I brought up the breakup. Now he keeps in touch with me and wants me to forgive him

In fact, I think it is very difficult to change a person's temperament. If you say it once or twice, it's still like that. It can't be changed.

Now he feels that the breakup feels empty. I won't be able to contact you again after a while. If you really like it, give him a chance.

If you don't like it that much, don't delay anyone. Better a finger off than always aching.

It's up to you to have faith in yourself. How much do you think you carry in his heart? In fact, when two people are together, they change each other.

It's like a stream of water and a stone that has just fallen into the water, it will be swept away at first, but when the edges and corners of the stone are smoothed out by the current, the stone will stay. Nowadays, many young people are divorced but have not come out of the run-in period. I'm not very old though.

If you think he can be forgiven, you try to forgive him, but you say that he said to change it before, and now it hasn't changed, do you think what he is telling you now is true, he just called you and didn't show anything else?

If you like him very much, forgive him, if you don't like it, you will break up with him if you don't make a mistake. There are no principles in love, only feelings.

In fact, feelings are hurt. I think it's hard for women! Again and again, again and again, this time like this, next time there will be surprises you don't want (sad).

If you're not married, think for yourself What kind of happiness you are like now? Men just kick their noses and crawl their faces!

Emotional things are very delicate, the key is whether you still have him in your heart, but I like a sentence, you, there is no turning back when you open the bow.

If he is guilty of a matter of principle, it is unforgivable.

Because you forced him. Maybe he's looking for something else.

The reason is that 1 is considering his own ability and then making sure to associate with you. Reason 2: You yourself are interested in what he did before.

She just copes with you, although she promises you not to break up, in fact, deep down, it's just that he breaks up, and he won't care about you, let you be a spare tire first, lukewarm, love and ignore it, let you have an adaptation process, and slowly you break up.

This is the reason why the twisted melon is not sweet, because you forced him to forgive and not break up, not that he looked for you from the bottom of his heart, so he is now in a state of indifference.

You have to be clear, love and marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, if the parents of both parties do not agree with your marriage, even if you get married, you will not be too happy, you will not be blessed by your family, and you will not support your marriage, you say that if there is a little friction between the two of you in the future, it will be easy to break up, and you are still in a different place, which is even more unreliable, understand? If you want to let the boy come to your place against all odds, will he come? If you don't come, give up this relationship!

If you are a girl, really, if you take the initiative to find the location of the boy, you may regret it even more in the future, being in a different place, without relatives, once you are wronged, what will you do? The risk is too great, your relationship is not very favorable, let it go! The boy also feels that you can't make it, so he can only be lukewarm to you, and his heart won't treat you like before, she can only wait silently for you to say break up, and he won't keep it!

Breaking up is a wise choice for you! There is no one in this world who can't live without anyone!

A long-distance relationship is the most test of the relationship between two people, and they can usually chat on their mobile phones. It is recommended that you talk to him more, as for how often to contact, there is no fix, it is best to have the other person's free time. If he's still like this, then I suggest you break up.

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。Guy I proposed to break up, and then I contacted him again, and he ignored me and then I deleted him, and he added me back, and then he ignored me again for a good day. The boy mentions that you break up and you contact him and ignore it, which means that he is angry with you, and then adds me back, and then ignores me for a good day, which means that he still can't let go of you, but he ignores you for a day because he feels that he is still angry, or you make the same mistake again, so that he hesitates about your relationship.

At this time, you must seize the opportunity to find out the problem and solve it. <>

Guy I proposed to break up, and then I contacted him again, and he ignored me and then I deleted him, and he added me back, and then he ignored me again for a good day.

My dear, I'm glad to answer your <>

。Guy I proposed to break up, and then I contacted him again, and he ignored me and then I deleted him, and he added me back, and then he ignored me again for a good day. The boy mentions that you break up and you contact him and ignore it, which means that he is angry with you, and then adds me back, and then ignores me for a good day, which means that he still can't let go of you, but he ignores you for a day because he feels that he is still angry, or you make the same mistake again, so that he hesitates about your relationship.

At this time, you must seize the opportunity to find out the problem and solve it. <>

<> dear, can you tell the teacher about your situation? The teacher can analyze it. <>

<> if he's hanging me?

Kiss, no, he's still angry. <>

We were all fine yesterday.

Dear, although you reconciled yesterday, but you had a conflict before, if you don't solve the fundamental problem, then he will still feel uncomfortable. <>

<> he called me baby yesterday.

Kiss, call you baby because you used to call it this when you were together, of course he still loves you, but he is now hesitating about your feelings in his heart<>

<>Why did you mention breaking up? <> dear, can you tell the teacher about your situation? The teacher can analyze it. <>

You apologize to him for this kind of man, find out that he owes you money, he keeps scolding you, the fault is that he is not you, you just said a sentence to ask him to pay back the money, this can make him feel hurt, it can only show that he has a glass heart, and even he may not want to pay back the money, and use this to kidnap you morally. Hurry up and get the money back and cut him off, if you don't have a lot of money, you should spend money to buy a lesson, how far away is this kind of man.

He doesn't have the money to pay you back, and maybe his business isn't going well. The most important thing for a man is his career, and if his career is not going well, he may not be in a good mood.

A man also has to have self-esteem, because business is not going well, and he asks his girlfriend to borrow money, which makes his self-esteem a little frustrated to a large extent.

