Should such a boy break up? Is it sad for a guy to break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Are you not confident in yourself? I feel like you think he's very feminine, and you're in crisis. Be confident!

    Asking his ex-girlfriend to help him choose a Valentine's Day gift for you is really off-putting. You can tell him that you mind this and that he won't do it in the future. Many things can be solved through communication, don't lose your temper and he will think you are stingy, but you can also not say it or he will still be like this in the future.

    Remind him of what you care about. It would be nice if he was smart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Should such a boyfriend break up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That's your problem, not his, you're suspicious, and you're suffering from gains and losses. What would it be like to be such a man who had never been in love at such a young age? Would you like it? Being able to get along with so many people, and you can't stand it, means that you have little energy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Single-mindedness is not about having only one love, but loving only one when you love someone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You show that you love the man very much, so you have such doubts.

    If that man understands you and cares about you very much, he should be more restrained, this person is not very reliable.

    You can take those as suspicious of yourself, but don't give them to him the first time. Until marriage. All he can do is you're really suspicious.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It shouldn't be like me It's an Aquarius, it's quite in line with the personality of an Aquarius. Simple, see if you care, ask your heart, if you really care, you have to believe him, tolerate him, if you don't care, just break it early! Early death and early superbirth

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he has a lot of money, just put up with it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't know how old you are, but if you're still young, try your next relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

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  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It will be sad. As long as it is a person who has given his true feelings, whether it is a man or a woman, he will be sad after breaking up, and even some men who have stepped on two boats, as long as he has really loved and paid no matter which woman he finally breaks up, he will feel sad.

    Everyone's way of venting is different, some people will sing a night of KTV, some people will go for a night of hilarity, get drunk, or go on a shopping spree or something; And some people He doesn't put sadness on his face, on the surface it looks like he should eat, drink, play, and play, as if nothing happened, but when he comes home alone, maybe he will cry under the covers.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The breakup is definitely painful for both parties, after all, people's hearts are flesh and blood.

    And you can read this article, if you're a woman, believe that 99% of the time, you're the one who was broken up, right?

    Okay, now your boyfriend is the one who broke up, you are the one who was broken up, first of all, from this point of view, he is less painful after the breakup than yours.

    Empathy, if you are the active party, I believe that your pain will be correspondingly less than his.

    Second, you feel as if he was sad about the breakup, and that's because you didn't see his sadness.

    Before the boy tells you to break up and make this behavior, he definitely has many thoughts of breaking up in his mind, and he finally says the breakup after accumulating again and again, the boy feels that this girl is annoying, very troublesome, and gradually dislikes it, and when he wants to break up with her, then he will hesitate and entangle, because after all, he will also think of the good side of this girl, after all, the two people once had a sweet relationship.

    Then, between the idea of breaking up and the behavior of breaking up completely, the boy is very painful and depressed. At this time, maybe girls generally can't feel it, because most boys are naturally easier to hide bad emotions than girls.

    In fact, at this stage of the boy's hesitation and entanglement, the more he sees the girl's innocent and carefree smile, the boy is actually more sad, because the boy will imagine the huge pain that the girl may have to endure once they break up.

    Therefore, the boy is the one who takes the initiative to dump him, and in this case, most of the pain of the average girl is after a complete breakup, after completely losing this person. Guys' are generally before the breakup.

    So before the breakup, maybe this girl didn't feel much yet, she thought it was the same as the previous awkwardness. Until the moment of the final breakup, the girl is like falling into an ice cave all of a sudden, which is the beginning of the pain.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After the breakup, if the boy is sad, it proves that the boy still likes the girl very much, as for retention, it depends on the boy's character, and the reason for the breakup, if it is a very direct boy, the fault is in the boy, he will definitely keep it, if the fault of the breakup is in the girl, it is the boy who proposed the breakup, it is possible that the boy will love in time, he is not expected to propose to keep, in fact, the emotional matter, it is difficult to say clearly, who loves who more, who will take the initiative, who will keep, who will not look back, These are all unpredetermined, mainly depending on the state and emotions of the two people at that time, as well as whether they are persistent and attentive to this relationship and the degree of reluctance!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, this depends on whether you have paid, whether you have loved, if you have loved each other, you have paid for this relationship, then this relationship is over, you break up, of course the boy will be sad, of course it will be painful.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Boys will also be sad and sad after proposing to break up, but unlike girls, boys will generally show impatience, boredom, and even temper tantrums towards girls in the early stage of proposing to break up. After a period of breakup, I slowly miss my ex's goodness, so boys will be sad and sad after mentioning the breakup. Whatever the case may be, as women, we have to understand:

