How can I get people to understand me?

Let's make it clear! Friends will forgive you. People are not plants and trees, who can do nothing. Besides. Yes You're not wrong.

Why are they avoiding you? No matter how much you hide, there are times when you meet They all live in the same class Look down and don't look up to see you As long as you sit upright and sit up straight It's natural if you have a long time The person who framed you must not have a good character Seeing people's hearts for a long time is not a fool After a long time, what kind of person Everyone knows in their hearts.

Sincerity is spirituality, give everyone some time. It's not that everyone has an opinion about you, it's that you shout, it's not targeted, obviously everyone is within the scope of your suspicions, you think about it in turn, if it's you, are you willing to wade into this troubled water? Isn't it also to stay away from that gunpowder as much as possible?

You're this gunpowder now!

In fact, you don't have to care what others think of you, the person who framed you must have a problem with your character, and others will definitely not think that he is very good, nor will they think that your character is good or bad. Maybe you're a mediocrity. But if it were me, I wouldn't have pointed out that person.

At least you can give him the dignity of being a human being, I think this is your biggest mistake, maybe this is the real reason why others treat you like this.

You know the reason first, I am more than your classmate, you give me feelings.

First of all, I want to know whether you are a man or a woman, a man, I don't think it's a big problem, I will still talk to you, but I won't have a deeper relationship with you, for example, a good friend, because you have a bad temper, the measure is small (if you feel that someone is framing you, you don't have to shout it out, in short, you are not doing it properly)), if it is a woman, the problem is more serious.

Girls should feel like a lady (except if you are beautiful enough), if you are ugly, I will be very disgusted, you have to talk to the classmates next to the seat more, people feel that you are easier to talk to, you have a better temper, don't care about things, don't want other classmates to make a joke with you, you will make a face.

Find out who it is?

Have you announced his or her name to everyone?

If anything.

That's not surprising.

Because the other party will be embarrassed.

And there is no place to be ashamed.

Something may be done that is not good for you

For example: provocation. Rumors or something).

So. In case of trouble, it is better to think more empathy

A clear conscience is fine

You must learn to regulate your emotions, face your life urgently, and tell yourself to make yourself betterOne of the three important topics in life is to be yourself. However, selflessness is more advanced than "being yourself", it is a state of breaking away from narcissism and establishing a deep connection with everything in the universe after finding oneself and realizing oneself. It is what Li Ka-shing said, "create self and pursue selflessness".

At this time, the "I" seems to have disappeared, and it seems that it is boundless and one with all things, and you no longer pay too much attention to the evaluation of others in the relationship, no longer suffer from gains and losses, and are too entangled in the success or failure of the ego, and no longer "spend the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain" to project your inner darkness to others. You can be aware without judgment, and when you observe yourself, you can keep the Dharma mind, keep the perspective of the conscious, and no matter how strong the physical feelings, emotions, and emotions are, you don't think of them as "me" or yourself, which is the so-called "flowing, not becoming". Turning myself into a channel, as Michael reversed Jackson when he said, I often feel that I am just a channel, and God expresses it through me.

Failure to judge me is a prerequisite for empathy. And empathy is shutting down the mind and connecting your body and emotions directly with others. At this time, the warmth you can convey is the warmth of "starting from his needs", not the warmth you think you are.

That's when wonder comes into play, and the true self and the true self meet. "The self is looking for the object, I am looking for you", the wonderful moments of energy flow, all occur in high-quality relationships. Learning to be forgiving and understanding others is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself.

We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And if you forget what you have said or heard in your anger one day earlier, and forgive each other or yourself one day earlier, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and your troubles will be swept away.