A large part of your quarrel may have something to do with his bad career, because every time he quarrels, he says to pay you back. Or maybe he thinks he borrowed your money, which is why you quarrel with him like this. You repay the money as soon as you say it, so that he believes that the problem between you is really money, so he resolutely breaks up.

The career is not going well, and the girlfriend has money (in his heart, he may think that you are a money worshipper. of. That's why he scolds you, because in his heart he already thinks that you are because of money.

Such a man is a little conceited.

If your career is not going well, all bad emotions will be sprinkled on your girlfriend.

How long have you been dating? How's the feeling? Has he always been like this, or is it just because business is not going well?

I don't dare to say that you should give up on this relationship because I don't fully understand this man.

This boy has always been like this (such as swearing), or is it because business is not going well.

Do you think there's a problem between you?

How often do you quarrel? If a guy who often quarrels with women and doesn't know how to be humble is always the one who gives in, I don't think this guy is very good. A manly man, he can afford to put it down, now it's just that business is not going well, there are many problems encountered in people's lives, if he has always been like this, dealing with problems like this, I think it is inappropriate, as his girlfriend will not be easy.

Now you're just in love, what if you get married in the future?

Marriage and love are not the same, oil, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, trivialities, children's education ......There are a lot of complicated things, a lot of trivial things, do you think this boy can handle it?

What about you, and what about your children?

I really want to imagine that someone who won't humble you now, he will humble you when he gets married in the future?

Actually, I don't think there's any need to apologize to him anymore, because after all, the two of you have broken up, and there is no point in slowly accusing you, so there is no need for us to apologize to him anymore, just be okay.

There is no need to apologize to the other party. Because the other party has been accusing you, even if two people have conflicts, you can't always do it. Now that the two of you have been broken up for more than a year, it's okay to keep your distance from each other.

I don't think you need to apologize, the two of you have already broken up with each other, so try not to contact each other again, and you can also make it clear to him directly.

According to the situation you described, neither the breakup nor the responsibility is yours. I think your ex-boyfriend has personality flaws, no responsibility and responsibility, and a paranoid personality. If you apologize to him, he won't take you seriously.

Now that you have broken up, let him shout and cut his throat, you will be cold, do not respond or express your position, let him do whatever he wants.

People who often blame the other party are very selfish, they can't see the strengths of others, they only look at the weaknesses of the other party, and don't apologize.

After reading your problem, I feel that the most correct way for you is now is suitable for him, settle the relationship between money, let him pay back the money clearly, and get away from him quickly, this kind of person can only be complaining, you borrow money to help him, he doesn't pay back the money, and keeps accusing you, such a person can only be a person with no sense of responsibility, there is no need to entangle with him.

Hello, I don't think there is right or wrong in love, but if you break up, both of you must have problems, and he keeps accusing you of saying that he didn't recognize his own problems and didn't reflect on himself, I think you should communicate with him well, instead of apologizing to him.

He still accuses you after more than a year of breaking up, it depends on whether you really did something to be sorry for him, if it is really your fault, then it is necessary to apologize.

Personally, I think everyone has self-esteem, if he has been chasing you all the time, he doesn't know how to reflect on his own reasons. Then you don't need to apologize to him anymore.

So don't have any contact with each other in the future, just keep a certain distance.

There is no need to say that breaking up will make men always reflect on their mistakes, if you keep blaming you for breaking up, such a man has no love for you at all.

I think you're a girl, you've done a very good job, you've done your best, he's not only not paying back your money as a boy, but he's often scolding you and accusing you, I think such a man is not worth entrusting for life with no sense of responsibility at all, and he also accuses others of being good at himself? There was no need to apologize to him.

You're not wrong, because he borrowed your money so justifiably, and you don't owe him, is it wrong for you to let him pay back? Why does he accuse you like that? It's right for you to help him break up with such a person, don't apologize to him, because it's habitual.

You're really looking for anger.

Now that you've both broken up, what are you going to ramble with him? It is only natural to repay debts. You have been apologizing to him for more than a year, and there is no need for this.

As a man, find a way to solve difficulties by yourself, don't ask women to solve them. Now he still relies on not paying back the money, and he still has the face to accuse you, and he is embarrassed. Let's break up early and completely!

It should be that everyone does not have good communication, there are still differences, and each other is still a little unhappy, people are angry, and it is inevitable that they will be irrational when they speak and do things, if everyone still cares about each other, they should talk about it calmly and explain the misunderstanding clearly. I think you guys are still very emotional, and you don't really care too much.

It's impossible to apologize, the scolding doesn't even know him, so just break up, I just break up, I only remember that others asked him to pay back the money, but I don't remember that others helped him when his funds couldn't turn over. A person who is ungrateful, fragile in his heart, and still has a crooked belly after a year of breakup, does not understand why you should be good to him. After the money is repaid, it will be over if you block it directly, it is really difficult.

Personally, I suggest that such a man is not worthy of your life, I can only say that he is a person without a pattern, let him pay back the money as soon as possible, and then delete everything about him, and completely give up such a man, there is no need to waste his precious time and feelings for such a man, he accuses you, and can only say that he has no ability.

From the breakup, you can see that you are not at fault, it is your ex-boyfriend who is at fault. And your ex-boyfriend is one. People with high emotions.

I don't know how to love my girlfriend at all. Girlfriend hi in the case that the girlfriend is not wrong. can take the initiative to apologize to him, but he refuses to forgive.

Such a man is a small-bellied chicken intestine.

I think it's up to you to see if you're at fault or not, and if you're at the stage and your relationship isn't wrong, then you don't have to show anything.