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I don't know to what extent I will leave, I just know that after being sad for a long time, I gradually gave up, and the decision to leave was not made suddenly, but slowly accumulated. Of course, if a man you trust him very much, love him very much, but cheat on your feelings, such a person must make your heart cold, lie to you once or twice, and gradually you are ready to leave.
I also chose to let go because I was very disappointed in a relationship, and the other party thought that I didn't like him enough, but he didn't give me a lot of care. We have been in a different place for a year, this year, we rarely play **, send QQ messages very slowly, I don't know what the other party is doing, and the other party doesn't care what I do. I don't know his circle of friends, he said he was playing games, I don't think it's anything, I went home and looked at his phone during the holidays, only to find that he didn't reply to my messages and was chatting with other girls at the same time.
Disappointment accumulates little by little, and leaving is also prepared for a long time, but it depends on who can't survive first.
The perfect words are what you said, and the promise was also made by you, but I was very naïve to believe it, but the words are good, but you didn't do that, you think I don't like you, I think you don't like me, the most tacit thing between us is nothing more than comparison.
When I eat a girl's vinegar, you won't stay away from him for me, and I didn't force you, I just want to know, in your heart, my position, will you get rid of it because of my worries, but you don't, slowly I got used to it, I also changed, slowly, I feel that I am no longer jealous at the same time, and my feelings for you are also weakened, so I also feel that there is no need to be together.
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Everyone has a bottom line, and once the line is crossed, it will be a point that cannot be managed. In every love, it is often the boy who hurts the girl more, and as long as the girl is hurt to the core, then she will leave you forever and will not come back.
Like me, I just recently broke up with my boyfriend. Seriously, I'm still going to like him. But in the end, I chose to let go.
Half of the reason is because he went out to work hard when our relationship was not stable, so we are in a long-distance relationship. Frankly speaking, basically a long-distance relationship is difficult to maintain, plus our relationship is not stable and we are about to separate the two places.
We quarrel almost every day, and everyone says that the more noisy the better, but we are the opposite. The reason he argues with me is almost always because of my male friends. At first I thought it was nothing, probably because he was jealous.
But over time, I realized that he didn't care about me, didn't ask me about the rest of the things, such as family, friends, etc., and he only cared if I was playing with male friends. To put it bluntly, he's the kind who doesn't trust me, is possessive, but doesn't love me very much. I told him something like this, but in the end he thought he was right and kept blaming me.
Slowly, I got tired too.
Another thing is that he and I don't always have a topic. Almost always I started looking for a topic first, but even when I did, he would end a topic with "really". I've also asked him why he keeps replying to me.
He said he didn't know what to say. Isn't there anything to talk about between couples? I was speechless for a moment.
Over time, I also got cold.
In this love, I feel that I am all sustained by myself. It's not that I don't work hard, it's that he doesn't care if I try. And his attitude also made me feel that he didn't really love me.
Gradually, my heart slowly became cold. In the end, I couldn't hold on and chose to leave.
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I think when a woman doesn't have hope for a man, she will let it go! But every girl has her own bottom line, and it's all different.
I think every girl is emotional, so since I agree to be with this boy, it means that the two of them still love each other, and they will definitely be tolerant of all kinds of problems in each other, because as far as I'm concerned, I prefer a person who likes it all the time, so as long as he doesn't hurt my heart too much, I won't leave.
I found a boyfriend, only twice I didn't want to continue with him, once because I went to work and didn't have time to chat with him, because it was summer vacation, he was at home, and he didn't have anything to do all day, so he pestered me, I couldn't accompany him every day, so he kept thinking cranky, he always felt that I was deliberately ignoring him, and I didn't know who I was chatting with.
We kept arguing like this, and I was really tired at that time, and I said forget it! I can forgive you for whatever reason, but there is really no need to continue the feelings of distrust, and then he admits his mistake and lives as it should be.
There is also a feeling that I am more and more out of control in a relationship, he will always apologize when we have problems together, although I don't say it in my mouth, but my heart is really warm, slowly he has changed, every time he quarrels, he will be very fierce, let me feel that he no longer tries the original him, every time I quarrel I don't know if it will be better, I still have hope in the past, but once I really seemed to go crazy, because I was really helpless, and even knelt down for him, I felt as if I had no dignityI think it's really a bit boring and I want to give up.
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The two have confirmed their relationship, but the man does not recognize the identity of a woman, or criticizes himself in front of many people, and this behavior will feel particularly chilling, because he has put in a lot of effort, and he is also sincere to the other half, but he has not received the corresponding return.
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When two people get along, men are very selfish and never consider women's feelings, and when two people get along, men don't give women holidays, and they are not particularly good to women.
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When doing things, he will be very perfunctory, and every time he says something, he never listens, never takes it to heart, or when he encounters some problems, he never has any responsibility.
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Should cooperate, he should not be nice to her, and may also tell the parents.
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In a relationship, once a woman's heart is cold, she will turn away silently, and if a man wants to keep it, first of all, he should sincerely apologize to the woman, provided that he is not to ask him to forgive himself or accept himself. Secondly, you can continue to care for this woman in life, but do not ask anything of her. Also, if you want to keep him, take her to places that will bring back memories you share.
