How to quit someone you love? How to quit loving someone

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars. When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Forget. A heartache ...

    In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ... Isn't there a saying that says?

    You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss. Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ...

    Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of TA again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that before you know it, TA has become "that person".

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

    Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Time is the best healing medicine, after a long time, you will slowly forget about him (her), although not all can be forgotten, but you will also keep a little good memory, after all, you once loved each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People can be ruthless, love is a lifelong thing, and you can never quit it.

    There's a saying that goes like this; Love is like a poppy, flourishing and blooming, exuding the fragrance that I am reluctant to let go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    True love is not something that can be expressed in words, the system comes from the heart, and when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love.

    Dao, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go with the flow, after a long time, two people will naturally forget each other after there is no intersection between them.

    At first, it will definitely be very unaccustomed, you can chat with friends more or come out to play, relax, don't stay alone and think nonsense, and work, keep yourself busy, and you can do something that interests you when you rest, or learn something, kill time, do these are to let yourself have less time to think about each other, and forget about it after a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't want to quit all day long, the more you want to forget a person, you can never forget it, you have to go with the flow and think more about the other party's shortcomings, especially the shortcomings that you can't accept.

    Enrich your life more, don't let yourself have too much time to think about things, make new friends, preferably the opposite sex.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As long as you are good enough, how can you want to quit the person you like, if you must quit, you will often remind yourself that you are not worthy of the other party, which is very ok.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's easy to quit smoking and drinking.

    It's hard for you to quit alone.

    I write this book. Teardrops and pen and ink go hand in hand.

    I can't do enough of this book.

    And want to put the pen down. You must know that I have loved you for many years.

    Tossing. Dream never forget.

    Nowadays only. Keep your love in your heart.

    Self-binding as a cocoon. Fix your mood.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's too difficult, but time is the most effective thing, don't do what you should do, and live by yourself Don't meet each other in the end

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is no need to deliberately do anything, you don't need to work hard to truly forget, go with the flow of life, busyness, and naturally let go of a lot of obsessions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is too difficult, just face it frankly, accept it, and die if you love it, so naturally you don't have regrets in life.

    Because I also tried to quit, I deleted people and secretly added them.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You don't need to quit, you have to know that this kind of thing is not an addiction, it's just that you have amplified this emotion infinitely, or you just divert your attention, or you just read books, travel, increase your economy, broaden your horizons, and be a person who has eaten and seen.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When your horizons are broadened, "he" will no longer have uniqueness, and you will know that you like a type of person, not a person, and he has a lot of similar advantages, will you like the toys you liked when you were 10 years old? You will only feel naïve, so when your horizons are broadened and the conditions are quite high, he will become a passerby.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What you like or dislike is completely your hormones, find a place to vent, and you won't think about it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's be realistic: to quit the person (thing) you like, you have to find a more attractive thing (thing).

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Keep yourself busy, let your life and study be fulfilling, when you are too busy to guess these will fade away after a while.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is a young person's business. In addition to time, time, so it's hard to say this, it's hard to say.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let time slowly dilute the memories of the past, and the likes are also diluted.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Find more worthwhile things for yourself to make yourself full.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Three words: don't see, don't be cheap. Time will smooth everything out.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I can't forget that I am idle, and find more work for myself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hurry up and like another person!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The best way to forget someone is to make yourself fall in love with another person and focus on other people.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's useless to forget, it's useless to quit, the key is that you have to really let go, no longer have reluctance, unwillingness, really let go, this can be done, because if you forget, there will always be a day when you remember, the brain's barrier to memory is very fragile, and it can be easily broken.

    And as you say, quitting is changing a habit, but habits can be broken and cultivated, and even if you quit, the memories don't dissipate.

    That's why you can really let go.

    When you can face it calmly, when you don't deliberately want to forget, when you don't ask the question anymore, you really achieve your goal.

    But if you don't want to forget your sincerity at all, you have to face it, or you'll never be free.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, it can only be diluted by time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Try not to contact him for a year. Birthdays include any contact on the web. It's not that if you don't meet, you don't get in touch. It's normal that time can change all of this.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You have to think about her something bad, plus you have to concentrate on another thing, stick to it for three or four months, it will work, and you can't contact the person you like during the period.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Turn your attention to work, do something you like, and quit liking him when you don't have time to ring him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Remove all the elements about her from your life. Of course, this one is hard and can hurt a lot. But long pain is better than short pain, if you don't think about it, you won't miss it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Try not to think about him or her, think more about his or her shortcomings, take your eyes off him or her, don't pay attention to the other person's dynamics, go to Kangkang your friends for scenery and food, or see the beauty and loveliness of other people.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Keep yourself busy, you don't have time to think about it, time will dilute everything, and one day you suddenly remember that you wonder how you could like such a person back then.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Confession, after confession, you will either succeed, or you will be ruthlessly rejected, after being rejected, your self-esteem will be frustrated, and second, the other party's rejection will make you die to this heart!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This is the same as quitting smoking, generally people who quit smoking are looking for a partner to replace, since you want to quit the person you like, then go to smoke.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Brief steps to quit not liking 1) Don't pay attention to him 2) Stay away from him appropriately 3) Treat messages related to him coldly 4) Find new likes 5) Reach out to people who are better than him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Find something to do, keep yourself busy, for a longer time, slowly, and don't care so much! Time is a good medicine!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Quit the eight things (eight precepts) and you can like someone.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't think about it, don't see it, don't talk about it, if you can't do it, you can cover her with the next relationship.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Time is a good medicine, and everyone will quit it.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    When he has saved enough disappointments for you, he will naturally be able to quit.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Time, after a long time, it will naturally be forgotten.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You can't quit unless you empathize.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You can't quit really liking someone.

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