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Pay attention to the baby's diet, eat more foods that supplement the brain to develop intelligence, such as milk powder with walnut oil, because walnut oil is very helpful to the growth of the brain, eat some prebiotic things, there are also prebiotic formula, can promote the baby's digestion and improve the body's immunity. Now there seems to be only one of these in the formula, called Newbez or something, and then there is more to develop his interest.
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Needless to say, physical health, food, clothing, and a safe environment are generally paid attention to at home. Physical and mental health and good character are not easy to show quickly, and they are formed over time. First of all, the atmosphere in the house should be harmonious and pleasant, no matter how busy it is, at least one person in the house should always pay attention to it (Note:
I'm talking about paying attention to the baby, not accompanying him, ......... his needs, emotions, expressionsHave a moderate response, and he will learn a lot from his interactions with you or others.
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Take care of your child with your heart, and if you are happy, he will be happy.
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Give him the freedom to grow.
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Give your child a sense of security.
Maslow, a well-known humanistic psychologist, believes that a sense of security is one of the most important factors in determining mental health, and can even be regarded as a synonym for mental health.
If you want to give your child enough security, you need to have a stable mood when getting along with your child, and gradually separate.
Give your child plenty of time to play.
Shakespeare said that play is the "job" of the little ones. For children who are born with a "playful nature", it is to be able to find fun and learn things in play. When a child is limited to play time, it means that the child is given up a learning opportunity.
Therefore, parents should let their children play as much as they can when it is safe to do so.
This stage before the age of 7 is the best time to build a healthy character, and once you miss it, it will be a bit difficult to reshape it. Whether childhood is a lifelong wealth or a time bomb for children is up to mom and dad to decide.
Respect and accompany with heart.
In every child's childhood memory, those children who mention their parents the most often grow up with a sound personality and a good life. And those children who were not accompanied by their parents or left behind in their childhood, when they grow up, often have a feeling of "damn childhood" when they recall their childhood.
Childhood should be accompanied by family members, and as parents, the best companionship for children is respect, respect for his words and deeds, and little feelings, so that he can recall them as adults and leave a smile on the corner of his mouth.
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In real life, many Chinese parents always put their expectations on their children, which actually creates a lot of pressure on their children, and often makes children unable to fully experience the true sense of happiness and joy in their daily life.
The first is that many parents are relatively mediocre in their careers, and they are middle-aged, and their lives have been completely stereotyped, so they can only pin this hope on their children if they want to change the status quo. In many cases, they do not consider the reality of their children, or pay attention to the true thoughts of their children, nor do they communicate well with their children, but force their own ideas into their children, in fact, they do not realize that the final result is often counterproductive, and will only put their children under great psychological pressure. Or let their children have a rebellious mentality, and the relationship with themselves is becoming more and more alienated.
The second is that many parents are too anxious about the education and cultivation of their children, because the overall atmosphere of urban parents in the education and cultivation of their children is relatively fierce and involuted, and such fierce competition and involution undoubtedly deepens the anxiety of these parents, and these parents often transfer their inner anxiety to their children, hoping that their children can excel in learning and comprehensive quality, and can better adapt to future workplace competition. Although their intentions are good, this will also create a lot of psychological pressure on their children, and it is also not conducive to the growth of their children.
Another factor is that many parents are out of their own face factors and their own self-esteem, they always like to talk and compare their children's academic performance with their relatives, colleagues or neighbors and other acquaintances to find self-superiority, so to pin their hopes on their children, always put a lot of pressure on their children in learning, so that children are tired of learning, in fact, such a starting point itself is wrong. They don't really realize the true purpose and meaning of raising their children, and these parents also need to reflect on their own behavior.
In fact, no matter what, as a parent, we should realize that in the process of children's growth, we must pay attention to let our children truly understand and realize the purpose and significance of learning, so that children can understand that the goal they strive for is not to meet and achieve their parents' expectations, but to make their lives more exciting, and not to leave regrets for their future.
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For children's education, it is important to look at not only the scores, but also a healthy body. Nowadays, primary and secondary schools are sick and sick, and this is a kind of misunderstanding in education, because schools, teachers, parents, and scholars in the educational circles are all focused on scores. That's why it's happening!
In fact, at present, many students in my country have reached the point where they are not diligent in their five grains and four bodies; Everyone focused on how to improve their scores, and left behind their work and health. This is a very bad form of education, but it has become a normal state in our country today, and this is undoubtedly very sad!
For the current education, the most important opening is to cultivate and read cultural education, so that students can learn how to work in addition to learning, and know that food and daily necessities are not easy to come by, and they need to pay to be rewarded. But this method is very difficult to work with the current mode of education, because everyone thinks that labor and cultivation are inferior; As a matter of fact, this is to remind people not to forget their roots, and this is how China's history has evolved.
For the current compulsory course of labor education, the purpose is to enhance the physical fitness of students, no longer just pay attention to score education, but can it work? As far as I know, physical education in primary and secondary schools, including high schools, is a substitute for other majors, and it is dispensable. Therefore, to promote, it is necessary for primary and secondary schools to implement, so that each student can study, strengthen the body, if you can provide the opportunity to work, it is best to give arrangements, so that students can develop in moral, intellectual, physical, aesthetic, and labor in an all-round way, and no longer just for the score of reading.