    No matter how vigorous love is, it's a thing of the past, and you can't stay in the past after a breakup, no matter what, you have to look forward.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The breakup of two people, what relationship caused the breakup? If the breakup is caused by the woman, the boy will generally be sad, and if the score is caused by the boy, some boys will not be upset.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It will be sad, whether it is a boy or a girl, in a relationship, they have given their love and sincerity, so as long as they break up, then both parties will be sad.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, they will be sad, they are also tempted, they will also be sad and sad when they break up, and they will naturally be sad when they love deeply.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People will be sad, fools will be sad, after all, this is a relationship, people are emotional animals, really, people are very emotional, and a person for a long time will naturally have feelings, at first you see a person and think he is very ugly, but what, you stay for a long time, get along for a long time, you will slowly feel that he is very good-looking and natural. It's all the same.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    will be sad, the scumbag will be sad with hatred, and the dedicated man will not be sad about love

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, it is also very sad for a guy to break up, boys tend to be more emotional than girls, and boys are usually very sad for a period of time after a breakup.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think as long as they break up, whether it is a boy or a girl, they will be sad, because they have talked for a while, people like each other, they can't leave, and there is a conflict with the permission behind them, and they break up again, so this relationship will not be forgotten, and it will definitely be uncomfortable for them to break up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Both men and women will be sad when they break up, because no matter what the reason is, they must really love each other at the time of separation, and the passage of a relationship will definitely leave each other with good memories and painful pasts, but when pain replaces beauty, that is, when we break up, we must look forward.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If he likes it very much, cares very much, and is sad, if he just plays with you, he won't be sad, and so is the boy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Whether this breakup boy will be sad depends on how much he likes this girl, if he loves him to death, it must be sad and heartbroken.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not that boys will be sad when they break up, everyone should be sad when they break up. Whether the degree of sadness is the same, some people pay a lot, and it should be particularly painful when they break up. If your person gives less, there may be a little less pain when you break up.

    It will not be painful, it will be sad, and after the pain, it will definitely face a new life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think if you really love someone, you will definitely be very sad, because whether it is a man or a woman, as long as you have truly loved each other, it will be very painful after separation.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's going to be sad for a short time, time will wear out the memory, and even if it's sad, it's going to get better.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Personally, I think that as long as a guy is deeply invested in the relationship, he will be very painful after the breakup. Because people are emotional animals, they also have a certain dependence, once they choose to separate. It's going to be very sad.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as he pays seriously, after a love that he really gives, then after the loss, he will definitely be sad, and her mood is also very low.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    As long as he truly loves and gives sincerely, he will be very sad when he breaks up, because he doesn't want to lose this relationship. But a lot of the time, it's involuntarily, not that you won't break up if you don't want to. In short, you must cherish it when you are together, so that you will not regret it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    As long as the boy really loves this girl, then he will definitely be very uncomfortable to break up, because the more you pay for the breakup, the heavier his sadness will be.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Whether a boy or a girl breaks up, they will be more or less sad, and the degree of sadness depends on the happiness index of your relationship.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Of course he will, because he also has a heart.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's everybody! As for the way to vent, there are many ways to vent, which varies from person to person, such as crying and venting, exercising, drinking and drinking, finding other women, destroying things, killing people and setting fires.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Boys are also sad after breaking up, no worse than girls, just don't show their faces, don't do anything else, but a collapse.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Will it be sad for a boy to break up? This is not necessarily, some boys will be very sad, but some boys will not be sad, this is different from person to person, and it is also different from relationship to relationship.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    1. Treat feelings very casually and not seriously.

