What is it like to break up after years together?

I don't feel anything, my youth is exhausted, my feelings are exhausted, and I only miss it silently occasionally, but there is no sense of sadness. No one is inseparable from anyone, no one should live or live, and live well.

It's a pity, I really want to give him a home. Even if you are really married, you are willing to divorce if you find it inappropriate. I have no regrets. Now it is a love with regrets, a regretful departure. I feel like I won't love it anymore.

I feel like I should live again.

Two people have been together for a long time, each other's habits will affect each other, so that the last two people will become more and more alike, and because they have been with each other for a long time, there will be very few friends around except each other, and when they break up, they will find that they are alone and have nothing, so after the breakup, we have to start living again and live without him.

I feel like I'm mentally retarded and can't do anything.

When you are together, you take care of each other, and someone else will figure out a way for you, after separation, you will feel that you can't do anything, you will feel that you are so dependent on each other, and you will slowly begin to doubt yourself, and even question your future life.

After a breakup, I always feel that something is missing from my life, and I will start to feel that my life can be so monotonous and boring. Slowly, I will start to miss those years together. When you break up between couples, the most fearful thing is that when you have taken him as a habit, and now you are suddenly asked to break this habit, this is the most fatal and the most difficult to accept.

If two people are suitable, they will be together, and if they are not suitable, it is best to separate, and do not judge the feelings of two people by the length of time they have been together. No matter how long two people have been together, if they feel that it is not appropriate, it is best to separate. People get to know a person because they have been together for a long time, China is so big, there are so many men and women, even if they break up, there will be a better fit for themselves.

As long as there is love, there will be breakups, and no love has an eternal shelf life. If two people love each other, then cherish it, if two people don't love each other, or if it is one-sided love, then it is better to separate. A good love should be like each other and treat each other sincerely.

In fact, lovers must be open to the face of division and integration, after all, no one can say clearly about feelings. Maybe I will be very reluctant when I break up, but the relationship can't be reluctantly improvised. When you meet your lover in the future, you will be grateful that you have made the decision to break up now, which is the most responsible attitude towards yourself.

When you first break up, it's going to be hard. Every day, when you think of a lot of things before, you think of him, you will cry, you will be very decadent, you don't want to do anything, unless you have to work, and at the same time you are the walking dead at work.

But gradually, you will slowly get better, and if that person treats you badly, you will slowly become cheerful and start enjoying the life you want. It takes time to be uncomfortable**, and it can only take time**. After being together for a long time, break up.

You think of him for everything, such as going to the bathroom, and you think of him handing you something when you forgot to bring it. For example, when a girl has a stomachache during a special period, you will think about how he treated you at the beginning, how he stayed by your side, and how he took care of you. For example, when you eat, you think about things that he doesn't like to eat, such as he doesn't like to eat fruit, and you will always remember it.

For example, he likes dogs, and you think of him when you see a dog. The experience is that he has existed in your world, like your shadow.

I had a three-year relationship and finally broke up, because the family strongly opposed us being together, and finally broke up under the blow of the family, for a long time lived a decadent life, my heart was very sad, and even thought about self-harm, I remembered our past when I saw the familiar scene, and finally left sadly to work somewhere else, and it took more than a year to slowly adapt.

No matter what reason they broke up after being together for many years, they must be very sad, after all, they have gone through several years together, there will be ups and downs, and it will definitely be difficult to get out in the end.

If it's because of your boyfriend's split, maybe it doesn't feel so painful because you're tired of breaking up because it's not suitable, but there is always one party who is unwilling to break up, and the one who doesn't want to do it must be the saddest party.

I have a friend who has been with her ex for 5 years, and finally broke up when talking about marriage, and her ex abandoned her ruthlessly, and she washed her face with tears every day in those months, and the whole person looked haggard a lot, and when she thought of her ex, her chest hurt inexplicably, she thought she was terminally ill, and ran to the hospital for an examination, but fortunately it was just a false alarm.

If you have no feelings and break up, there will be a sense of relief, if you still have feelings but have to break up, then the deeper the love, the more painful it hurts.

Two people have been in love for many years, if they are separated because they are tired, tired, and emotionless, then both people will be liberated, and there will be no bond when they are separated, and they can start their own new lives. If two people break up for some unavoidable reason, then how deep the love of the two people is, how painful the heart is, for example, one party wants to study abroad and marry (marry) another person for the benefit of the family, in this way, both people will be burdened with unbearable pain psychologically, and the heart-rending pain is as uncomfortable as having a mouthful of sweet blood in the throat and about to spit it out. <>

So try not to say break up when you are still in love, and if there is still room for effort, you must not give up, otherwise it will be a huge harm to both people.

At first, I was very sad and reluctant, but later I was relieved.

I was with my ex for four years, and when we were together, both of us thought about the future, and always felt that the two of us would not be separated, so we were tired of it, and then we didn't know that there was a rift between the two of us.

He was two years older than me, and he didn't want to go to school early, so he started working, and he always instilled in me that the idea was to get married, but I think I'm still young, and the first goal should be to study and finally find a better job.

The two of us quarreled a lot because of this, and at the moment before we broke up, he asked me if I really can't do it? I decisively refused, I didn't want to. Naturally, they broke up.

When I first broke up, I didn't fit in, I was sad without him, and there were not a few people who cried, but then I started to be busy with my studies and had a group of lovely friends to accompany me. Gradually, I became less sad, but I felt that this decision was right, we loved each other so much at the beginning, since I couldn't give him what he wanted, it was better to let go and let him pursue it. Maybe he'll find the one he likes.

I feel that the whole person has been hollowed out.

When this person has become a habit for you. When he suddenly pulls out, you find it particularly difficult to accept.

Every morning after getting up, it is still customary to send good morning to that person.

But when these two words were issued, there was a red exclamation mark. Only then did I suddenly remember that this person no longer belonged to me. <>

After the end of a relationship, it is not as it is said on the Internet. I hate that person very much, I hate it very much.

On the contrary, there will be a feeling of hoping that he will live well in the future, and that he will be happier than himself.

I even wanted to go to that person's wedding site to see it, just because it was my original dream. You've seen him all, happy, unhappy, excited, sad.

Now, just want to see what the last person doesn't belong to himself.

has been in love for many years, and there is no initial excitement about love. Rather, it transforms into a relative-like existence.

The breakup proposed at this time is undoubtedly like tearing a hole in my heart.