My husband failed to start a business and owed debts, and he was going to deliver food to pay off hi

Delivering food to pay off debts is realistic.

Delivery people.

Send or grab orders, and deliver food and beverage from the restaurant to customers within the specified time. The time when people eat is the ** time of the delivery person, mainly concentrated in 10-14 o'clock and 16-21 o'clock every day. In addition, the electric vehicle is charged during the period, and the working time is basically more than 11 hours a day.

The salary of the delivery staff is composed of basic salary + commission. First- and second-tier cities.

The basic salary is 2500-3000 yuan, of which about 1000 yuan belongs to housing, **, and charging subsidies.

The commission method of each order is different: some gradient increases, such as 2 yuan per order within 100 orders, 4 yuan per order for 100-300 orders, and increases step by step in the future; There are also unified commissions, with an average of 6 yuan. On average, 30-40 orders are delivered every day, and the average monthly income is 6,000-8,000 yuan, of which about 5% can reach 10,000 yuan.

It is normal to fail in entrepreneurship, there is no failure on the road to entrepreneurship, failure itself is part of entrepreneurship, and you must let your husband correctly understand the failure in entrepreneurship.

Regarding failure and debt, this situation depends on your actual situation, and if it really affects your normal life, it is understandable to be anxious to earn money to support your life.

But if the project is really good, the reasons for the failure of the business are controllable, and it has been carried out smoothly and there are phased progress, so it is a pity to give up the business, so the failure of the business is not terrible, but it is necessary to correctly understand the failure and know why it failed.

If the project really develops greatly, there can be many investment companies that can cooperate, and if you really don't want to cooperate, or you can't continue to start a business for practical reasons, the project can also be sold.

Finally, I think it is a last resort to deliver food to pay off debts, mainly depending on your actual situation, if it is really difficult, you can show relief, but after all, it is not a long-term solution.

In the past few days, the second major event has happened in the family, the first major event is the divorce farce between my husband and me, which has settled down, the relationship has eased, and we all have a sense of relief. And the second thing is that my husband failed to start a business and owed hundreds of thousands of debts. This incident inspired everyone to resist him even more, feeling that he was too reckless in his marriage and career, and we couldn't listen to our opinions, not only did he insist on doing things, but also had no perseverance in doing things, and he was disappointed in him.

Having learned the Law of Attraction, I know that resisting his behavior will not solve anything. So what should I do, let him go, then he will be ruined? Shall I help?

Don't help - hey, I feel very uncomfortable! Why is it uncomfortable? After listening to my sister's class, I found that my humility had become an inertia, and sometimes I didn't even notice it. will regard accommodating him as respecting him, thinking that it is good for him and good for marriage.

So how do I develop this inertia?

The main reason: the influence of some ** families, parents have always quarreled since childhood, and they especially want to leave when they grow up. Just like my sister said, I am very lacking in love, and when I meet someone who is good to me, I pounce on it, and I have no hesitation, even if my family is against it, I still marry without a car, a house, or a deposit.

The other part is after marriage, in order to prove that he didn't look at the wrong person and lived happily, he was very careful in life, did things that wronged him, and he had no assertiveness and lack of self-confidence, which formed a situation where he was strong and weak. I lost myself, and I felt that it was a good thing to be good to him, and I could get a lot of his love for me. Now that you have learned the Law of Attraction, you know that it is wrong, and you should make up your mind to change it.

And I also found a bad story of my own: as the saying goes, "adversity sees true love", the husband is in trouble, and the wife has a reason not to help, and if you don't help, isn't it ruthless, unrighteous and immoral.

Help - it depends on the person and the timing. At the moment, not only his relatives feel that he is cautious, but even Teacher Ziyu thinks so. Why should I pounce on him with wishful thinking and overflowing love, foolishly thinking that I am helping him?

What's more, I have a teacher and a senior sister, are I wise and rich? Nope! How can I be sure that I can do that?

I've just grown up and I've been respectful a little bit, wouldn't I fall back if I do that again! Don't be stupid, dear. On the other hand, wouldn't it deprive him of the responsibility to deal with, and if he failed, he should bear the consequences, and wouldn't it be better if he survived by himself?

How nice it was that he gained a sense of accomplishment and took responsibility at the same time!

I don't want to meddle in other people's lives, my own life is still a mess, and I still have a lot of homework to do, how can I have the energy to manage others.

I am the one who accompanies me all my life, and I can be myself by letting him be myself. I don't know if I can ruin his life if I let him go, but if I don't let him go, I'm ruining my life. So I'm just in charge of mine, positive self-growth, that's the most productive thing.