How to become simple, I hate my current self

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Let you feel the youthful and cheerful atmosphere when you are in **.

From now on, change yourself, communicate more with others, play more with classmates, laugh more, and slowly you will change.

Hehe, I see that you are very simple now, 13 years old, the general age of the flower valley, how many people can't envy it, did you encounter something unhappy? It doesn't matter, no matter what you do, the most important thing is to be happy, don't have too much pressure, have fun, envy your youth....

I should call you sister, but I'm actually one of those girls. I know that this kind of character wants to be changed but can't. But I'm not like you, I have a good time with everybody.

This kind of thing is indeed the same as what the first brother said, friends can help you improve, it's better to pretend to be simple and cheerful, pretend to be simple and cheerful for a long time, and your personality will change a little! If you really can't change it, you can comfort yourself: complicated is complicated, there is no one with no character and no shortcomings!

Radish and cabbage have their own love, and there will be bosom friends in life. Don't avoid people, keep smiling when talking to people, maybe people isolate you because they think you are too arrogant. Come on!

Remember!

Play with younger children, such as adding a child's QQ or something.

Kids, be confident and believe that you are the best. You love your parents, this is already a happiness that many people don't even dare to have. Take the initiative to do what you want to do, such as talking to others and making friends (not boyfriend and girlfriend).

Don't worry about the ridicule and fooling of others, who doesn't have an unpleasantness, the key is to be sure not to feel that these unpleasantness will follow you for a lifetime, as long as you yourself are happy and confident, then no one can take away your happiness.

Maybe it's because of your temperament, you're not indifferent, maybe your personality is a bit withdrawn, you may be very afraid to talk to others, you're afraid to talk to others, you always feel that others won't like you, that's right, I advise you to find some cheerful friends, try to communicate with them more, try to communicate, and sell yourself boldly, so that you will quickly integrate into them, understand? I wish you a happy and happy life.

Someone said that he had a stomachache and then asked what to do, but there are many possibilities for a stomachache, such as eating, internal inflammation, stomach perforation, and even cancer, etc., which cannot be judged only from the appearance, so I can only go to the hospital for examination and diagnosis.

You only said your "appearance" here, but you didn't say why, we don't know that your life doesn't know about you, so no one here can give you the right answer, you might as well find your parents or teachers to untie the knot, if you can find a psychologist is also a good solution.

It feels like you're a lot like me, I'm used to being alone, and I'm always the most isolated one in gym class, and that's how it has been since elementary school. When I was in junior high school, I had a good chat with my classmates, but later I learned that at first they thought I was not very talkative, or even withdrawn. You're not a bad girl, you just can't let it go.

Make more friends. Find someone to talk to and talk to about your troubles. If you don't dislike it. I can be your confidant.

Lou Lou. Accept everything with your heart.

It's all about the good.

To see the best in the world.

Those who have low self-esteem. Sad. Tell them to get out.

To know. Only open your heart. It will be bright.

The kind of person you are with, the kind of person you will become, and you should find the kind of person you need.

I think you can only run freely in the sun if you like yourself. Learn to like yourself and care for yourself...

Learn to be grateful, don't think too much complicated things, it's as simple as that.

The formation of character takes time to build. If you hate your present self, you can hate everything in your past.

It is not difficult to put on a mask to treat people, but it is always true to treat oneself. So it can only be changed bit by bit.

The main thing to do is probably to add value to yourself.

Engage with others. It won't be long before your thoughts and personality change.

I hate myself in my heart, so did you faint or did you have a setback or because you encountered something that was not going well in your relationship? Generally these two situations will only make you hate yourself more, so all you have to do now is:

1. Don't look in the mirror.

2. Work hard and don't think about him.

3. Go out to communicate with friends more, don't close yourself off 4. It's best to travel more often, look at the sea, etc. If you do all these seriously, you still hate yourself, then you should jump off the building as soon as possible.

It is recommended that you think more about your own strengths and enhance your value.

Warm memories, memories without fragrance.

It still feels cold when there is sunshine.

I'm standing on the dividing island.

No direction and don't want to go home.

You're too kind, you're too beautiful.

I hate to think of yourself like that.

I disdain that I am too willing to be a neighbor of vulnerability at this moment.

No soul turns body temperature into ice.

Embarrassed, I was always alone in my arms with the whole secret.

But my friends said I was too depressed.

I can't say I love you, see you hug sweetly.

Talk and laugh freely, endure the sadness of overdue.

If I say I really love you.

Who will clean up those ruined friendships.

If I hold back the secret.

Warm winters are long gone.

If I say I have to love you.

Promise to give you a heart that is more complete than friendship.

If I hold back the secret.

It's time to miss the secret of burying winter.

If I say I really love you.

Who will clean up this ruined friendship.

If I hold back the secret.

Warm winters are long gone.

It's time to miss the secret of burying winter.

The best thing to do is to change!

It shows that the landlord is eager to grow and change. This is a very normal psychological phenomenon.

Yes, people are sometimes self-deprecating. Why am I so useless. So nasty.

But keep in mind. It's your hypnosis of your own subconscious. Don't go on like this.

In fact, we should cherish ourselves, regardless of what others think of us. Only you are the one who matters. The earth actually revolves around you, because, if you don't have it.

Then, your world will be gone.