Nowadays, some students may be better at studying, but they do not distinguish between grains and grains, not only urban students, but also rural children, and this is a very dangerous signal for China, a large agricultural country. Some people say that China is no longer an agricultural country, but this is pure self-deception, and talking about industry is not enough, and if we take off the hat of an agricultural country, then we will certainly have a hard time in the future. Nowadays, the number of wastelands in the rural areas has increased and no one has planted them, and the peasants do not want to farm when they go to the cities, and they do not look down on those who teach their children to farm, and it is normal for the phenomenon of not separating grains and grains. If necessary and conditional, the current education culture of cultivation and reading is more suitable for the healthy and happy growth of children.
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There are many ways to make your child happier, and here are some suggestions:
1.Give your child enough love and attention: Children need to feel love and attention from their parents, which is the key to their happy growth. Spend time with your child, listen to their thoughts and feelings, and play and learn with them.
2.Create a pleasant family atmosphere: The joy and happiness of a child depends not only on the emotional state of the individual, but also on the family atmosphere. It is necessary to talk to fill the family with laughter and create a warm and harmonious atmosphere that makes the child feel relaxed and happy.
Children can be provided with age-appropriate books, toys, games, etc., so that they can freely choose and play with the game.
Children should be encouraged to actively participate in sports and cultural activities, so that they can experience the joy and sense of accomplishment of success.
5.Educate children to face challenges and difficulties positively: Children will encounter various challenges and difficulties as they grow up, and educating them to face and overcome these difficulties positively can cultivate their courage, self-confidence, and optimism, which can improve their sense of happiness.
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A child's level of happiness is affected by a variety of factors, including family environment, personality, social skills, etc. A sensible child may be happy in some ways, but he or she may also be stressed and unhappy in others.
Sensible children may be more concerned about the feelings of others, willing to take responsibility, and follow the rules. These qualities may contribute to their success in school and society, but they can also lead them to sacrifice their own needs and desires in order to meet the expectations of others.
To make their children happier, parents can try the following:
1.A supportive and caring family environment.
2.Encourage your child to express and guess their emotions and needs.
3.Teach your child how to deal with stress and frustration.
4.Establish healthy values and codes of conduct for your child.
Most importantly, parents should respect their children's individuality and support them to be the best version of themselves, while providing them with a loving and caring environment to grow up in.
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There are 1 ways to let children grow up healthy and happy, don't compare with other people's children. Every child is a unique parent, and it is important to understand your child's personality. Understand your child's unique strengths and avoid having unrealistic expectations of your child.
This is not to say that children are not demanded, but that children should be asked correctly and given a certain amount of pressure and encouragement. Such children can better develop their own personality and have excellent qualities. 2. Conform to the child's inner growth.
Children can grow up, and doctors come down to their own personality tendencies. Parents should not look at their children, think that it is a problem if they are afraid of birth, and do not think that children are good because they are not afraid of birth. These are neither disadvantages nor advantages, but the characteristics of children need parents, so the internal requirements of children, afraid of giving birth to children are often more self-reliant and less dependent.
Not afraid of having children is the opposite. Parents need to guide their children to master the right interpersonal skills so that their children can grow up healthily. 3. Believe in children.
There is a process of children's growth, don't suspect that there is something wrong with your child at every turn. Each child is a different standard, an average, and only a reference. Don't apply it directly to your own child, believe in your child's uniqueness and take the time and effort to understand it.
And help the child develop this uniqueness so that the child can be happy in childhood and grow up to be talented. Make requests based on your child's uniqueness. Teach him some interpersonal skills and make him understand that it is better to rely on others than on himself, so that the child can play to his strengths and make up for his weaknesses.
and other methods can help children grow up healthy and happy.
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A child's growth is influenced by a variety of factors, among which school and family are important factors. Specifically, school and home have the following effects on a child's development:
Impact of the school:
1.Provide knowledge and skills: School is an important place for children to acquire knowledge and skills, and schools can provide children with the knowledge and skills they need to help them develop their potential.
2.Social Experience: School is a place for children to make friends and learn social skills, and by participating in a variety of activities, children can learn to cooperate, communicate, and resolve conflicts.
3.Stable environment: Schools provide a stable environment in which children can feel safe and comfortable, making it easier for them to learn and grow.
4.Teacher-student relationship: The teacher-student relationship in school also has an important impact on children's growth, and a good teacher-student relationship can enhance children's self-confidence and self-esteem, and stimulate their enthusiasm and interest in learning.
Family Influences:
2.Family education: Family education has an important impact on children's growth, parents can plan their children's learning and life through family education, and cultivate children's self-care ability and independent thinking ability.
3.Family atmosphere: Family harmony has a great impact on children's growth, and a harmonious family atmosphere can enhance children's emotional security and self-confidence.
4.Parental accompaniment: Parental accompaniment is also very important for children's development, parents can enhance their children's self-esteem and self-confidence by accompanying their children, paying attention to their children, and supporting their children.
Therefore, the growth of children is affected by both school and family, and both schools and families should play their roles well and provide children with a good environment and conditions for growth.
1. As far as parents are concerned, because most parents are busy with work, it is easy to ignore their children, especially the psychological growth of children, as the landlord said, you will guard your children to do their homework, but the children may not like it, but are prone to rebellion, I think the landlord may have a similar situation when he is a student, although parents put pressure on their children for the good of their children, but whether the child's psychology can bear it is another matter. 2. As said on the first floor, parents' education should be flexible to bring these dead things to life, I personally think that parents' education is anytime and anywhere, when entertaining, when going on outings, you can take some questions or guidance to let children remember knowledge, and at this time, children generally remember more firmly than rote memorization. 3. The important thing is not to let the child complete the homework assigned by the teacher, parents should also consider how to make the content of these homework dare to make the child dare to be interested, how to absorb what the child can learn through these, at this time, parents can also extend some content so that the child can understand more things, isn't it good.
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