If it were you, would you fall in love with a woman nine years older than you? Divorced

I have always felt that as long as two people truly love each other, age, money, family, etc. should not be a stumbling block to your love. The first question at hand is how to convince your parents to accept her, and this is the key. After all, she was divorced.

Don't care about the world's eyes, as long as you feel worthy and happy, that's fine, I bless you.

It's not a big question, if you really like it.

Truth be told, very few parents agree with a 22-year-old guy marrying a woman who is 9 years older than him and has a child.

As a sincere persuasion, you should really leave her. There are many reasons, first of all, physiologically it is not suitable, when you are 40 years old, she is already 49 years old, which is almost the menopause of a woman, and a 40-year-old man is in his old age. Then she has a child, you want to be a stepfather at such a young age, have you thought about the difficulties of being a stepfather?

When you have another child with her, how do you balance the relationship? And you are only 22 years old, and you are not very experienced in all aspects of society, and she is 9 years older than you, and she has been married and had children, when you fell in love, she should have the initiative, but she let you fall into such depth, why don't you say that your parents don't have a deep prejudice against her?

Of course, if your love for her is uncomplaining (believe me above, your parents have already analyzed it for you), then you can only let time dilute all this, and slowly influence your parents--- such as asking your girlfriend to do everything possible to help your parents solve some practical difficulties.

It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along with. You need to be mentally prepared for this kind of complicated family relationship.

Once a woman has a family, after becoming a mother, most women will focus on their children, and regardless of whether the marriage breaks down, most people's love for children will increase unabated, for the situation you described, she is now unhappy in her marriage, no matter what reason causes the previous marriage to be unable to continue, at least she has no idea to find a new place to rely on.

So what you have to do at the moment is to care more about the growth of the child, the child's nature is to play, play happily, and play carefree, but the child learns things super fast, so you might as well care more about her child's interests and hobbies, and at the same time cultivate the child's interest, it will naturally pull into your relationship.

People are emotional creatures, so at this point, no one will be indifferent to the person who helps their child, you often appear in the child needs help, the other party can not perceive, how to implement it, it varies from person to person. How to come together depends on your hard work, I wish you a beautiful and happy family.

You can learn from Hong Xin's husband Li Danfeng, who is the man who played the East in Hua Qiangu, he is the same as your frivolity, and then successfully captured the heart.

I'm the same as you, I also like someone who is nine years older than me and has a five-year-old child, I'm also very confused, can we really be happy together, but I don't regret my decision, since I choose him, I will use my life to love her, do all my best to give her happiness,

Have a good relationship with her children and take them to play when you have time.

There is nothing bad about it, a divorced woman may think more about some things than others, see more, and also have children and need a pillar in life very much. I don't think it's about how she should accept you, but how you should get others to accept you. If people talk about relationships and marriage, they must first think about their responsibilities, whether you are capable of taking this responsibility, whether you understand how to protect this relationship, life needs a long-term plan, these things need to be thought about by yourself, and others can't help.

I envy you, if you are with a woman who is nine years older than yourself, divorced and has children, many things may not be what we can imagine, but nothing is that true love can stop.