In this relationship, if a woman is completely dead to you and her heart is cold, she will basically stop paying attention to you, will no longer quarrel with you, and will not be entangled anymore. In the face of this situation, if a man wants to keep it, he can use the following methods.
First of all, you should sincerely apologize to the woman, provided that you tell her that it is not to ask him to forgive himself or accept himself. Apologizing is your attitude, which means that you really realize that you are wrong, you are apologizing to him, don't ask him to forgive you at this time, let alone ask him to accept you, don't have too strong purpose. This will make the other person feel that you really realize that you are wrong, rather than admitting your mistake with a purposeful desire to redeem the other person.
Secondly, you can continue to care for this woman in life, but do not ask anything of her. In the rest of your life, you must continue to care for him and give him warmth, but don't ask him anything, so that you can move the other party. Even if some people continue to care about each other, they are still very anxious and always want to redeem each other and be with each other, which will expose their purpose and give people a very bad feeling.
Also, if you want to keep him, take her to places that will bring back memories you share. If you want to ask her out, take her to places you've been to, places to have shared memories, places to spend quality time together. In these places, you can talk about some things about your past, just like friends, and these things can often make each other soft-hearted.
The above are some ways to win back the other party.
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speaks to you very perfunctory, and is unwilling to deal with you, speaks to you very indifferently, and will deliberately ridicule you, and even sleep in a separate room with you; Because if you want to effectively retain, you should create some related romantic surprises, and you should also understand, respect, tolerate, and woman in detail in your daily relationship, so as to effectively impress him.
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Many things will become indifferent, and they will start to be reluctant to share the trivial things of life with you, and no longer pay attention to your affairs; Reflect on yourself in time to find the root cause of the problem, take the initiative to communicate, and solve the problem in time.
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No longer expects anything from the other person, and is particularly indifferent, does not care about the other person, and will limit the other person's time, money and freedom. A man can communicate with a woman, and then admit his mistakes with the other party, accompany the other party, give the other party enough security, and report things in advance.
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If a girl feels cold, there are a few performances, let me tell you a little bit, then the first performance, then in his opinion, this male god's words may go home, may not go home is such a thing, so if you say, if the girl is sexual, then he doesn't care if the boy will go home on time, this is a very critical point, in fact, in most cases, after the girl gets married, she will be more concerned about the boy, Especially if he can go home on time, what time will he go home, then he is very concerned about this matter, so if the girl says performance, then basically whether you go home or not, then he doesn't care, it's such a thing, so when there is really such a thing, it's not the same thing for a boy not to go back.
On the other hand, if a girl is cold-hearted, there is one more thing, then they may ignore the boy, this is a very certain thing, my brother's words used to be like this, then after he broke up with his girlfriend, then or when he was about to break up, then the girl was ignorant of this life, sure, I didn't understand it many years ago, Then after listening to this boy's story, I realized that what happened was such a thing, out of careful thought, this is the case, whenever I encounter such a thing, I will think about this matter, why the words of girls are like this, in fact, when the heart is cold, there will be such a thing, so I think everyone thinks about it carefully, then if the girl is cold, then it will be like this.
So when a girl behaves like this, it's one thing for a boy not to be a boy, if you want him to break up, then the girl will break up with you at any time, in this case, so in most cases, if the girl is cold, it's not actually a day or two, but very disappointed, disappointed to the extreme, it will be such a thing, when we think about these problems carefully, in fact, we all know that boys usually don't like to let girls perform, But in the end, it will be like this.
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Become very independent, no longer value each other's attitude, will not care about each other, will not help each other, will not pay attention to each other's every move.
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will ignore you, will take the initiative to keep a distance from you, will be very indifferent to you, will not read your messages back, will no longer care about your affairs.
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He doesn't take the initiative to contact you, he doesn't want to share his life with you, he doesn't want to have any physical contact with you, he doesn't want to talk to you, he is indifferent to your overtures, and he hates anything about you.
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Many of the man's behaviors will make the woman particularly chilling, and eventually the woman will give up on the man.
The first is just to blindly take, and not willing to give anything.
just treats this woman as a nanny or a tool, always sweetly coaxes this woman, gets what he needs from this woman, never respects this woman, and is unwilling to give this woman a name or any contribution.
is obviously unwilling to give this woman a future, but delays this woman's good youth, and is with other women, but tricks this woman into working overtime.
In the end, women will see the true face of men from men's lies and feel a special chill.
The second is that when he needs it most, the man doesn't say a word, turns around and leaves.
When he is the loneliest and loneliest, the most helpless, and the most in need of help, the man is having fun with his friends and other members of the opposite sex, unwilling to understand, unwilling to accompany him, and hearing their cheerful laughter, he feels a special chill.
A man's incomprehension of a woman, and the lack of attention and disdain of a woman, will make a woman feel painful and painful.
Finally, when a woman is in difficulty, or when a man knows that a woman has very average family conditions, he especially looks down on this woman and is unwilling to give him any help.
When a man feels that this woman has little value, he will easily abandon this woman, which will make the woman feel very cold.
I have made many sacrifices for this man, but when I am in the most difficult time, because I can't bring more value to this man, this man will discard himself at will, and he feels cold and cold.
The man turned from love to hatred and fell into a desperate situation.
Come out to mix, sooner or later you have to pay it back, stay a line, and see each other in the future, a man who does things too badly is destined to have no good results.
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