Is there anything you ve always wanted to have that you haven t been able to have?

Yes! And a lot. When I was a child, I wanted a bicycle, but my parents didn't buy it for me when I was a child, and then when I went to college, I bought it, but I didn't want it very much.

For example, I've always wanted a lot of money, but I've never had a lot of money other than tuition. For example, I've always wanted to be beautiful, but I haven't been able to do it, for example, I've always wanted to be in a great body, but I've always been like that. If it's serious, the thing I've always wanted to have but never been able to have, is probably love.

Since I was a child, my parents had a bad relationship, and when we were young, we often fought and quarreled. So I was deficient in calcium when I was a child, and I lacked love when I grew up. I especially longed for school uniforms to wedding dresses, youth to old age.

However, my emotional path does not seem to be so smooth. It can be said that it is very bumpy. The first relationship is like a joke, and the second relationship is all deception.

I don't understand, I just want a copy, the love from school uniforms to wedding dresses, but in the end, it turned out like this! I've been longing for love, but I realize that I can't meet it. I really want a love school uniform to a wedding dress.

Even though I'm here now, I've always longed for and always wanted to have a love. I have a boyfriend now and have been dating for almost a year. I don't know if he'll be able to give me what I want.

Can he give me a love from school uniform to wedding dress. Love from youth to old age. I hope he doesn't let me down, because I really, really want to have it.

If he can't give it to me, then I probably won't be able to have it anymore. Because I'm a sophomore, time is running out, and there will be no more love after graduation.

I think everyone will have something that they have always wanted to have but have not been able to have, in the relationship, friendship, family, work, there will be what they have always wanted to get, but they have never been able to get, sometimes it is really sad, but no matter how hard you try, you still can't get it, in fact, sometimes it's better to choose to go with the flow, or to let go, I think that often after your own efforts and can't get things, often not belong to yourself, so don't expect things that don't belong to you, Don't let go of the things that belong to you, of course, I also have things that I have always wanted to have but have always had, but I keep them in my heart, I will not force them, I will not hope for extravagance. Don't be discouraged by what you can't get, and smile. <>

In love, I used to like someone, but I slowly found out that he had a girlfriend, I can't destroy other people's feelings, I can only choose to put this love for him in my heart, and keep it in my heart, because there is no way, many people will say that they like to work hard, but this is not the case, I can't let others suffer because of me, so at this time I choose to give up, even if I want to have, I can only give up. At work, everyone may be intriguing for a position, a lot of work is not done well, the boss may scold you, or fire you squid, this is possible, so if you really have what you want, go and work hard, if it really doesn't belong to you, then put it in your heart, don't force it, don't expect extravagantly, there is no need to regret it if you work hard and don't get it, after all, you have worked hard.

Not everything in this world will be as expected, not everything will go according to their own will, this is unlikely, many things still need to go through their own efforts, keep exploring, it is possible to learn or get more things, some things the more you want to get, the more you can't get, so the better is to put what you can't get through hard work in your heart, go with the flow, or choose to give up.

I'm a fantasy person, and since I was a child, I just thought about what I couldn't get in my head, and as long as it appeared in my dreams, I was satisfied.

A Barbie doll given by a mother

I think every little girl would have wanted to have a Barbie doll at one time or another, and I was no exception. I've always wanted my mom to buy me a Barbie doll, and I said it every day when I was a child, and I won't mention it anymore when I grow up, but I still want it in my heart. But now I'm too embarrassed to speak.

When I was a child, because of the poor economic conditions of my family, let alone buying Barbie dolls, I rarely bought clothes. Something like Barbie can't afford it at home, and my mom won't buy it for me.

Maybe it's just that the more I can't get it, the more I want to get it, I always have a doll dream in my heart.

I want a lot of money

It may be that when I was a child, my life was too hard, and I felt that I always couldn't eat enough and my bed was not warm. So I always hope that I can have a lot of money, and I feel that I will not be troubled by life, my parents will not have to work so hard, and my children will not have to live such a hard life in the future.

I have always had dreams of wanting wealth and freedom, but I have never only appeared in dreams.

I want a pair of long legs

When I was a child, I was a relatively early child, so I sat in the last row from kindergarten until I graduated from elementary school. One of the things I hear the most is that girls are too tall to find a partner.

But since I was in junior high school, I haven't been tall, and I slowly moved from the last row to the middle of the classroom, and those who used to be shorter than me sat in the back. Every time I lined up for a in the morning, they would make fun of me, saying that I was getting shorter and shorter as I got older.

That's why I really wanted a pair of long legs, but unfortunately they never appeared in my dreams.

Yes, that is, there is a sky of my own, and I have been working hard but I am still far from this goal!

1.Trojan horse, when I was a child, there was a small wooden horse in the neighbor's house, every time I went to their house I wanted to play, but I remembered what my mother said, don't mess with other people's things when you go to other people's houses, and I'm embarrassed to play, so I've always hoped to have one of my own.

2.Grandfather clock until now I still want to, when I was a child, every rural family should have it, a large grandfather clock, every time it will be on time, when the time is a few times, very crisp sound, the voice of the neighbor can come to our house, and retro color, it feels very exquisite, my mother often complains about my dad, when everyone bought, my dad had to take the money to buy a other thing I don't remember, in short, everyone else has, my family does not, I still like the style of the clock, The neighbor's grandfather clock is decades old, and it's still beautiful, so I want to take it home ......

3.Game.

