envelopes for the New Year.

There are words of suffering, overwhelmed, and simply do not go home.

I really don't have the money to go home, because as soon as I go home during the Spring Festival, many local customs want to give New Year's money to children and the elderly of the family, because you work outside, they don't care how much you earn, anyway, they think that you work outside, there must be. The current envelope is not like when we were children who gave five cents and one yuan. Now give at least 10 yuan to an envelope, relatives at home, children and old people in the village, and there is a lot of money spent on the envelope. ‍‍

The customs in my hometown are different, a large family gets together, and asks you every day how much money you make in the city, whether you have a partner, why don't you have children? These problems that belong to personal privacy in big cities are taken for granted by the people in their hometowns, and they will even compare themselves with each other, and their mental burden is unbearable, so they simply do not go home to be quiet.

The vacation is too short, some hometowns are too far away, take a train or car, spend a few days on the road, and when you get home, you have to get together with relatives and friends, sometimes you go to that house and can't go to another house, he will say that you look down on him, and the relationship is cold. ‍‍

Don't think that a person is not a good person because he doesn't go home for the New Year, who doesn't want to go home for the New Year and have a good reunion, he must have something unspeakable.

Generally speaking, everyone wants to go home for the New Year, and if you don't go home, there must be something else to deal with, which is also very helpless.

After young people get married, they choose to be with a small family for the New Year, and they can return to the big family in their hometown, and they have to be interrogated about privacy issues by relatives and friends, which is very unpleasant. In some places, the living conditions may not be very good, and young people are not adaptable.

The distance to my hometown is too far, the plane ticket is too expensive, the high-speed rail time is too long, and I can't go directly, and I have to bump on the road for 4 days of 7 days of rest, and I can't bear it with money and effort.

Work reasons, there are many units to operate normally during the New Year's holiday, such as factories in three shifts, shopping malls, stations, when I was a child in my hometown, my father rarely went home during the Spring Festival because of the three shifts in the factory. ‍‍

It feels quite pitiful, no matter what, how is it outside, home is the warmest harbor.

I think a person who doesn't go home for the New Year should have his own reasons, maybe it's really a constraint.

Maybe it's because he has work to do during the Chinese New Year, or he can't buy a ticket.

Change in the form of the Chinese New Year reunion. The whole family travels together for the New Year, there is no need to trek back to your hometown, save money, be quiet and have endless fun.

are all people who are forced by life, otherwise it is impossible to like to spend the day of reunion in other places during the New Year.

There must be a reason for the last resort, or who wants to go home for the New Year.

As the saying goes"If you have money or not, go home for the New Year. "

Chinese New Year is the most important national festival of the Chinese nation, which contains profound cultural connotations and expectations for a better life. No matter how far away it is, no matter how busy it usually is, everyone will put down what they are doing before the year, put down the hard work of the year, and try their best to rush back. Therefore Chinese Chinese New Year is known as the world's largest population migration.

Family reunion, happy and happy. The family bids farewell to the old and welcomes the new, summarizes the past, looks forward to the future, and expresses their expectations for a better life; Visit relatives and friends, exchange blessings, and let family and friendship get closer and closer in the festival; Worship our ancestors and keep the year, and be cautious to the end, so that we can maintain the connection with our ancestors, find our roots, meet with our ancestors spiritually, and absorb the energy of our ancestors.

When I go home for the Chinese New Year, I will find a place for my body and mind, so that my wandering heart will no longer be tired and miserable, so that my wounded heart can recuperate, and my slack fighting spirit will be re-energized, so that I can set sail again in the coming year.

And those who don't go home for the New Year must have helplessness and reasons that are not known to outsiders. Either you have no home or you have no home to return to. Whatever the reason, let us wish them the same happiness, auspiciousness, joy and good health as the people we have returned home!

This question is actually very difficult to understand. Because everyone has their own life, everyone has their own ideas, so you can't judge a person's good or bad and right or wrong by not going home for the New Year. I think that if a person does not go back for the New Year, he must have his own reasons, maybe because of his work, maybe his family, or maybe his own thoughts.

In any case, it should not be a reason for others to judge him. I think that as long as you live a full and happy life, then it is the best reward for your parents and the best filial piety to your parents.

For each of us, going home for the Spring Festival is the biggest sustenance and expectation in our hearts. Although I myself have not been unable to go home for the Chinese New Year, I fully understand the feelings of many people who cannot go home for the Chinese New Year for various reasons. ......Specifically, the reasons why those people cannot go home for the New Year are that they cannot go home for the New Year because they are busy with work, they cannot go home for the New Year because they are studying in other places, and they cannot go home for the New Year because they are developing their careers in other places.

1. I have to work in the unit because I am busy with work, and I can't go home for the New Year. Some people can't go home for the New Year because of their busy schedules. ......These people may not work far from home.

But because they are busy with work, they have to work in the unit during the Chinese New Year, so they don't have time to go home for the New Year. ......For these people, although they are very close to home, they cannot go home for the New Year, and the feeling in their hearts is very, very complicated. But for the sake of work, it is also worth the effort.

