What should I do with this fate? Give up or persevere?

If so. Then give up. At least you did.

There are some things that you can afford to let go. Lose one. It means that there is a better one waiting for you in the future...

01: If there is fate in the cong, there is no need to flatter.

A really good friendship must be equal to each other, and there is no such thing as who looks up to whom and who looks down on whom. The two sides stand in the same position, treat each other honestly, and give to each other, only in this way can this relationship go further and further.

Jia Pingwa once said: "Friends are iron pieces, nails, screw caps and small pins attracted by magnets, as long as you want, you can always suck them from any dust in the world." ”

This passage of his corresponds to the law of attraction in psychology, telling us: what kind of person you are, what kind of person you will meet.

If there is really a fate between each other, you don't need to deliberately please, please and cater to each other, everything will go naturally, and you will not be easily separated.

This fate, although it is predetermined, but whether it can last for a long time depends on the daily operation, and the real fate of people is inseparable from each other's cherishing and intentions, as long as both parties have been honest, this fate will never be dispersed.

02: If there is no fate, there is no need to go against your will and force each other.

People who are really destined will still meet again in the end, while people who have no fate, even if they walk face to face, are still indifferent in their hearts.

So many times, many relationships don't have to be forced, if there is no fate between the two, you might as well choose to go with the flow, otherwise the more reluctant, the deeper the damage.

In Zhang Ailing's long ** "Half Life", the hero and heroine are typical cases, when they were young, they loved each other deeply and made a private decision for life, and then went around and around because of various misunderstandings and got separated.

In addition to objective reasons, the main reason for the breakdown of their relationship is that they do not trust each other and have their own guards.

And a really good relationship can't be calculated, if Bu Li only thinks about himself in everything, then this relationship can't be maintained.

They are in deep love, and they can't escape the ending of separation, which also warns us that if there is no fate between the two, there is no need to go against their will and reluctantly be with each other, so that they can get together and disperse It can better highlight the pattern.

03: Follow the fate of everything, look at it openly, and respect every encounter and departure.

If there is a fate-type Zheng Wu, if you are separated, you will still meet again, if you don't have a fate, even if you are inseparable every day, you still can't go to the end. Living in this world, as long as you look at everything a little bit and look down on it, you won't be so tired.

The relationship between people is not as complicated as we imagined, this life seems to be long, but there are very few people who really intersect with us.

Those who deserve our care, may wish to work hard to give, work hard to manage, and our lives will become more fulfilling and more abundant because of their existence.

And those who are not worthy of our association, there is no need to spend so much energy and patience, learn to say goodbye, learn to let go, the burden on our shoulders, in order to lighten the road back, in order to go a little smoother.

For the rest of your life, learn to follow fate in everything, look down on it, respect every encounter and parting, cherish what is worth cherishing, and give up what is not worth interacting with.

Only by finding the center of gravity of life can we divide every point.

There are thousands of fates, and there is always no time to meet, and there is no chance to meet sooner or later.

Although we keep a calm heart and accept the departure of others, we also welcome the arrival of new fate with hope.

Sending away the people who have no fate is actually a good start in life, and the people who have no fate are gone, and you can only usher in the people who are really destined for you.

Maybe the person who has no fate has given us an unforgettable experience, so that you can't let go of Tong for a long time, can't let go, please give yourself a little time, take a good **, believe that everything will pass, everything will be fine, and always believe that your fate will never be absent.

Maybe it's the arrangement of fate, so that you hit a wall in the relationship first, and then find the person who really fell in love with you, the fetters of fate, whether it is bad or good, are a kind of growth in life, which will make you meet a better and faster self.

The fate between people can be said to be natural, because many fate types disappear, or many fates that form a family are through blind dates to recognize divination knowledge, and in the end they will live very well, so fate stares at the nature of the difference.

Two people should respect each other, understand each other's manuscripts, support each other's careers, have a more sense of ritual in life, cherish each other's contributions, and give Ye Heng in return.

Hello! Fate is destined.

