I m 17 years old, I m a sophomore in high school, and I always feel uncomfortable walking on my own

Hello, I carefully analyzed your problem, you always feel uncomfortable when you walk by yourself, and your hands always don't know how to put it, which is very unnatural, especially when someone comes from the opposite side. I think you're a sign of a lack of self-confidence.

If you are not confident in yourself, whether it is walking or doing other things, you will be a little timid and uncomfortable, you can try the following methods to improve your self-confidence.

You must walk with your head held high, and at the same time, you must learn to take the initiative to socialize with others. People who are discouraged when they encounter setbacks often hang their heads as a sign of failure, a sign of lack of strength, and a sign of loss of confidence. Successful people, proud people, and victorious people always hold their heads high and are high-spirited.

Holding your head high is a sign of strength and confidence.

Constantly self-suggesting and self-motivating: "I will definitely succeed", "I can do what others can do, and I am not worse than them", etc., after a period of exercise, the inferiority complex will be gradually overcome.

Finally, consciously choose to associate with people who are cheerful, optimistic, enthusiastic, kind, respectful, and caring about others. Mr. Pingmeng Wang, who used to tutor me in my homework, would ask me to list the strengths of my personality, give a positive evaluation of my success, and make a practical plan for my shortcomings that I was very concerned about, and try to change them.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

Not confident enough! Try to find a way to free yourself!

Brother, think about it, I'm actually very handsome, compared to those, but with arms and legs, you are much stronger!

Hello. Thank you for your trust in all of you, tell us your troubles here, and we will definitely try our best to help you.

This year is 17 years old, you always feel uncomfortable when you walk by yourself, and your hands always don't know how to put **, which is very unnatural, especially when someone comes from the opposite side. At the age of 17, when we are in adolescence, in this psychological stage, adolescent children will undergo great changes both physically and psychologically, and will pay more attention to themselves, such as paying attention to their own appearance, tone of voice, behavior, and more concerned about other people's opinions and evaluations, etc., which are relatively normal reactions at this age.

I don't know when and how long has you been in this situation? In addition to the influences you mentioned, does that have an impact on your life and study? If there is no impact, it is something to be experienced at this age, and when something like this occurs in the future, you can mentally tell yourself when you walk:

It's a normal phenomenon to look up. Then you look up at the road and distract yourself. As long as you mentally think that this is a normal thing, you will gradually stop paying attention.

Happy learning!

First of all, you have to know that people have bad negative emotions, such as anger, jealousy, etc., and if they are not handled properly, the most likely ones to hurt are the people around you and those close to you, such as parents, children, partners, and so on.

So, I suggest that you and your parents make sure to explain your situation, and if they pay attention to it, let them figure out a way, and even if they can't think of a solution, at the very least, if you get vaccinated, if you don't control your emotions well, it won't hurt them much.

Actually, I have a very good way to channel these negative emotions, but most people would rather endure it than do it.

Isn't it stressful? The pressure of study and life can make people irritable. It is recommended that you go to read some books that can calm people's minds, if you don't know what books to read, take the time to go to the bookstore, everyone likes different books, so you have to try to find the books you are interested in, you will have a feeling of meeting a soulmate, communicate with the author, and believe that good books will take you out of this predicament.

You're in a normal state of mind right now! However, you can't always think about losing your temper, you have to learn to suppress it, smooth out the edges and corners in your heart, after all, your parents are our elders, communicate more, and don't always put yourself alone in the house, which is not healthy for your own psychology.

The age of the rebellious period.

It's normal because your parents instilled in you.

If you don't read well, you can only work as a waiter in the future, then you definitely don't want to do this.

But you're not very good at studying, I'm guessing

You feel like you're going to have a bad time in the future.

Being threatened by your parents, like "If you don't have a job, I won't care about you."

It's too much pressure and it's normal to lose your temper, and next year today is your college entrance examination, and there will definitely be pressure. So it's okay, just adjust it slowly. Come on Junior.

It may be caused by too much pressure in school, and the study in the second year of high school is just quite tight, relax yourself appropriately, talk to your parents more, let them know more about your situation, and you can't hold back when you encounter problems.

You are a good boy, you are growing up with my son, and so is he, and he is under a lot of pressure to study, so go out for a walk, exercise, and it is said that looking at green plants when you want to lose your temper will calm your mind.

Take a cold shower to solve the problem.

Participate in more sports activities, there is an impact of aura and temperament.

Practise walking the march??? Sometimes it's important to believe that you're 20 and 20 single.

My classmates said that I walked like stepping on a landmine,,, and I was in a struggle.

Go your way and let it go.

It shows that you are mature, it is time to take responsibility, and you feel the crisis.

Most of the acne in adolescence is good, and now that it is gradually autumn, the phenomenon of hair loss is also allowed, since you have been to the doctor, there is no big problem, don't scare yourself, many diseases are scared.

Endocrine disorders, exercise more, sweat more, eat less greasy food, drink intestinal clear tea once every three to five days, detoxify, and have time to handjob is also necessary.

It may be that too much stress causes endocrine disorders, and it is normal for Doudou to be at this age, and it is best to go to the hospital for a check-up if there are other discomforts.

It is recommended to go to bed before 23 o'clock every day, 23 o'clock to 2 o'clock is the running time of the liver meridian and gallbladder meridian, and appropriate rest can be relieved. Then it is recommended to drink some fresh raw potato juice (180ml) before breakfast, which may not taste good, you can put an apple It can be improved after a period of time, and it has a special effect on constipation, try it, and if you have it, you can use some ofloxacin gel to wipe it.

Is it going to be a senior year of high school, which is stressful, resulting in endocrine disorders, and I used to have classmates in my third year of high school who had serious hair loss due to studying.

Maturity comes at a price, and if it's not forced to, natural growth is stronger than anything! Ever heard of a white head overnight? That's probably what it means, if there is a major accident or change around you, a person will mature and grow quickly.

So but go with the flow. If you want to be mature, decide your own affairs, think more, make more choices, don't listen to others, you can listen to opinions, but you know that you are responsible for the consequences of the decisions you make, so that you will be more cautious and clearer in your choice.

Maturity takes experience and honing. There's another way: a crush on someone. You can learn a lot of things: calmness, observing words and feelings, analyzing your heart, and considering the feelings of others. You try, but don't get in the way of your studies.

Talk to strangers and learn from what you say.

You should behave very quietly, obediently, and sensibly in front of your relatives, but in front of your friends, it's another situation, crazy together, right? In fact, this is very normal, because your circle in the relationship changes, and your strategy will also change! You can't be big or small in front of your parents and grandparents.

In fact, like you, I lack communication with my parents, and I put everything in my heart, but you are okay, you can release it by socializing with friends!

You also need to disguise in front of your friends, all the same.

In front of your parents, let them reassure you, show that you are very filial, understand their psychology, and there is nothing wrong with pretending.

I often tell some friends that what they position themselves is, they are what they are.

Relax, go out and walk more, if it doesn't work, you need drug intervention**.

Overcome yourself, train yourself, save yourself.