What to do if your boyfriend doesn t work 15

Leave... A man who does not seek to be motivated, the longer you keep it, the greater the damage, after all, we can't live with love for a lifetime, and life needs a certain material foundation.

The point is that he has developed an irreversible fear of social interaction!

Please pay attention! All of his choices and practices are invariably based on one unchanging premise - that is.

Try not to come into contact with people! Don't call him timid, don't say he's lazy, psychology calls it social phobia!

It's not hard for you to talk to strangers or adapt to an unfamiliar environment.

But to him, to put it mildly, it's an insurmountable mountain!

What the? Try to change him? No kidding! God is amused by you!

That character flaw is the result of his experience over the past 20 years! You can only change yourself!

I'm not going to say anything like I want you to leave him, or that you won't be happy in your life!

I just want to say that if you choose the right one, you will live a peaceful and comfortable life!

Suffice it to say that if you choose the wrong one, you will live in pain and regret!

You're his ATM, can he not be nice to you?

Adults don't even look for a job, they rely on their family and girlfriends to support them, so they don't have to be ashamed. Is he still responsible?

Doing your laundry and cooking is called good for you? A man who is really good to you will shoulder the responsibility on his shoulders instead of expecting others to live all day long! If you don't act, what's the use of being smart, you can't drink the northwest wind when you eat!

Men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", what is there about him that is so good that you have to marry him? Is his shoulders stiff enough, stable enough, can he give you a sense of security?

Are you going to feed him?

Don't indulge, you will get lazier and lazier, and if you are addicted to the Internet in the future, I am afraid that you will not be able to do laundry and cooking.

Talk to him. At least know what he thinks.

Since you accepted him and wanted him to get a job as soon as possible, it proves that you love him. So. I don't advise you to separate, you don't have to separate, don't the Chinese have an old saying: Rather tear down ten temples than destroy a marriage!

At present, you need to start working on him from the following three aspects.

1.From the social reality and the responsibilities that men and women should bear, the reason will be clear to him, so that he can be taken on the sense of responsibility for you in the future.

2.Put yourself in his shoes, analyze the current form of employment and the job he is comfortable with, and remember not to blindly urge him to find a job, which will increase his antipathy towards you. To give more affirmation and praise for his ability from life, men sometimes often show a very masculine thing in front of women, so don't talk too much, every sentence can make him feel that you care about him and can understand him deeply.

3.Reducing the time spent with him and going home late on the grounds of a gathering of friends and colleagues at work can make him realize the emptiness of not looking for a job and not having a girlfriend by his side. But when you come home at night, you should greet him more, so that he will increase his gratitude to you, and you will be able to do ideological work for him.

I don't like to talk too much, everyone knows the truth of life, so I won't repeat it here, I hope you can bathe in the sunshine of life together.

My boyfriend is the same way, he doesn't have any money, he doesn't go to work, he just plays at home every day, it sounds good, it's play, it's not good, it's not motivating, he doesn't have money, he doesn't want to go to work to earn money, he only knows how to borrow money, really, more than two years together, I don't know, has he really thought about the future.

Hello dear, I'm honored to answer for you. Hello, what should I do if my boyfriend doesn't go to work and I don't want to go to work, to put it simply, you have thought that if you get married in the future, even if you find a job, it is very likely that you will change jobs frequently. I don't have a sense of responsibility, I don't want to work hard, and the family in the future will depend on you to support ......You work hard every day, but he is idle at home, and if you have no money, you ask your family for it, or even ask you for it, and you may not even be able to raise your children at that time!

It's too difficult to want him to be angry, and people who grow up in a greenhouse can't be on their own without experiencing blows, and they won't be self-motivated. The two of them encourage each other to see if it will change. I hope mine is helpful to you.

If you are satisfied with me, I hope you can give a thumbs up, thank you very much! I also wish you a happy life and all the best

Questions. I was very angry that he didn't go to work today, and he said that he would let me go to work after taking care of me yesterday, and asked me to tell the minister by the way.

Communicate with him first to understand why he doesn't want to go to work, and then choose how to guide him. For example, if he is bullied at work, then you support him to leave his job and comfort him. He feels that the work is hard, and if his work is really hard, you can help him to see if he can solve it, such as changing jobs and finding an easier job.

If your boyfriend's work is not very tiring and he just has a tendency to be lazy, motivate him and make him stop being lazy. The idea of pie in the sky can also force him to work if necessary. It's okay to watch inspirational movies and tell some stories, but he just doesn't want to work, he just wants to stay at home, so hurry up and break up, he can't support his family, what if he gets married and has children, what if there is no mine at home.

Questions. I didn't go to work, so I was angry with him, because he was always on his side looking for a reason to prevaricate me.

He may have been working for a long time without going well, or because he had been in a low-wage, high-pressure work environment for a long time, and the pressure cooker exploded all at once. And looking at many peers around me, born with a golden soup spoon, they have everything since they were born, and they don't worry about eating and drinking all their lives, but in contrast, they are tired and tired every day but can't even solve the basic problem of food and clothing, so they will be tired. Therefore, you should persuade him to change his mentality, understand the truth that each of us cannot choose our own origin, "once we come, we will be safe", and strive to do well in the present.

Questions. He said if I wanted to live my life, and he asked me if I really didn't know how to go to him, because he really made me sad and always said him right.

He's just lazy, he hasn't gone to work for a few days, and he doesn't want to go to work anymore, and he hasn't worked much this year.

You can say, no job, no salary, where will we get the money to pay rent, water, electricity, mortgage, car loan, etc., what will we do in the future.

1. The job is found for yourself, and you must feel the need to find it to be motivated.

2. Your boyfriend is not looking for a job, and it is not something you should worry about, his parents don't care, and it may be useless for you to care.

3. What is the reason why he is not looking for a job, and do you know what he is thinking?

4. You just need to know what kind of object you want to find, and if he doesn't meet your requirements, you should be divided.

5. If he cares about your feelings, he will go to find it, if you don't care, you bother to think about it, and it is a waste of time to regret and shout.