What is it like to work with people with different views?

It will be very tiring to talk to each other, because you have not responded to each other for a long time, and you can't talk about going together for a long time, and you feel that you are wasting time by talking to each other more, so it is very important to find someone who has the same three views. If you share the wrong person happily, it becomes a show, and if you share the wrong person with sadness, it is hypocrisy.

In our life, it is not uncommon to meet love and sex, but it is rare to meet understanding and meet the person who agrees with your three views. In the eyes of people with different views, you are enjoying life, but they think that you are deliberately showing off. It's also quite difficult to work together.

The best friend, who has only been married for two years, divorced her husband because her husband disliked her for baking. After listening to it, I was shocked: divorced because of baking, as for it?!

She said; "Baking is a small thing, but marriage is a daily routine. I like to bake, but he thinks I'm blind, saying that I don't do serious things, I say it's for the sake of my family, making healthy desserts, but he says that eating sweets is not healthy ......"I think people who don't agree with the three views shouldn't be able to get together, and they can't live together.

My friend and her husband, she likes to raise flowers, but her husband always flicks cigarette ash into the flower pot; She likes to keep her home clean and tidy, but her husband always leaves his clothes and socks messed up; She likes to hang out with friends on weekends, and her husband always complains that it is unnecessary and a waste of money; Even on their wedding anniversary, her husband did not express any ...... as before

Chatting with a friend a few days ago, she said that her new job was very depressing, and when asked why, it turned out that there was an eldest sister who was always talking about her behind her back. My friend is a person who loves life, and every morning he cooks an exquisite breakfast and takes photos to send to Moments. In the eyes of friends, this is a record of daily life, but in the eyes of the eldest sister, it is hypocritical and showing off.

Hello! First, with a person with different views, we usually say that this kind of person does not talk more than half a sentence, so when you meet this kind of person, if you talk about something or have different opinions on a certain point of view, you don't need to have an argument with him, just ignore it.

Second, it's easy to be with someone who doesn't agree with the three views, either you will have a strong conflict, or the two of you may fall into a state of cold war, so generally if it can be solved, or if you inevitably have to meet with her every day in Changsheng Tong's life, it is best to find a way to solve this situation.

Third, generally speaking, if we are with a person who does not agree with our three views for a long time, it is easy to have disputes, which will lead to conflicts, and will also affect our own mood and emotions. If you are in this situation for a long time, it is easy to cause all kinds of physical diseases.

Fourth, with people who do not agree with the three views, we also have to distinguish whether this kind of person can communicate with them, if it is really a stubborn person, then you don't need to talk too much with him. If the other party is a sensible person, if you feel it is necessary, you can also tell him your point of view, and guide him carefully and patiently.

People with incorrect views are not suitable for being together, because there are too many things about themselves after marriage, and if two people have incorrect views, it will lead to a lot of contradictions.

Love, that's everyone's yearning.

In their lives, what everyone wants most is not much, but I just hope to meet a suitable person, and after meeting each other, we will always hold each other's hands tightly and keep moving forward.

After all, in the journey of life, no matter how independent a person is, even if he is alone, it is enough to resist everything given by the years, but if there is no one to accompany him, no one to share, and no one to understand, such days will still seem a little lonely after all.

Everyone is the same, they will hope that someone will accompany them along the way, and they will hope that they will be accompanied by people who are very compatible with them.

But unfortunately, the right person is never so easy to meet.

The three views do not agree, and there is no way to communicate at all.

Between couples, although some people have completely different hobbies from each other, they can also understand and respect each other, and for many things, even if they have different opinions with each other, they can still seek common ground while reserving differences.

Like this, even if they are very different, they can still get along, and the quality of each other is generally relatively high, and they are still very good together.

As for the fact that for many people and many things, two people have completely different views, and often feel that they are right and feel that the other party is unreasonable, then such two people are of course not very suitable for living together.

World view, outlook on life, values, when each other are so far apart, no one can convince anyone, no one can understand and tolerate anyone, in getting along, it is inevitable that there will be many contradictions.

What's more, whenever a conflict occurs, because each other's cognition is fundamentally different, and each other is not on the same channel, you will be very depressed at that time, and after that, you will still have no way to solve the problem.

In front of people with different views, you will always be useless, you want to be romantic when you buy a movie ticket, he said that you are a loser, you are wearing a new dress, and I want him to praise him but he says, he is so old, no matter how he dresses up, he will never understand your mind, even if you want to say anything to him, you have never swallowed it back to your mouth.

Different personalities can complement each other, and different living habits can be accommodated, but it is difficult to accommodate different views. The three views are different, and the two people will become more and more speechless, or even part ways.

Husband and wife are relatives who want to be with each other for a lifetime, they must learn to empathize and think from each other's standpoint, after all, the husband and wife do not have a major principled problem, everything does not have to be too serious, the three views of husband and wife are different, and they must learn to change their three views, so that everything will be fine, and there will be no consequences at all.

It is difficult for people with different views to get along together, and it is difficult to get along harmoniously.

Definitely not, two people together are also suffering... After all, there are no common values.

In the process of falling in love, both men and women will slowly become familiar with each other and gradually discover each other's shortcomings, but the situation that you and your boyfriend do not agree is an intolerable problem in love. I suggest you think about whether or not you want to stay together. Because this problem cannot be done by tolerating each other.

If we go on together, the disagreement of the three views will involve too many problems, and it will be extremely uncomfortable to get along with each other.

If you want to talk to each other, first of all, your knowledge reserve should be about the same, that is, you have enough knowledge reserves, and you can smile when the other party tells a joke, such as a view on a book, a movie, or a hot event.

The three views are the same, not requiring two people to have the same everything, in fact, many couples ignore a detail: of course, two people get along with the same, but they must also be different. For example, your other half will have some bad habits because of the original family, and you must also learn to understand and accept it, after all, not everyone's original family and growth environment are happy.

Tolerance, understanding, and acceptance, only then can the two hearts truly get closer.

The difference in three views does not mean that you and your partner are not resisted at any point of difference, after all, there are no two people who are completely suitable in the world, and love actually stems a lot from this difference, you are an introvert, but you are attracted to her who is extroverted and can infect your emotions, so a truly comfortable relationship is to be able to accept the difference of your partner and respect the differences between each other and yourself.

Love is the process of mutual understanding, and the point of love is to have a common language! When you don't get along well and don't have a common language that is not suitable for each other, there is no need to force yourself, and continuing to maintain it can only be tiring and tiring yourself. Don't get too tangled.

People have their own aspirations, and different ways do not conspire with each other. Life is about constantly choosing, choosing what you pursue, choosing what you like, and choosing the right one.