How long will it take to put it down? 30

If the man really doesn't love the woman when he breaks up, then he will definitely not be sad, but will be excited that he can finally get out of the situation and regain his freedom.

However, there are also some men who are only happy for a short time. After a period of time, many men will find that they can't get along with their current girlfriend as naturally and comfortably as their ex-girlfriend, or they feel very uncomfortable feeling single and lonely now, and no one can be sure how long it will take to adapt to this situation, depending on the actual situation of the individual. Do a good job of in-depth communication.

When the two sides calm down, you can find an opportunity to sit down and discuss how to solve the problem and how to solve it, so that both parties can get relief from this contradictory confusion, and the relationship between the two people will continue.

We need to learn to understand and tolerate each other.

Contradictions are inevitable, and at this time, the whole number needs the understanding and tolerance of the other party, in order to reflect whether the feelings between each other are strong enough, test each other's ability and methods to deal with things, and find a better way to get along with each other in love contradictions, and slowly run in.

Both are willing to pay for this relationship.

Since they have chosen each other, they must regard each other as lovers and confidants, and each other must be willing to pay for each other, without any complaints. It is true that the longer the lovelorn is, the more painful the man becomes, and he cannot start a new relationship for a long time. Let's assume such a situation, suppose a woman what she will do if she falls out of love, she will cry, make trouble, find all her friends to confide in, feel that she is extremely painful, but if a man falls out of love, most of the time we will not be able to see it, that is, he will not say that he will not make trouble, nor can we see him crying, at most smoking and drinking.

It is easy to have the impression that women are actually very nostalgic and very emotional, and men are a little wolf-hearted and a little indifferent, but if this thing goes forward, you will find that half a year later, the women who were crying and can't live can not live, she quickly fell in love with a good-looking male colleague who came to the unit, and then the two of them happily started a new relationship! And this man still looks like nothing has happened, and the silence is golden, but he has never entered a new relationship!

In the past, I would think that feelings are very important, but as I grow up, I will find that feelings are the least valuable, so ah, deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, of course, you can never forget, but it is undeniable that the past should be let go, no one will always accompany anyone, and no one will always be in whom's heart for a lifetime, so yes, the words are very realistic but the truth is true. I hope you can feel the truth of these words, I have seen similar truths before, but I don't understand them, and with experience, I understand these truths.

In fact, everyone treats the depth of feelings differently. In the case that you can't let go of him, you can think about how he let go of yours. While you're thinking about him, you can think about how he's shaking his head 857 in the bar and hooking up with other young ladies.

So I don't think it's necessary. Isn't there a saying that there are only two reasons why you can't forget the previous term, the first is that the time is not long enough, and the second is that the new love is not good enough. It's been long enough, the new love is good enough, and there is nothing to forget and forget.

So be brave and start the next one.

Time is always the best medicine. No matter how deep and unforgettable the love is, it will slowly fade away in time. It is not said that it will forget it all, but it can no longer have a great impact on itself, and will only remember it occasionally, just like an anniversary, under a specific influence.

You don't need to forget it, time will give you the answer.

How long it will take to let go depends on whether you want to put it down or not. If you really want to let go, you can put it down right now. It is you who do not let go of suffering. What if you don't put it down? Let's put it down right now and start now!

In fact, it's good to fall in love again, people are forgetting in thinking that they can't forget, I've broken up for almost a year, and I'm not ready to start a new relationship, when I'm in a bad mood, I look for friends, or I want to watch a funny movie alone, people always have to slowly learn to heal themselves

Maybe you still have him in your heart. Always thinking about his good, I will always think of her. If you want to let go of him, you have to move on to your next relationship. When you find the right partner for you, then you won't think about it anymore, or only occasionally.

There is a saying that the best way to forget your ex is to time and new love, maybe not long enough, or not meet the next one. If you're not ready to meet the next one, let it be slowly diluted, the deeper the love, the longer the time, take your time.

I think the best way to let go of a relationship is at the beginning of another relationship, but when you meet true love, you will naturally forget that the so-called past is the most important thing to leave behind.

How deep the love hurts, brother, I have also experienced it The first year was really frustrated, and I could think of her when I saw anything I took 3 years to come out.

Time will dilute everything, and you need time to forget.

How long will it take to let it go? I'm afraid that only you can know that this requires you to be brave enough to let go of the other person, stop thinking about him, and start another love of yours before you can really let it go.

Time will dilute everything, and slowly you will find that nothing is a thing, everything about yourself is the most important, and other people and things are secondary.

This needs to go through a relationship again to cover the previous relationship, and when you get married and get married, you will have no idea about the previous relationship.

It's hard to say exactly how long this time will take, depending on whether you yourself are always thinking about her.

You don't have to worry about this kind of thing, and if you have a new life, you will prosper little by little.

It's almost over, I'm almost forgetful, I guess I won't remember this person by this time next year.

This kind of thing is only called real letting go when you let go of yourself.

Start a relationship anew, and time will make you let go naturally!

The next sweetheart appeared, and when the soul had sustenance, he completely forgot about her.

Why don't you chase her if you love her, torture yourself like this,

Let's talk about one again, fall in love with the other and forget.

Love has always been two extreme feelings, one is happiness and the other is sadness. is like Zhang Ailing's most classic early sentence: I thought love could fill the regrets of life.

