I love him, but I can t love 30

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you go to college in a way that you do, are you worthy of yourself? Not much said to you. Only one sentence.

    In this world, a lot of people. A lot of things. There will be a lot of variables.

    Hopefully one day you understand this ... First of all, let me tell you, not every happy act will have a good ending. Love is not owed to anyone.

    There is no right or wrong, maybe if you love nature, you should naturally retreat. In your narrative. I think of a sentence.

    Losing something makes us sad for a long time. Losing someone will make us sad for the rest of our lives, I want to ask you. Will you really be sad for the rest of your life?

    Ask yourself. Is it worth it? Does he still care about your feelings?

    Even if you really have nothing. Don't be sad. Because you're left with yourself.

    Since you can't get happiness. Why not let him end honorably? Love is a difficult subject to solve.

    No one can make mistakes. The degree of your strength and the speed at which he changes his heart are unknown, don't be sad, because the dream has already woken up, don't shed tears, because the heart is tired, don't despair, because he is no longer the happiness you want. Don't blame yourself.

    Because you fall, no one will lift you up. ONLY YOURSELF ... Stand up bravely.

    I hope you find a boy who is a thousand times better than him...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since you don't have the courage to face it, don't think about it, although time can dilute everything, but until the last moment, people always have a trace of illusion. Let's go and give it a go, since you think you've lost everything in this area, what are your concerns?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Well, sit down and think about what you want to do or what you like to do, and then do it with your heart to keep yourself busy and fulfilled. Time really is the best healing medicine, it can dilute any pain. Also, don't go to him anymore, there's no need, is there?

    Be yourself, and if no one loves you, love yourself

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I understand, it's a bit of the same disease, but you're three years from college, and I've been here for five years. She was my high school classmate, willful and arrogant and ignored people, smoothing out her personality, but I gave it away, there is a saying that "in the end, I only make wedding dresses for others" The first spring after leaving her, I cried for two nights, and then I stopped crying when my head was big.

    I know myself, and as long as I try to get to know some woman, I don't miss her that much. You'll want to make some new friends, too. There is no right or wrong in love, please let yourself go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you are still young, I suggest that you go further and further to get yourself in a better and farther direction.

    If you're no longer at this age, I hope you can take a closer look at this heart-wrenching episode.

    In the end, it's just that you don't want to give it up or it's no longer the suspense in the other person's heart.

    Why bother to force yourself to suffer the emotions that this person doesn't want It's so stupid...

    In addition to bravely going out and facing the splendor of your own life, you have no way to live anew.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I thought it was**. The first paragraph is well written.

    Then let it go, I can't afford to love it, and both of them will become a burden.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Loving someone begins with willingness.

    Like a person, often comes from a certain opportunity, because of his character, appearance, or just because he said a word, maybe just a hurry, the bottom of his heart began to ripple, and he put him into his heart. Like him, it is your personal choice, no one is forced, no one intervenes, it is just your own choice from beginning to end. How long you like him, how to be good to him, and how to give to him, these are all voluntary for you, and no one forces them.

    In the world of love, there are no rules and regulations, only two hearts collide, you like others, others don't like you, these are all unreasonable. Two people look at each other and look at each other together, refuse without looking, very simple things, don't have to complicate them, whether they get it or not, love or not, love is voluntary, and there are no regrets if you love.

    2. In love, you are the only one who can hurt you.

    You like him, he doesn't like you, this is a very normal thing in itself, as long as the other party rejects you and doesn't give you a loving response, a relationship ends abruptly, it's very simple and simple. It's not that he likes you, but that you know that he doesn't like you, and you still have to go to the moth to put out the fire, you have to cover your head to bump into it, and finally you are covered in bruises, but you start to blame him for not seeing your good, you have worked so hard, and he is still indifferent.

    Between people, there is no debt in itself, everyone comes to your side, it is with a natural mission, someone to warm you, someone to hurt you, someone to accompany you for a journey, someone to accompany you for a lifetime. When his mission is completed and he leaves automatically, your relationship ends here. You choose to approach him, choose to believe, you give him the opportunity to hurt you, how a person treats you is taught by you, so there is nothing to blame, even if it is a lesson in the end, it is also teaching us to be vigilant and learn to recognize people.

    From beginning to end, it is your willingness, there is nothing to complain about, you are full of gratitude for the past, even if you can't wish him in the future, you can be a stranger, and if you don't intersect in the future, you will be a stranger when you meet again.

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