What should I do if I feel that some people are unhappy with me?

Every day we live, don't get along with ourselves.

In this world, there are many things that we can hardly predict. We can't control our circumstances, but we can control ourselves. We can't predict the future, but we can grasp the present; We don't know how long our lives are, but we can arrange our lives in the moment. As long as you live, there is hope.

There are always troubles in life, and sometimes the troubles in life are not about how much you get or how much you have, but about thinking that you want to get more. People sometimes want to get too much and can't achieve it, so they feel disappointed and dissatisfied. Then, he tortured himself, saying that he was "too stupid", "not angry", etc., and so on, so he often couldn't get along with himself and competed with himself.

In fact, calm down and think about it carefully, many things in life are not because you are not capable, but precisely because your wishes are unrealistic. We have to believe that we are gifted with the ability to do all kinds of things, and of course, believing in our ability does not mean forcing ourselves to do things that we can't do. In fact, there is a limit to everything in the world, beyond which many things can be extremely ridiculous.

We should always affirm ourselves, try our best to develop what we can develop, and leave the rest to God. As long as we do our best, as long as we actively move towards a higher goal, we will keep a leisurely and comfortable in our hearts. As a result, we will not be unable to get along with ourselves, blame and resent ourselves, because we have done our best.

Even at the end of life, if we can say "I have done my best" with a clear conscience, then you will truly have no regrets! 、I hope for it。

Sometimes you have to find the reason in yourself.

Ignore it. Just be yourself. You can't live to satisfy everyone. Just satisfy the people you think are worthy.

Find a good friend to talk about.

If something can't be changed, look for the best solution and think for yourself.

After the parent-teacher conference, Xiaozhi was very worried and unhappy. Coming back to communicate with the child and do the work will not help. Xiao Zhi figured out for herself, if she couldn't change others, she would change herself.

Children have their own children and grandchildren, and any kind of life is unsatisfactory, and if the children stay around, it is a good thing.

As long as you can solve things with hard work and money, it is not a problem.

Whether it's the annoyance of work or the chores of life, as long as it is something that is solved with hard work and money, you don't have to worry too much, because there is an answer to the solution, you just need to wait patiently or work hard.

Good health is the greatest happiness.

When people have a certain experience, they will find that after many things have passed, they will realize how unnecessary the worries and troubles were at the beginning. When people live in the world, as long as they are healthy, have the capital to work hard, and can live an optimistic life, it is the simplest and most practical happiness.

Go outside to blow the wind and bask in the sun.

Everyone has unhappy things, depressed and dull moods. At this moment, you can go out for a walk to blow the breeze, bask in the warm sun, and soothe your heart in peace. There are a lot of things that you will figure out in the process.

Don't worry about what will happen tomorrow, learn to forget the unpleasantness of the past.

No matter how worried you are about tomorrow, you still have to face it, then there is no need to worry and worry in advance, you must learn to let go of the unpleasant things in the past, don't drill the horns, that is to worry about yourself. Now that it's over, let's forget it with time.

Then you have to adjust your mindset. Don't drink from others. If you always compare with others, then you think too much, and then you will have low self-esteem.

I can't get along with myself. So you have to adjust your mentality and make yourself sunny. Take everything lightly.

Sorrow is also a day, and happiness is also a day. Why not live each day happily? It's better to be healthy than anything else.

Tell us more about the specifics.

When you die, I'm sorry for the nurturing grace of your parents, and I'm sorry for the virtue of caring and loving your friends. I'm sorry for what I've suffered all these years.

The joy of oneself. Not because he has more, but because he cares less.

Master your own heart, don't let him, mess around, is to master your own behavior, it is also equivalent to mastering life, learn to smile, learn to be happy, learn to be strong, learn to smile and face everything in life, take your mood relaxed, don't think too much, breathe in the fresh morning air, feel the taste of nature, o(o....More importantly, don't care about the word "happy", real happiness is actually around you, feel it with your heart, come on.

Seeing through and seeing through the truth of life, this world is inherently painful, without exception. When you're happy, you have to think that this happiness isn't eternal, and neither is the pain, so you can let it go. There are 8 sufferings in life, and they come to the world from head to foot.

Old age is bitter, youth is easy to lose, and the body gradually ages involuntarily. Sickness, whether physical pain or spiritual troubles, inevitably accompanies a person's life. Death is bitter, and I have to accept the day that it has been brought about.

Can't ask for it, love parting, resentment will be bitter, the five yin weaving is full of suffering, (affected by physical contact, thoughts), too persistent attention to oneself is the root of all suffering. I know that only by letting go of attachment can I feel comfortable and happy. can calmly let go of no worries.

Therefore, when liberation comes out, we can be at ease with what happens to ourselves, teach sentient beings according to our circumstances, and always have a pure and peaceful heart. In the pure mind of the Buddha without arguing with others. Compassion is happiness, sorrow is to pull out suffering, joy is happiness, and freedom is to be at ease, and cultivating these four types can not only be good for others, but also better for yourself.

I do have the intention of not going to go with myself

One: If a friend believes, then there is a bodhisattva in this world. It's not an ethereal thing from outer space, but a friend of your own mind.

2.3: The thought of death in the mind is sometimes not scary!

It just shows that the friend is considering the value orientation of life and death.

Four: When such thoughts arise.

Friends just need.

Think it quietly.

What do you care about?

What are you afraid of?

What makes you reluctant to give up?

Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

Keep a peaceful mind.

It won't be so tangled.

Always be in a good mood

If there is no pursuit, no ideal, no goal, you will lose yourself, you will live very empty, very confused, and you don't know what you are living for. We have to know exactly what we want. In fact, what we want is very simple, all we want is happiness.

He doesn't have a specific concept of what happiness is, maybe it's a feeling, maybe it's spiritual, maybe it's material, I think both are indispensable, especially in today's society. However, spiritual wealth is more important. The power of the spirit is infinite, the mind is magical, and only when the spirit is rich will there be a higher level of pursuit.

People must have material pursuits, the quality of life can be guaranteed, but do not be confused by the material, behind the material is the dedication to the ideal. Only when we realize our ideals and fulfill our mission, this life will be meaningful. To be a person with cultivation and taste, to live freely, to face difficulties and challenges at all times in life, and to dare to face the waves of life is the real strong.

Always be prepared, work hard for a good life, and live well for the people we love and love us deeply Life is a long road, we may think about this question all the time, and over time, you will have a different understanding of this issue.

1.There is a bodhisattva in the world, and that is you.

2.A bodhisattva's body dies, but compassion is immortal.

3.Death is not terrible, this is a reality that everyone has to face, what you need is to face it, and you must give up fear.

4.Know your thoughts.

In fact, there is nothing, as long as your own heart can be opened, it will be fine, as long as you feel that it is right, it is okay, so it is necessary to do something deliberately.