Who you will be with is actually predestined for a long time.

It is often said that it is not a family that does not enter the door.

That's what I'm saying.

Many people have been moved by Faye Wong's song "Passing Years", which has a lyric that sings: "In your lifetime, you will not be spared when you meet on a narrow road." ”

Fate, this thing, is really indescribable.

But it's also real.

If there is fate, even if they are thousands of miles apart, they can meet each other.

If you don't have a chance, you don't know each other.

Of course, fate is also deep and shallow.

People who are not related to you can only become passers-by in your life, and will only stay in your life for a short time.

Perhaps, we have known each other and loved each other, but in the end, we will also separate.

Because of this fate, it can only end here.

When the fate is over, it will be dispersed.

Therefore, for this kind of fate, we should not have resentment, nor regret, but should be grateful.

I am grateful to have met each other, and I have had such a good experience with each other.

I thought that this encounter made our life more exciting, and it would not be too dull.

And some people have a deep fate with us, even if there is a misunderstanding in the middle and there is an excessive reunion, but in the end they can still come together and stay together for a lifetime.

Fate is full of variables.

It's the same with fate.

We can't be sure who will end up with us for a long time.

We also can't be sure who is only a short-lived resident.

But whether it is a guest who rubs shoulders or misses love, even if there is only one trip of laughter and touching, it also makes each other feel the taste of happiness.

Whether it is a guest who rubs shoulders or misses love, even if there is only one trip of laughter and touching, it also makes each other feel the taste of happiness.

As long as we cherish every fate we encounter, our lives will become wonderful enough.

Cherish every encounter, and when you are old, you will not leave regrets and regrets.

Only when you can afford it and let it go can you usher in a better future and usher in the next beauty.

In this life, I am worthy of myself, worthy of every encounter, worthy of every fate, and have a clear conscience, which is enough.

Happiness will not be waiting for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish the new year.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or is it because he loves to shoot you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we have all around us. Some of these people are just (you. I.

He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The movies you miss are always the most beautiful, and the lost lover always knows you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) Everything you want, you will be happy when you see the person you love happy, you will be happy when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her) together, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

You have to understand this word separately, the reason is that it is determined by man! Only when there is fate can we get together, it is also the arrangement of fate, and only when we have a share can we be together, but this part depends on our own efforts.

In the vast sea of people, two people have met, met, known, or loved each other, this is fate, and fate does not need to wait.

Fate is fought for by people, created by people, only people who know how to work hard to create fate are the most rational, but how many people can grasp it and cherish it when fate comes! Fate is beautiful, fate is the same as love, it is an ancient topic, and fate also needs to be carefully cared for, fate is not poetry, but it is more beautiful than poetry, fate is not wine, but it is more fragrant than wine. Love knows no distance or region, in the sky of fate, fate is not never far away, cherish your fate, treat your love well.

Don't wait for the loss of empty resentment.

Fate is amazing. It's a beautiful thing to get it right.

If. Because of his character, fate slipped away. It's going to be a pity.

There are many things in life that do not come with a warning and disappear for no reason, because they cannot be explained, and they are full of infinite mysteries, giving people reverie and meditation. Fate is a kind of thing that is difficult to say clearly, a chance encounter, the moment when the eyes meet, fate quietly rises from the heart; Suddenly looking back, the moment of looking at each other, doomed each other to a lifelong relationship; With a smile, it has become an opportunity to meet the day after tomorrow.

Fate is like water, like spring rain sprinkled without warning, moisturizing things silently and quietly, moistening the indifference and tranquility in the state of mind. Fate is like water, water moves with emotion, comes and goes freely, and comes and goes silently. From this point of view, the coming and going of fate is not something that you will come if you miss it, nor is it something that you can throw away if you want to.

Today it gushes out of a mountain stream, tomorrow it is pumped into a river on stainless steel wheels, and then it rushes back into the sea. One section of the road is just the end of a mileage, and the next section of the road begins a new mileage, and where it will flow depends on the amount of water stored and the rate of progress.