Why do I get older and less ambitious?

It could also be that you are too idealistic about yourself, and the reality you are now exposed to gives you a sense of failure.

This is due to the fact that the gap between the ideal and the reality is too great.

It is precisely because of this gap that your expectations of yourself are hindered, and you constantly lower your evaluation of yourself. This process of constant reduction can lead to frustration and even low self-esteem.

First of all, you should set a reasonable goal to gradually regain your self-confidence.

Young people are fearless!!

As you grow older, you go through all sorts of things, and your body and mind are bound to be exercised, but the setbacks you encounter in the process are also impressive, and these combine to subconsciously affect your thinking and thus your behavior. And these influences mostly become a constraint on your progress, so that you will feel that you can no longer think about problems as simple and naïve as in the past, and there are many things that you have to take into account, so you are under pressure from all sides to make choices, which is bound to make people stumble. But, on the other hand, it also reduces your risk of injury.

There are two sides to everything, don't take it too seriously.

This is quite normal.

Because the older you get, the more you have to face all kinds of realities and pressures.

People are like that, so don't rush.

Of course, if you're under 30, you shouldn't.

Personally, I think that you can exercise more, and this trick is very good.

The second is to constantly set phased goals for yourself.

You're thinking about too many questions and worrying too much. You should read more books on self-cultivation and cultivate good psychological qualities. You will definitely succeed.

Because when I grow up, I have more things to worry about.

Unlike when they were young, newborn calves are not afraid of tigers.

In today's society, many concerns are not necessarily a bad thing.

As long as you can make an accurate judgment when it's time to make a move.

After entering the society, it will become more and more realistic, which is helpless and a fact!!

This mentality of yours shows that you are becoming more sensible and mature.

It's a very good mindset that will be good for you in the future.

You can look at what ambition is from the right angle, whether it is worth it, and we can only say that we are getting more and more mature.

Look at your strengths.

Write down your strengths.

Don't keep comparing others to yourself.

Human"Not satisfied'It often makes people feel invisible pressure.

Don't be afraid, don't be afraid of anything, just don't regret what you do, and move forward

Some people may be precocious, and at the age of five, they may have the intelligence that only seven or eight years olds have. So it's smarter among his peers. But as I get older, this advantage gradually disappears.

In fact, you may not be stupider than your peers, but due to the psychological gap, the previous sense of superiority is suddenly gone, and you will feel inferior.

So the key is that you adjust your mindset and approach it all peacefully. It's naturally good to be excellent, and it's not a bad thing to be ordinary.

There is no scientific reason for this, the longer a person grows, the smarter he becomes, but there are some facts that he has not yet reached the scope of that knowledge, and if he wants to become smarter, he must keep thinking, so that he can make his brain more flexible. If you keep your brain and don't think, it will rust like a nail, as long as you keep using your brain, think deeply about things and ask yourself more doubts, so that you will slowly make your brain more flexible and naturally become smarter. Take your time!

It's better to remember more things.

Because I didn't study hard, high school is not like elementary school, I can't make up for it after a few days, be serious, don't ask why, you should ask yourself, ask the teacher.

It's just your own feeling, don't put too much pressure on yourself, especially when it comes to studying, be confident.

When I get older, I understand more truths, I look at things from a different angle, and I think more naturally. You feel lonely because you don't like to communicate with others very much, and you don't want to talk to others without any concern like you did when you were a child. Thinking too much, taking into account many things, and not daring to do many things.

These are all troubles when you grow up, and it's normal. As long as it is taken care of, there is nothing to worry about. Wishing you a happy day.

Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, and when they are older, they think that things will consider the consequences, and they are worried, so they feel that they are getting less and less courageous. Are you lonely, or lonely, if you are lonely, you can call a group of friends to have a good time. The words of loneliness are in the depths of the heart.

Growing up is painful, because when you grow up, you think about a lot of things, people's thoughts are complicated, and there are all kinds of selfish thoughts, and distance will produce beauty, and you will be estranged from others, and you will be lonely after keeping a distance from others. We are also afraid of being framed by others, whether we are loyal to you and wary of others, and we are also timid because of this.

There are too many contacts, and people's hearts are too complicated, so everyone will close themselves.

Growing up is painful.

Like silkworms taking off their cocoons. There is also something to do with your environment, family, and some people are becoming more and more confident.

Hone more in society and get used to it!!

As people grow up, the more things they know, and the more problems they encounter. Therefore, only if you become stronger and braver can you face it calmly.

I think your mental age must be younger than your biological age to feel the way you feel now. That is, you haven't grown up yet!

The older you get, the more lonely you become. When I grow up, I mature, and I think about more things. Fear of wolves and tigers leads to fear of what to think and do as before. The spirit of fearlessness is long gone. There is gradually no one around me, only himself.

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Because I regret that I didn't study hard when I was a child, I have a greater desire to learn when I grow up. I'm in this state right now, and I can't wait to go back in time.

Because as I grow up, I see more and more, my mind becomes more and more mature, and I have more and more ideas. In fact, it's still a psychological problem, as long as you correct your own attitude and don't feel that the world is unfair.

When people are getting bigger, the things they want will slowly change, when they are young, they want bicycles, when they are older, they want motorcycles, when they are older, they want cars, everyone wants to live a comfortable and comfortable life, but the pay is in line with the reality, and only when you have to endure hardships can you become a good person.

That's because you see society for what it really is. When you were a child, you thought the world was beautiful because you had your parents to protect you. Now it's up to me.

Which is that you have changed your ambition and of course are not satisfied with the status quo.