My mother in law loves everything, Too Much .

On the surface, it is your mother-in-law who is the problem, but in fact, it is more of your husband's problem. If he handles it well, the mother-in-law problem will be solved. He can be said to be a foolish person, and he is very poor at dealing with family relationship problems and his poor standards.

First of all, you have to explain the reason to your husband and let him think about it, if you let him swallow his anger every day, he can live for a few days. If he doesn't think about you, there will be only divorce, because there is really no happiness with such a man. He is also incapable of giving you happiness.

If he can reflect and recognize his mistakes, your problem may have a turning point.

Do what you have to do!

Tolerance and tolerance.

Communicate more! then you can avoid contradictions!

I always feel very awkward, the children are married, why do you still take the money and don't let go of the mother, I advise you to go out and live alone, live by yourself, and don't live with the elderly.

First of all, let them understand that you are an independent person, and although you are part of a family, you have your own space. Have a good understanding of your own positioning with the object, strengthen communication, exchange, and reach consensus.

Your mother-in-law belongs to the kind of old woman, how is this day going, 1, your mother-in-law is in charge of money, 2, your husband listens to her mother-in-law, 3, your mother-in-law loves to speak ill of you, 4, your mother-in-law is very lazy, I feel that you should break up with your husband

For your husband's sake, bear with me.

Before, I naively thought that the obedient person was filial piety, as long as I obeyed my mother-in-law, everything would not be messy, but unfortunately after half a year, I had retreated to the edge of collapse and depression, and lost the respect and rights I deserved. Therefore, I advise all unmarried girls not to be so naïve and stupid, and to protect their due rights and interests before marriage, even if they do not have independent housing and rent a house, at least the two of them can live comfortably. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law respect each other like guests, and distance themselves is the best and only way.

The mother-in-law must think that she is a person from the past, and if there is a sure way about the child, it will be according to which!! If the mother-in-law doesn't do it right, tell her, but she can also refer to it if she puts forward her opinions!! It can't be said that only two people have to have one person who is right all the time!!

This also requires your husband to reconcile the relationship in the middle!!

It is normal for your mother-in-law to take care of you normally, but it is not normal for your husband and wife to take care of the miscellaneous affairs between husband and wife, and not to take care of your daughter-in-law. There should be a degree of care for your son. Otherwise, it will cause a lot of trouble.

Take the initiative to consult your mother-in-law about the problems that you can't solve, and over time, your mother-in-law will encounter many things that can't be solved, and she won't be able to take care of it.

Some should be listened to, after all, she is from the past. You can't hurt your peace, you can't listen to what you shouldn't hear, and you have to be tougher in your attitude

If it's right, it's fine, and if it's not right, communicate. As for the method, it is up to everyone.

First of all, the daughter-in-law must learn to empathize. Since they all come together for the purpose of love, there are not so many principled problems, and it is difficult for the old people to change their living habits for many years, so young people should be more tolerant.

The second is to compare the heart to the heart. Many daughters-in-law feel that the old man is too protective of his husband and too critical of himself, first of all, he should face up to the reality that his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have no blood relationship, and he will know that his love for his son is an instinct, and it is already very good to be good to his daughter-in-law by the way. If you want the elderly to be sincere to you, you must first be really good to the elderly, observe the needs of the elderly, and meet them as much as possible, but according to my observation, the spiritual requirements of the elderly are far more than the material ones, at least the old people in my family are like this.

Third, be patient. When people are old, many times they are like children, they are verbose, and their memory is not good, so we young people must not be annoyed, and we must think about the day when we are old. At the same time, he also set an example for his children, as if he came to think of everything.

Fourth, the housework should be shared. It is not easy for the elderly to work all their lives, and we should try to share more housework when we go home from work, so that the elderly have time to rest. The old man changed his schedule for the sake of his children and grandchildren, and he did not complain, this is our old man, our parents, and our old baby, so it is natural for us to take on as much housework as possible.

Fifth, we must learn to make peace with the mud. Most men are rough and not good at expressing themselves, and many men are the same for their parents, as a daughter-in-law, a woman should care more about her in-laws in life, and when her husband expresses badly, she must learn to be with the mud. When the husband has a bad attitude, the daughter-in-law must stand on the side of the in-laws, so that everyone will like you.

Sixth, never lose your temper with your husband in front of your in-laws. As a mother, I know that the child in my mind will always be unique, and if I want to be angry with other women (daughters-in-law), my mother should feel distressed, no matter who it is at this time.