Some people let go when they love and love, not because they don't love it, but because it hurts too much; Some people, who love and love, don't love anymore, it's not that they have changed their minds, but it's too bitter; There are also some people who wake up after loving and loving, only to understand that dignity is more important than feelings. From the present tense to the past tense, this is a very painful process, the pain is not the regret of love scattering and not being able to leave, nor is it the reluctance to leave halfway, the real pain is the inability to let go of the person who has truly loved. But no matter what, life has to go on, and you have to get up early tomorrow, and only by really letting go can you get real liberation.

When the pain was unbearable, I naturally let it go. Really let go of a person, even if it is someone who has really loved it, you don't need to work hard at all, and when the pain is unbearable, you will naturally let go. For the time being, all the things that can't be let go are because they don't hurt enough, so they insist on it, because they are not hurt deep enough.

When my ex-husband betrayed me for the first time, all I had was anger, and then I thought to myself, let it go! Put it down! He is no longer worthy of my love, but just thinking about it, when he really wants to leave, he will still be reluctant.

After all, it was a man I had shared the bed with for more than ten years and had truly loved him for more than ten years. When he betrayed me for the second time, my heart was completely cold, from the first time I was reluctant to leave to the second time I was unwilling to leave. As a result, by the third time, my heart was as calm as a pool of stagnant water, and even I was shocked, and I couldn't help but wonder what was wrong with myself.

Later, I realized that this was the manifestation of my heart like ashes, and that time I left, extremely quiet, without noise or noise. How long does it take to let go of someone you really love? I think it only takes a few more injuries to go through and that's enough!

Second, Mr. Shen: After experiencing despair, it only takes two months. People who have not experienced despair will never be able to truly let go, and only those who have truly experienced despair can truly let go.

That feeling is like being reborn again, and the things that I cared about so much before will become very indifferent, really indifferent. I broke up with my ex because I couldn't get the sky-high bride price, but she listened to the family and beat the child behind my back. Now I may feel that the previous approach was a bit naïve, and even committed suicide, bringing my parents to tears.

But at that time, I really didn't want to live anymore, of course, when a person has survived all the suffering, he no longer feels bitter. I tortured myself for two whole months for her, and from the moment I came out of the room, I was completely let go. The real letting go is not forgetting, but when facing the other person again, there are no more emotional fluctuations.

She came back to me later, but was rejected by me, it was really a decisive rejection without any mood swings, she said how could I be so ruthless, I replied to her, that's because you don't know what I went through in the two months after the breakup!

Suddenly passed. It's been four or five months, and it seems to have been put down. But many pictures are still vivid in my mind, and even the details can be "like a few treasures".

You see, sometimes, people's memory is too good to be true. It would be nice to use it to memorize words.

It seems that I've been taking my eyes back on myself lately, and my mood has calmed down a lot. Occasionally, I will be moved to tears because of what I see, but it can also be a good way to collect emotions.

But why do many times unconsciously remember the past, this habit is not good.

I think it's probably because there are too many common memories around me, and every time I go to some places and situations, I will trigger them.

I thought, you see, the place we used to go to, I went with my friends, I went with my family, I went by myself, so that I could replace the memory of that place and about him in my head. I'm going to replace it, at least dilute it.

In the end, I found that there was no substitution, and there was no dilution, but it was like a container with a solution, and I added a new solute to it, and the original solute was still there, and the nature was stable, and it didn't seem to disappear easily.

However, as the length of life increases, the amount of solvent Qi Mingqi also increases, but in comparison, the increase is not obvious enough, and it seems that the concentration of the original solute decreases too slowly.

But believe that it is being diluted.

Moreover, there are some unexpected chemical reactions that have not yet been noticed by Gaoling. Slowly, the properties of the whole solution also change. Maybe it changed from acidic to neutral, and the color changed.

It's probably the same thing in life. With the increase of solvents, various solutes have been added, and the order and amount of addition are different, and the time period and frequency of addition are also different, so Huai Ren constitutes a unique solution for each of us.

What will it end up looking like?

I think it will become more inclusive. The more things that are included, the more and more can be tolerated and accepted.

How long does it take to let go of something? Laid down? I asked myself, but there was no answer.

This is also becoming less important.

If you love someone, but you are not together, will you let go of him or her?

If you let go, how long will it be?

No one knows how long it takes to remove a loved one from your heart? How long does it take to drop a person?

But you will always be relieved at a certain moment, and at a certain moment you feel that the people and things you have been clinging to are not so important.

Maybe you always have a habit that you have developed for him or her.

For example, when eating, I have to look at my phone from time to time to see if there is any latest news.

When your phone rings or vibrates in the shower, you immediately wipe your hands and pick up your phone to reply to messages.

When I was shopping, I kept my mobile phone in my hand, for fear of missing a greeting from him.

When sleeping, the mobile phone is never muted, and even when the mobile phone is out of battery, it will wake up and charge it, turn on the phone and then sleep upside down.

These are the manifestations and habits of loving someone.

But you forget that you have been separated for a long time, but you still love him or her

Maybe when you see other couples passing by with a smile and a smile, do you feel lost?

Maybe when you are sad and need someone to accompany you many times, but find that he (she) is gone, will you realize that you don't have to be clinging?

Maybe after many years, you are mature, you are sensible, you are **, you are beautiful, you are handsome, you understand what you want, will you know how to let go.

It's not easy to let go of a person, but the most can't let go is your persistent heart.

Don't be too attached to one thing, after a long time, you will regret that what you are clinging to in your heart has been delaying you forward.

You can be persistent in completing the work, but don't be attached to the feelings.

If you once have it, you don't have to be obsessed with whether it lasts for a long time.