2. Studying in a different place, too far away from home, and unable to go home for the New Year. The reason why some people can't go home for the Chinese New Year is because they are studying in a different place. ......These people go to school far from home and are busy with their studies.

They didn't have enough time to rush home for the New Year, so they had to spend the New Year at school by themselves. ......For these students, although they feel very sorry not to be able to go home for the New Year, but to be able to study in school to learn more knowledge and master stronger skills, which will make them have stronger abilities and broader development prospects in the future, so it is understandable for them not to go home for the New Year for the time being. 3. Develop a career in other places, so I don't have time to go home for the New Year.

There are also some people who are also unable to go home for the Chinese New Year because of work. But their specific situation is different. ......Specifically, the reason why these people can't go home for the New Year is because they are developing their careers in other places, so they don't have time to go home for the New Year.

For these people, they can't go home during the Chinese New Year, and their hearts must be full of longing. But when they think that their careers have developed and they can have a better life in the future, their hearts can be opened, and they will work harder and work hard for their better life.

1: Not everyone has a home.

2: Some homes are not worth going back to, and the relationship with family members is tense or there are huge conflicts.

3: The work is too busy, the organization or the company arranges tasks, and there are many people who are not allowed to go home, and they still have to be on standby, or they still have to serve other people.

On Chinese New Year's Eve, there are still many people on duty, on duty, performing, and even pulling goods on long-distance trains.

4: The salary for work during the Chinese New Year is too high, maybe five times the usual amount, if the person happens to need a lot of money, then it will not be used during the New Year.

5: I have been separated from my family, such as some people who are mentally disturbed and can't find their way home.

6: A large number of debtors.

Personally, I have the most contact with , which is the so-called homeless and runaway.

During the Spring Festival of 2016, I spent the New Year with several frustrated homeless people who flocked to me from all directions.

This afternoon, I was packing my luggage and was about to go back to my hometown, but I received this news:

My parents kicked me out, there is no way, there are still hundreds of thousands of debts that have not been repaid, I am working in Guangzhou this Spring Festival, see if I can make more money, brother, I saw that you wrote in your previous article that you didn't go home for the New Year, were you sad at the time? ”

It's not just sad, it was the first time I left home for the New Year, and I must have been sad, and it brought back the memories of that year.

I went to work at night, stayed all night, got off work at eight o'clock in the morning, slept until more than three o'clock, and started to work again at six o'clock in the evening.

There must be people who don't understand, why do you want to do this to yourself?

1: I have to make crazy money in the field.

2: The creditor has already set up eyeliner around my house, and as soon as I go home, my parents will not have a stable Spring Festival to spend.

3: If I go back, my freedom in life will be controlled, and I will not have a chance to earn money to pay them back.

So I ran away to the field, desperately trying to make money, desperately trying to pay back.

The house leak happened to rain overnight, the business collapsed, not to mention, the fiancée ran away, and the body also had a serious condition.

To say that it is not sad is false. Except.

There are everyone, good people, bad people, ordinary people, powerful people!

Generally speaking, on this kind of major day, the vast majority of people will try their best to go home for the New Year, even if they are facing the peak of the Spring Festival, they have no regrets about staying in the aisle of the train for seven or eight or ten hours, but every year there are some people who choose to stay in the field and do not go home for the New Year, so what do these people think?

1. I didn't make any money outside, so I'm embarrassed to go back.

Some people have been working outside for many years, but they still haven't earned much money, which makes them feel a little embarrassed and feel that they are very useless, so they simply find an excuse not to go home for the New Year.

Second, I don't want to be urged to marry by my relatives.

Nowadays, many young people are single, and some have not even married after the age of 30, and they will be urged to marry by seven aunts and eight mothers-in-law when they visit relatives and friends during the Chinese New Year, and their parents at home are also more anxious. And every year during the Chinese New Year, when I am asked too much and urged too much, I will always feel very bored and stressed. It is precisely because of this that in order to avoid this situation during the Spring Festival, some people also choose not to go home for the New Year.

3. Gambling with the family.

If you are in a state of anger with your family, when the Spring Festival is approaching, you would rather spend the New Year outside than go home for the New Year. Because they will feel that if they go home for the New Year, it proves that they have softened. In fact, the relationship between relatives is the most valuable, as a child or to be able to understand and understand their parents, if the Spring Festival such a day of family reunion do not go home for the New Year, it will make parents feel very sad.

Fourth, I want to save some transportation expenses.

Some people work far away from home, and it costs a lot of money to go back and forth, and then they can't earn much money in a month, so in order to save some more money, they choose not to go home for the Spring Festival. Life is not easy, not everyone has a high salary, not everyone has a good family economic conditions, some poor families can save some money will save a little.

So during the Spring Festival, everyone has their own reasons for not going home for the New Year, some are embarrassed to go back without earning money outside, some don't want to be urged to marry by relatives, some are angry with their families, and some want to save some transportation expenses.