If you have been single for a long time, will you especially want to fall in love?

Being single for a long time doesn't necessarily mean that you don't particularly want to fall in love, it's very likely that you don't want to be in love.

As it is said in the movie "The Guide to Being Single", "When we are single, we have to learn to enjoy solitude." But how much do we have to enjoy solitude? Wouldn't we be too happy to be single because we enjoyed being single too much, but we missed the opportunity to find the true love of our other half?

For people who have been severely traumatized in love, being single is a relief.

Maybe love can give you some sweetness, but maybe one day it will suddenly give you a slap in the face. The person who loved you so much during the love period became a person who made you suffer from gains and losses, quarreling today, cold war tomorrow, crying until insomnia the day after tomorrow, until he was tortured enough to say, "I'm sorry I won't accompany you anymore", and you will have to live alone for the rest of the days after the breakup.

The loss of possession is the most unbearable pain. In order not to suffer such pain again, many people choose not to fall in love. Maybe the first days are hard, but as long as you live alone for a while, you will get used to it. I even fell in love with this kind of single day from then on.

Because being single gives you the freedom to spend your time and do whatever you want but can't do when you're in a relationship. And I can finally devote myself to my work.

Love will treat you badly, but work will not, as long as you work hard, there will be reward, maybe in the position, maybe in the salary, no matter how bad it is, at least the ability is improving.

So why should you want to be in love?

But for people who have never been in love or have infinite fantasies about love, they will indeed want to fall in love after being single for a long time.

Because when I'm lonely, I always want to find someone to accompany me.

Because I have never been in love, I want to feel the taste of love, and I only know if I have tasted bitter or sweet.

Because I didn't really enjoy the days of being single, I just didn't want to settle down, and I didn't want to talk about falling in love and chose to be single.

If you belong to this type, then try to talk about it first, and you may understand the true meaning of being single.

Not necessarily. <>

For people who have never been in love and have been single for a long time, watching the people around them talk about love, they may feel excited, and they also want to have that sweet feeling, so many people will be eager to fall in love, after all, everyone has curiosity and hopes to try some new things.

For people who are single again after a relationship breakup, it can be very uncomfortable to live alone at first.

In order to get rid of this loneliness, I really want to find someone to accompany me immediately.

I even hope to get rid of the pain of falling out of love as soon as possible with the help of a newcomer.

Therefore, they will also be eager to fall in love.

However, just being in love doesn't mean talking about it if you want to, especially for people who don't want to settle.

Even if you hate to marry very much and hope to find the other half as soon as possible, you will still reject those who are not suitable for you, or who really lack good feelings.

Before you know it, this window period is a long time.

It's just that you will find that the longer the window is empty, the more difficult it is to fall in love, not because the requirements have become higher, but because people are becoming more and more mature and understand what they want.

Family, friendship, career, body, hobbies, dreams, there are too many things to distract from one's attention.

And love at this time, it will not be so important.

A female writer once said:Forgive me, I'm not interested in love

That's about the truth.

You really think too much about this issue, and it is only possible that you will not want to fall in love if you are heartbroken by others. Because you have never been in love after all, love is a very beautiful thing, and it can also be said to be human instinct. I think you also wanted to fall in love at the beginning, but you never met the person who made your heart flutter, so you have been single until now.

If you meet someone you have your crush on right now, you will definitely not ask this question, and you will immediately fall in love. You have an advantage over those who are often in love. That is, you can live a very happy life alone, you fall in love, you don't have to rely on each other, you already have the ability to live alone, and you know how to live alone.

At the same time, you also have your own entertainment industry, and you don't need to rely on each other.

I've been single for a long time, and I didn't fall in love in high school or junior high school. It's really been like a jade for 20 years. The reason I don't fall in love is because I'm waiting for someone who makes my heart flutter.

I've long been used to living alone, and I can live happily alone. I don't even need to be in love to bring me joy. But I still want to be in a relationship, and I've never thought about not falling in love.

I wish I had only one relationship in my life. <>

There are many books that say that the easiest people to find true love are those who can live happily alone. This kind of love can be said to be the closest to true love now. Falling in love is already an indispensable part of life.