Maybe it's because you don't work hard enough, it's not good enough, or maybe it's because you're doing something you don't like or want to do for some reason, no matter what it's for, don't lose your true self and try to change the status quo.

As you get older, you will have more and more requirements for yourself, and the pressure of life is too great and you can't achieve your life goals, so you will hate yourself very much, and feel that no one is better than yourself, but in fact, the family doesn't know how difficult it is ......

Good things show that you have a low eye, it shows that you understand your own shortcomings, shame is almost courageous, take a good look at your own shortcomings, change and learn, everything will be fine, and you will be confident.

That's because I always can't meet my own high requirements, and I hate myself because I want to become, so I try to set small requirements for myself, and I will have a sense of accomplishment and become confident when I do it a little bit.

Most of the things I hate about myself are that I am not good enough, and most of them have to do with money. Unable to achieve their own goals. Didn't do what I wanted to do. Didn't live up to their expectations.

To prove that you are not doing well, how to change yourself, you must first have your own goals, no matter what you do, as long as you have a goal, you will work hard. As the saying goes: discover yourself, change yourself.

It's because you don't know yourself and don't have a clear goal for the future. It's also a bit of a bull's horn. Let go of yourself, believe that you can do it, and work hard....Don't let yourself become the kind of person you hate even yourself, only keep working hard to enrich yourself, and the harder you work, the luckier you get.

Grew up, grown. There are a lot of thoughts in your head, but it doesn't mean that your thoughts are all right, it may just be a momentary handle, be confident!

First of all, you are distressed that your life is becoming more and more demanding and you have not improved your quality of life, who can be yourself, but you are defeated by real life.

Maybe it's because of my current performance, which is far from the goal I expected, I feel that I have no ability, and even have an inferiority complex. You can set more small goals for yourself and slowly realize your big pursuits.

Sometimes I feel that I am inferior to others, but later I found that I am a lot of people, and I found that many people are not as good as me.

I'm the same, I like to do something every day that I admire

Because I didn't get good enough, I didn't like my old self.

People will grow, don't be too demanding, have different views, have different ideas, just be yourself.

First of all, I want to say that you have to learn to adapt to life, accept yourself, it's really stupid to hate yourself, you don't even like yourself anymore, so who will like it?

People who hate themselves are often very sensitive, more likely to be hurt, and have particularly high requirements for themselves, and at the same time are more mournful in ordinary life, which is what we call mourning. This type of person tends to have little communication with others, few friends, and a bit of unconfidence. However, it doesn't matter, this is also a process of growth, and it will mature slowly.

Slowly you will integrate into society, learn to socialize with others, and find your own happiness.

There are some difficulties in life, but when you have self-confidence and learn to face difficulties, you will accept yourself. Be happy, life isn't worth it.

You grew up and didn't have self-confidence in yourself

It shows that you are growing, that you are maturing. Progressed.

As people grow older, they will gradually hate their current self, because when they grow up, they are not what they expected when they were children, nor what they expected in the eyes of their parents.

Society will make us change, learn not to let your future self hate you now.

Nowadays people are more realistic! Be realistic.

Society is like that, it can only adapt.

What's so difficult about changing yourself, if you really want to change, you will succeed, the most important thing is to have a good attitude, I used to be like this, just want to open a point, happy too, sad too, why torture yourself like this.

It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist, who will tell you everything.

I think the landlord should not think too much, the world is the contest between truth, goodness and beauty and false ugliness, the landlord should have more positive ideas and concepts, and think more about the positive aspects. Adjust your mentality and be positive about your future life.

Thorn tree orchid. The city gate is solemn

Me too, but that's maturity, and it takes something to grow up.

You don't like to listen too much, some people can't do anything well like you said, they are stupid and slow to react, I am like this, recognize my shortcomings, don't complain, find someone I love to do slowly, put down the shelf, be humble and learn from others, and slowly I can regain my self-confidence, this is my experience, I hope to adopt.

One word: forbearance, two words: forbearance, three words: or forbearance.

Fantasy Elf

Well said. But I caution it.

Men are stingy when it comes to the girl they really like, and they will be left alone and sulk because of a small action or word from you.

When it accumulates to a certain point, then the friend may lose your family again.

Have faith in yourself, others can hate you, but you can't hate yourself. Because you are unique.

Then reflect on why you hate yourself, if a person doesn't even like himself, then how can he expect others to love you. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, try to find your own strengths, regain your self-confidence, and you will find that you are actually very good.

You're still young, don't bother with this and that all day long, study and work hard. The most important thing is to think about how to do people, how to live.

Can you imagine what you were like before, saying that you are domineering and rejecting people thousands of miles away, do you think arrogant and proud people are good? The original you are like this, although people should have self-confidence in themselves, but also have a degree, beyond this degree is equal to overconfidence, overconfidence is arrogance, empty eyes, who is willing to associate with you? You now realize that there are people outside the world, there are people outside the world, there are people who are stronger than you, and they are so strong that you are convinced, so you are frustrated, you hate you now, it means that you have not gotten rid of your previous wrong concepts, and it is time for you to study modestly, otherwise you will become a withdrawn person, no one pays attention to you, no one likes you, everyone will avoid you, are you willing to do this?

It is not very difficult to change yourself, as long as you really want to change, even if it is a little bit, as long as you insist on it, it will definitely have a good effect. And now that you have recognized your own problems, it means that you still have a cure.