I feel like I spend money on falling in love, what should I do?

Let's take a look at the situation.

If it's your own money.

I'm sure you shouldn't have much to say 0 .

But if it's she who asks you to buy this and sell that. Then you have to be careful.

A good girl.

It's going to help your boyfriend who knows how to save money.

Face can be love.

Don't get carried away by love.

Go out and cry flowers.

When I got home, I looked at my shriveled wallet and was worried.

Can this last until you get married?

I think you have a problem with the way you fall in love.

Besides. Ten days of flowers 500. Not much.

What do you do at 50 a day?。。

I spent more than you do

The situation is about the same as ours

Actually, these are not problems

If the two of them really have plans for the future

She should understand you

After all, he is now twenty years old

What is the money

It'll be fine in the future Actually, he also spends money when I am with my boyfriend, and if I say pay, he will lose face. But a good female helium will help your boyfriend save money, even if you don't say it. Take your time, you can tell her once in a while, the salary is very small, the money is not much, of course, it will not hurt your face to be tactful, and she will pay attention.

That's a tough question! Handsome guy, but it's another problem that has to be faced.

Hello face, you feel that you love her,,, you can understand.

But have you thought about it? Does she love you? If she really loves you, she will pay you to spend all your salary on buying her things, and bear to hand over you to drink the wind??

I don't understand.

Have a good exchange, people who really love you will not dislike you because of how much money you spend, don't make a swollen face and become fat, if you love each other, save your salary and keep it for marriage in the future, isn't it good.

Is it true that she lacks that bit of food and you have to spend money to maintain your love Or if you don't buy it for her and she's not happy? It doesn't really make much sense to do that, and she'll be considerate if she understands your situation.

Use it, I look down on you the most, I want to report the beauty here, and I'm afraid of spending money there.

Trees without bark will surely die, and people are faceless and invincible in the world. May God bless you, child. Amen -She doesn't even pay, if she doesn't pay, this woman should not be better. But if you think she's really good, she's a good girl, and it's worth it.

In fact, you feel that what your girlfriend wants may not necessarily be what she wants, and two people are together, you don't have to spend money, you love face, yes, men nowadays love face, but there is that kind of economic strength, your girlfriend is with you, she should know your situation, so, if she doesn't propose to buy anything, you don't want to buy this and that.

Take her to climb the mountain and find exercise that doesn't cost money.

o(∩_o...Let's think about the relationship between bread and love in an all-round way!

If you want to break up if you are too expensive to fall in love, you can negotiate with the other party to reduce the cost or AA.

In fact, the first point is about the spending part, whether the two parties rotate to spend money, AA or one party to spend money, about this matter, in fact, many people have been a little controversial. Some people think that some activities in love are generally spent by men, and some people think that in this era, if the man has no money, the girl can spend money.

Then there are some people who think it's better to AA or rotate (I pay for the movie, you pay for the food, or change it next time) to achieve a balance in this way.

But no matter what kind of model, the most important thing is to look at the result of the discussion between the two people, if the economic conditions of the two of you are similar, and they are not very rich, you can use the rotation system or the average system.

If one party is richer, one party can also be responsible and have more money. The most important thing is that the two of you discuss how to do it yourself, the way that suits others may not be suitable for you, but the most important thing is to find a way to deal with it that makes both of you feel more at ease and happy, then it may be better.

Hello, after breaking up with the money spent for each other during the relationship, it is generally not returned, unless it is a loan relationship. Because spending money is voluntary.

For the question of how to spend money, we might as well take a look at the way couples spend money:

1. All expenses shall be borne by one party.

The advantage of this way of spending money is that one party bears all the expenses when the two people are together, while the other party enjoys it safely and does not have to worry about money. This method also greatly satisfies those boys who love face, they can just show their male side, but the girls who are dating him must abide by his consumption habits and cannot touch his bottom line.

2. Both people spend money.

Some girls don't enjoy the fact that boys spend money on themselves, not because they are hypocritical, but because they are influenced by their own lifestyle. Besides, two people are in love, and they have not yet reached the step of getting married, and girls have the psychology of not wanting to take advantage of them.

Therefore, if a boy invites her to dinner and a movie, she will also repay the other party accordingly, such as Mei Mei. Two people pay for their own consumption together, maybe the boy will spend more money, which seems to be a loss, but in fact, his efforts are seen by the girls and will love him more.

3. Two people adopt the AA system.

This is a very popular way at the moment, for example, two people share the money for eating and watching movies, and there will be no embarrassment of who spends more and who spends less. Some people may not be comfortable at first, after all, our tradition is that men spend more, and women spend some or nothing accordingly. However, try a few more times and you'll find that it will save you and the other person a lot of trouble, because neither one takes advantage of the other.

The above is the way most couples will spend money, no matter what it is, it is most appropriate for both people to accept it. For couples, in the case of limited economic conditions, you may wish to make it clear to each other, I believe that many people can accept it.

Good luck!

1. If two people have not yet determined the relationship, it belongs to the ambiguous period, going out to date and eat every day is a big expense, and it is inevitable that there will be some embarrassing atmosphere in the heart after a long time. Boys will generally sell stools to reflect the gentlemanly demeanor of men and rush to pay, and girls will also rush to pay in order to leave a good impression on each other.

Second, if it is the early stage of the relationship, girls want to be equal in their relationship with each other, and when the boy pays a little more for himself, he will want to return it, but pay attention to the method, if the method is not right, it is easy for people to misunderstand.

When two people fall in love, there is no stipulation that the cost of love must be borne by the boys, nor does it say that girls should also follow the stalls. Depending on the situation, the boy's economic strength is good, and the man can spend a little more, if your conditions are good, you are willing to pay a little more for the boy, in the world of feelings, you must accept the other party's contribution calmly, too much care seems to be very raw.

When two people go out to eat, they should also pay attention to proportion, don't ask each other too much, think more about each other, try to go to a high-end restaurant with a lot of money, he invites you to dinner, you invite him to watch a movie, and the exchange of courtesies can also enhance the relationship.

Personally, I think that falling in love is a matter of two people, blindly letting one party pay, such a relationship does not last long, since they are together, they should think more about each other, human nature is greedy, we must learn to restraint, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, only in this way will the relationship be long-lasting and stable.