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You care a lot about what other people think, why is that?
Friend, to tell you bluntly, you lack one of the most valuable things - self-confidence.
If you want to get out of this mental obstacle, you must first be confident.
People are not confident, who believes them.
People should have face, and this face refers to a person's dignity, not ordinary trivial things.
There is no one who has not been criticized in his life, isn't it just that the teacher said a word about you?
Why care about him, he said it intentionally or unintentionally, and it will be fine, and you have been uncomfortable for many days, think about it, is it worth it.
People live for themselves, live for themselves, not for others, why care about what others think and wronged themselves.
Give yourself more self-confidence, just say it, whatever, raise your head, I live for myself, not for you, I don't care what you say, your eyes, I have my own ideas, I have my own tomorrow, I have my own future.
Go your own way, and don't be afraid of others looking at you!
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A person's life is full of ups and downs, and the problem of face is of course very important to some people, but sometimes you have to face some problems independently, people always have to grow up, and always have to deal with some things independently by themselves, and you will have to face more things independently in the future, how can you let this little problem stop you from moving forward? Are you right? Take courage and start your new life!
Let's work together!
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Chekhov's ** "The Death of a Little Civil Servant", if you try to see, maybe it can help a little; Or see a psychiatrist for advice.
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You are purely "falling flowers ruthless and intentional".
This is all your subjective deliberate thoughts, if you think about it from a different angle, you are a bystander, do you care about other people having such an experience? Think about it yourself, it's nothing.
Leave your baggage down and run to a new life!!
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Ai: Actually, it's nothing, it's a lot of things.
In fact, as long as you don't care, there's nothing to gain.
People won't care much about you.
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If you ask someone if they remember that, can they point out that it was you?
Hehe, you'll be relieved when you know the results.
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Hello, dear, how to get out of the psychological barrier is as follows: 1. Establish a correct concept and maintain an optimistic attitude towards life. It is necessary to establish a correct concept, understand that life is not all smooth sailing, and it is normal to encounter setbacks and difficulties, and maintain an optimistic attitude towards life, and overcome difficulties with an optimistic attitude towards life. 2. Positive autosuggestion.
Friends with psychological disorders should engage in more positive self-suggestion, think about something to make themselves happy every day, especially in the morning and before going to bed, tell themselves that "all difficulties are temporary" and "they will definitely be able to do it". Don't think about unpleasant things, the more you think about it, the more likely it is to cause anxiety. If you can't control thinking about unpleasant things, you must also learn to accept the reality and take failure as the basis for success, and it will be easier to reach a state of psychological equilibrium.
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1. From the heart, you want to overcome psychological barriers. Patients with psychological disorders must have a tenacious will, be able to summon up the courage to face this psychological disorder, and deal positively with the ** that causes psychological disorders, so as to be able to carry out reasonable ** and avoid psychological disorders becoming more and more serious, and even affecting people's nervous system health.
2. Drugs**. Patients have a serious psychological disorder, through the conventional ** effect is not ideal, you can choose oral drugs to alleviate the condition, generally some psychotropic drugs, according to the cause of the psychological disorder and different symptoms to choose a certain dose, psychological disorders patients should also regularly check the body during the medication, symptoms have improved can be temporarily stopped.
3. Psychological counseling. Psychological disorder is due to the phenomenon caused by mental illness, so you should go to a regular hospital for psychological counseling, under the guidance and alleviation of doctors, the patient's mood can be gradually relaxed, and the first psychological disorder has a good effect to avoid the phenomenon of excessive psychological pressure. **During the illness, it is necessary to have a good daily life and dietary regularity, and also need the care and care of the family.
Psychological disorder is a more serious disease, and will also have a certain impact on the daily life of the patient, if you do not pay attention to the reasonable **, it will even cause symptoms of memory disorders and endocrine disorders, men have psychological disorders will lead to sexual dysfunction, will also affect normal reproductive health, if women have psychological disorders, it will also cause symptoms of menstrual disorders, so it should be reasonable according to the actual causes of psychological disorders.
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Obstacles cannot be overcome, only by facing obstacles can we solve them, and it is useless to escape.
The problem of parents is greater than that of environmental problems.
386306073 Friends, you should know that mental illness is not solved in a day or two, so it is not solved in a day or two, as long as the problem is improving, don't worry about whether it will get better, because your worries will also invisibly add a lot of pressure to yourself. Believe in your counselor, believe in yourself, and you will definitely get better. Looking forward to your good news!
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