In the end, you don't like the people you meet, and you feel very fulfilled and happy in your life alone, so you don't have the idea of falling in love yet. When you meet someone you like, will you still not want to fall in love?

Being single does not mean that we will feel extremely lonely, but more importantly, we must learn to transform well so that we can continue to move forward. As for the matter of falling in love, we also need to rely on our own feelings and not have the feeling of wanting to be in love too much, in short, it is just different from person to person.

What we can do in this world is not to make everyone love you, but to learn self-love first. Sometimes when we are stuck in love and can't struggle, most of it is because we give all the responsibility and trust to the other half, and impose the things that should be two people working together on the other half. So we are bitter and disappointed, and we should really understand that there are many things that others can't give you during this single period, only through yourself.

During the single period, all we can do is enjoy our party alone. We can think of this period as an upward period for exercising and improving our abilities in all aspects. You can make a sprint in your career, and you can enrich your own spiritual period even more.

You can choose the things you've always wanted to do but couldn't do because of various things, such as a short trip together. Let your body and mind be in a window period in terms of feelings for a period of time, and let yourself precipitate and sublimate.

At the same time, I also hope that my heart is still full of this beautiful hope and longing for a beautiful love. After all, there are many high-quality crystals in this world to get rid of the scum. The beginning of all this is that you need to enrich yourself and greet your other half with a glamorous attitude.

Then we can take a look at yourself during this single time, and precipitate yourself in thinking. We can treat this journey as a pleasure in which we can constantly improve ourselves, explore ourselves, and let ourselves appear in front of the person you want in a unique way next time.

I'm the one who hasn't wanted to fall in love after being single for a long time (laughing and crying) Probably people like me are more weird, anyway, I'm just less yearning for love than you.

I see that others have an object, and I am particularly envious of others.,I prefer to watch others show affection and love to knock candy.,For example, I'll stand on the star cp and knock candy to death.,But if I want to fall in love by myself, I don't know what to do.,To be honest, I'm still shy because I really haven't stayed alone with a creature like a boy in a relationship.,My male friends are very few and only two can talk.,One of them went to join the army.,I'm also very helpless.。

Maybe I haven't gotten along with boys so I don't know what it's like.,And I'm a slow person.,I'm usually playing with myself.,Love to watch TV and sometimes read books.,I don't have any other activities anymore.,Belong to the category of otaku girls.,And I feel very troublesome.,We have objects in the dormitory and people who have a crush on other people.,Sometimes I'm also very happy to see them sweet.,But when they quarrel, my first reaction is that it's okay I don't have a boyfriend.,Haha! <>

Actually, it's really good that people have boyfriends, at least others care, it's not like they have to do everything themselves, it's also very sad, but I think it's okay for me, I don't put all my thoughts on this, so I don't see others have boyfriends, especially envy, jealousy, hatred, and occasionally envy is allowed, I always feel that it's a very troublesome thing, for me, it's like an extra burden, I love myself, I don't like someone to take care of it, probably still young (mental age).

But it's also a blessing to meet true love as soon as possible!

Divide the time, but also divide the person, but for a long time, you will want to come up with an object, and then find someone to protect you, and then warm you. Yes, if you have time, you will feel that it is good to be single, it is good to be alone, it is good to be alone. Therefore, whether you want to fall in love after being single for a long time is divided into time periods, that is to say, morning, noon and evening, you know the time you have experienced and experienced.

The specific problem continues to be analyzed, depending on the situation, if I see that the couple is very sweet together, then I will be especially envious of love. But if couples quarrel, I'll be glad to be free and single.

Yes, I feel that I have been single for a long time and am used to being alone, and I feel comfortable without being constrained by others.

I have been single for 20 years, and I have never wanted to fall in love because I am lonely, because I think now that love is not very important, and now there are too many things to try, and the time is very full!

Think! It's really just a matter of thinking. When I meet a girl I like, I pretend to be cold, I don't dare to chase it, I don't have time, work pressure, and money pressure ......I had a premonition that I would get married later, but I didn't expect it to be so late.

First of all, you have to have capital, such as a successful education, a smooth job, and the right age! After the age of twenty-five or sixteen