I remember when I was in elementary school, my aunt bought a game console for my cousin, and it was the first time I saw a game console. I can play a game with a small square, and none of my classmates have ever played it, so I fantasized about having one so that I can brag in front of my classmates.

But my aunt bought one for my cousin, so I went to my aunt to complain why my cousin didn't have me! After all, we all call you Auntie. My aunt didn't know what to do at this time, so she began to comfort:

You're young, not as big as your cousin, and I'll buy you one when you're the size of your cousin. ”

I believed her words, and I kept waiting, and I was very envious when I watched my cousin play Hide, and I was thinking that I could have a game console to carry Chun, and then my mother saw what I was thinking about, so she bought me one.

I remember this very well because of my aunt's partiality.,I'm very dissatisfied with my aunt's partiality.,I didn't want to pay attention to her for a while.,Later, as I grew up, I slowly let go of the pure code.,But at that time, the appearance of the game console dreamed of me was still fresh in my memory.。

According to the description of the problem, it is often a contradiction in mentality.

People are different, for some people, for the things that can not be obtained, often have a great interest, and a strong possessiveness, when they do not get, chew their brains and try their best to try to make efforts, once they get often lose part or all of their interest, this is not a disease, it is a kind of mentality on the conquest of psychology.

The importance of mindset.

In real life, people can't control what happens to them, but they can control their mentality; People can't change others, but they can change themselves. In fact, there is not much difference between people, the real difference is in the mentality. Therefore, whether a person is successful or not mainly depends on his mentality.

There are good times and bad times in life, and it is impossible to be adversity everywhere; There are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to be at the bottom everywhere. Being arrogant because of good times or peaks, and being depressed because of adversity or troughs, are all shallow lives. In the face of setbacks, if you just blindly complain and get angry, then you are destined to be a weak person forever.

People who want everything will always get nothing.

There is such a rule in life, there is a give-and-give to get, and a big give-away can be great.

If you care what others think of you, you won't have the freedom to be yourself.

And those who are always seeking external recognition, they live very tired, depressed, they become not themselves.

They want **, so they keep trying to go on a diet.

They want to be extroverted because introverts are always ridiculed less by extroverts.

They want to be recognized by their leaders, so they grovel and curry favor.

They want to gain fame, status, and material things, so they work overtime and work tiringly.

They have low self-esteem because they always compare themselves to others.

They don't dare to be individual, to be different, because they are afraid of being excluded.

They live as a living dead without vitality and energy, a constant striving for perfection and demands, and they lose their joy and satisfaction.

They have an unusually powerful mind, and they want to imitate the words and deeds of the saints and use this as a basis to find fault with themselves and others.

They are very discriminating, they have little wisdom, but they are complacent about their intelligence, but they don't have great wisdom.

They are numb and apathetic, they are out of touch with their own feelings, they live in rules and suspicion of others, of doubting themselves.

They are disconnected from their bodies, and they ignore them, even though their bodies are always reminding them of pain and illness.

Look at what you have tortured yourselves into.

Let go of that desire to seek approval from others, to find your own freedom, your world has nothing to do with others, only with yourself.

You don't need to seek recognition of mainstream values, you can have your own unique ideas and standards of behavior.

In fact, in the end, you will find that it is not so difficult to be yourself, and you are not alone, there are many people who are like you, but you just don't find it.

The most bitter thing is not others, but yourself.

The pessimistic philosopher Schopenhauer said that life is a mass of desires, and if desires are not satisfied, they will be empty, and if they are satisfied, they will be bored, and life is hovering between emptiness and boredom.

Let go of sorrow, let go of troubles, let go of attachment, and be happy alone. Not because he has more, but because he cares less.

To control your own heart, not to let him, is to control your own behavior, which is equivalent to mastering life.

Learn to smile, learn to be happy, learn to be strong, learn to smile and face everything in life, take it easy, don't think too much, and breathe in the fresh morning air.

Feel the taste of nature o(o....More importantly, don't care about the word "happy", real happiness is actually around you and feel it with your heart.

It's also not painful, so you can let go. There are 8 sufferings in life, and they come to the world from head to foot. Old age is bitter, youth is easy to lose, and the body is gradually aging.

By autonomously. Sickness, whether physical pain or spiritual troubles, inevitably accompanies a person's life. Death is bitter, and I have to accept that it is like this.

One day. Can't ask for it, love parting, resentment will be bitter, the five yin weaving is full of suffering, (the body and mind desire is like a fire, so it is bitter), too persistent to pay attention to oneself is all suffering.

Base. I know that only by letting go of attachment can I feel comfortable and happy. can calmly let go of no worries. Therefore, when you are liberated, you can be at ease with yourself.

Ann, teach sentient beings with fate to the outside world, and always have a pure and peaceful heart. In the pure mind of the Buddha without arguing with others. Compassion is happiness, sorrow is to pull out suffering, joy is happiness, and happiness is.

Freely, cultivating these four kinds can not only be good for others, but also better for yourself. There is no one to replace the sick when the gas comes out.

Life is like a journey, and we learn to enjoy the process instead of blindly pursuing the result. Enjoyed the process, and the result was a giveaway. Write two strokes of people, and be a person for a lifetime.

One stroke misses, one stroke has. Learn to release what you miss, and learn to cherish what you have. People only have one life, and they must love with their hearts, love what you want to love, and love what they want to love you.

Strive to make the people you love and love you happy with. Think about life from a different perspective, and you will find the joy of life.