    Some men don't want to fall in love at all, they just feel that everyone around them is in love, and everyone can usually play with the object, leaving them alone, so they also fall in love for the sake of falling in love. Therefore, they just want to find a woman to complete the task of getting them off the list, rather than really liking the woman. Therefore, after they fall in love, they feel that life is uncomfortable and they don't want to talk anymore, then they will break up.

    Some men like to give up when they encounter problems, and they treat feelings the same, they can't face the problems in the relationship very calmly, they don't want to spend energy to solve them, and they are afraid to take responsibility, so they simply end the relationship. But this doesn't take into account the girlfriend's thoughts, so the girlfriend will think that she is not respected enough, feel like she has been cheated, and think that the relationship is so frivolous? Therefore, these women are also unlucky enough to meet such a boyfriend.

    2. Be a very chic person, simply unambiguous.

    Some men obviously don't like their girlfriends, but they still don't say they broke up, but choose to break up, deliberately snub their girlfriends, or be hot and cold to their girlfriends, torture their girlfriends, and want their girlfriends to take the initiative to break up, be good to themselves, and pretend to be helpless, such men are the most disgusting. There are also men who are not decisive in making decisions, hesitate, afraid that they will be alone after breaking up, or that no one will give them money to spend, but they feel that they are wasting their youth if they don't break up, and it is also painful to be with someone they don't like, so they fall into hesitation, and this ambiguous attitude is also very torturous for women. Therefore, men who want to break up are actually very open-minded, at least say it clearly, and will not waste a woman's youth.

    From this, we can know that a man can break up if he wants to break up, it can be very casual, or it can be very chic, mainly to see if the man really wants to end the relationship, and what the reason is. Girlfriends should also understand the difficulties of boyfriends, if two people really don't want to be together, then they should bring it up as soon as possible, don't delay both parties, long pain is better than short pain.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    In real life, we will see such a phenomenon, that is, once a boy decides to break up, he will seem very crisp and will not drag his feet at all. This is actually very different from the performance of girls, even if girls break up, they are helpless decisions, and even when it comes to the end, they may regret it at any time. Although this law is not absolute, it does reflect the importance that men and women attach to their relationship.

    Generally speaking, during the relationship, the boy will value each other more than the girl, and once the breakup is the opposite, the girl is more difficult to let go of the relationship than the boy. This can be traced back to the difference in the mindset of the two people. Girls are emotional creatures, while boys are rational creatures.

    Girls are more engaged when they are in love, so that they often make all kinds of emotional performances, and the driving force behind this emotion is all kinds of emotions. The two became the catalyst for each other, which invisibly greatly deepened the memory of the feelings in the heart, and finally it was as difficult to remove as a brand. Because girls seem to be very emotional, it's hard for girls to really let go after a breakup.

    Boys, on the other hand, use rational thinking to examine emotions, and at the same time constrain their behavior through pros and cons. This eventually leads to the fact that once a boy decides to break up, he must do what he says.

    Because of the sense of responsibility engraved in the bones, it is difficult for boys to completely abandon their thinking and act according to their feelings. Because since the beginning of primitive society, men have been responsible for hunting and defense, and now boys are also instilled by their parents from an early age to become the role of the pillar of the family. This invisibly further reinforces the impression that men need to think about the big picture.

    So after everyone falls in love, you will find that the boy often pays more, because he knows that only if he is better to the other half, the other party can always stay by his side. And in order to create such an intimate relationship, it is worth the price you pay.

    But if he decides to break up, it means that the two people have irreconcilable contradictions, and separating at this moment is the best choice. Because thinking from the perspective of a boy, each other has the opportunity to find a new relationship after the breakup, and it can also avoid wasting more time and energy in the bad relationship in front of you. This is undoubtedly the most cost-effective approach, so it is natural for boys to make such decisions with rational thinking.

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