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Brother, first of all, you must understand that the world is harmonious and different. Everyone has their own character, their own habits, as well as their own temper and privacy. So sometimes you have to keep a certain distance.
If you get too close, you can easily cause injury. At the same time, human beings are social creatures who need the approval of friends and society. You also need to deal with different people.
There is a little story about hedgehogs, in cold weather will snuggle up to each other for warmth, the closer the heating effect is, but too close and easy to be pierced by each other's thorns, so they must keep a suitable distance to achieve a comfortable state for each other.
In the same way, we humans should keep a good distance from each other and respect the habits and privacy of others. In this way, we can live in harmony.
So, it's quite normal for you to have the above experience.
Because of different family education, personality and life experience, A's girlfriend may be a cleanliness, perfectionist, introverted, and person who likes to be alone. So it may not be in harmony with your cheerful personality. If you keep a certain distance from each other, you may also get along.
But too close is prone to contradictions.
Brother, give you some advice, no matter what they think and dislike you may be, after all, they have helped you, so learn to be grateful. As for the inner estrangement, it is possible to open the heart through sincerity, eliminate the estrangement, and enhance understanding. You can invite them to have a meal or find a place to sit, open your heart, thank them sincerely, and then criticize yourself, saying that you are sorry to disturb them, that they are not used to life, that they hope to be good friends in the future, etc., pay attention to language skills, and praise each other more.
I believe that the other party is not a particularly unreasonable person, and if you are so sincere, I believe that they will not be embarrassed to care anymore.
Well, let's talk about this first, I hope it will help you, and I hope you have good luck and get rid of your troubles soon.
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Absolutely. First of all, a benefit of sharing a house for me is to save money, we all know that students have no income**, so except for people with particularly wealthy families, there is generally not much money left on hand, in the absence of a single room, if you want to rent an apartment alone** digging is more expensive and a waste of space, so finding a good friend to share a house is a good way to save money, for those who know how to be budget-conscious, we naturally understand this.
Secondly, the second advantage of sharing a house is that it is safer. Living alone in a rented house is a dangerous thing, a person is easy to be bullied, and it is relatively safe to share a room with a familiar friend, of course, if you find a stranger to share the house with, then it is a bit dangerous.
There are many facilities and space in the shared room, considering the budget problem, the whole rental either has no living room, no kitchen, or even no independent bathroom, if you share the room, you can include all the bathrooms and kitchens into the scope of thinking, after all, there are many people to share the cost, the budget will not be so exaggerated, and there is one point, that is, the space will be relatively large.
Reduce the cost of cooking.
The cost of cooking for one person is higher.
And you also have to buy pots and pans and other kitchen equipment.
If someone is working together.
It can share a lot of pressure.
Meal money can be AA system.
Take turns cooking, washing dishes, etc.
And the two of them will be happier when eating.
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No. 1. First of all, I think that no matter how good a friend is, if you share a house for a long time, there will still be disagreements Maybe my personality will not choose to share a house with a good friend Although I feel very happy, but after a long time together, I think I am a person who prefers to spend a little longer time alone, so I will not choose to share a house with a good friend.
2. But if you have a very cheerful personality, and like to cooperate with good friends and live with good friends in this state of daily life, I think you can consider sharing a house, as long as you think you need to discuss some questions and bad questions that need to be discussed with each other, there should be no problem in advance.
3. I think there are some things that you must explain in advance if you share a house with good friends, such as how to solve family matters if the other party talks to the object, because it is said to be good friends, but after all, you are two independent individuals and will have their own lives and jobs, and there may be disagreements on many things, etc., if you think you can solve these problems well and will not affect the relationship between the two of you and your quality of life too much, I think it is okay.
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No. 1. First of all, I think that no matter how good a friend is, if you share a house for a long time, there will still be disagreements Maybe my personality will not choose to share a house with a good friend Although I feel very happy, but after a long time together, Pibi thinks that I am a person who prefers to spend a little longer time alone, so I will not choose to share a house with a good friend.
2. But if you have a very cheerful personality and like to cooperate with good friends and live with good friends in this state of daily life, I think you can consider sharing a house, as long as you think you need to discuss some issues with each other, there should be no problem in advance.
3. I think there are some things that you must explain in advance if you share a house with good friends, such as how to solve family matters if the other party talks to the object, because it is said to be good friends, but after all, you are two independent individuals will have their own lives and jobs, and there may be differences in many things, etc., if you think that you can solve these problems well, and it will not affect your relationship and your quality of life too much, I think it is okay.
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No. 1. First of all, I think that no matter how good a friend is, if you share a house for a long time, there will still be disagreements Maybe my personality will not choose to share a house with a good friend Although I feel very happy, but after a long time together, I think I am a person who prefers to spend a little longer alone, so I will not choose to share a house with a good friend.
2. But if you have a very cheerful personality and like to cooperate with good friends and live together with good friends in this state of daily life, I think you can consider sharing a house, as long as you put some issues that you think need to be discussed with each other, you should not attack or grasp any problems in advance.
3. I think there are some things that you must explain in advance if you share a house with good friends, such as how to solve the matter of the Qingdujia family if the other party talks to the object, because it is said to be good friends, but after all, you are two independent individuals and will have their own lives and jobs, and there may be disagreements on many things, etc., if you think you can solve these problems well and will not affect the relationship between the two of you and your quality of life too much, I think it is okay.
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1. First of all, I think that no matter how good a friend is, if you share a house for a long time, there will still be disagreements Maybe my personality will not choose to share a house with a good friend Although I feel very happy, but after a long time together, I think I am a pure core person who prefers to be alone for a longer time, so I will not choose to share a house with a good friend.
2. But if you have a very cheerful personality and like to cooperate with good friends and do this state of making good friends live together, I think you can consider sharing a house, as long as you put some issues that you think need to be discussed with each other, there should be no problem in advance.
3. I think there are some things that you must make clear in advance if you share a house with good friends, such as how to solve family matters if the other party talks to the object, because it is said to be good friends, but after all, you are two independent individuals will have their own lives and jobs, and there may be disagreements on many things, etc., if you think that you can solve these problems very well, and it will not affect the relationship between the two of you and your quality of life too much, I think it is okay First of all, the benefit of sharing a house for me is to save moneyWe all know that students have no income**, so except for people whose families are particularly wealthy, they generally do not have much money on hand, and in the absence of a single room, it is more expensive and a waste of space to rent an apartment alone, so finding a good friend to share a house is a good way to save money, and for those who know how to be budget-conscious, we naturally understand this.
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