Why are friendships often painful?

In the real world, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self. The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.

Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment them, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even ridicule and ridicule you in front of other friends, and belittle you in front of others, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool he wants to take advantage of when he's in trouble.

Friends, not every day to contact, although the world is all over the world, but when will the other party not lose contact with you will not forget your mobile phone number to ask who you are, maybe because of each other's busy work alienated relationship, but the holiday text message is also a warm thought, friends, not everything has to be reported to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer. A true friend, when you make a fool of yourself, he will not laugh at you coldly, he will not look at you coldly when you are in trouble, he will not help you, and he will not run away like a ghost in fright, a real friend will not be jealous of you when you are excellent, when you tell him the secret. He won't spoil you or even take it as a handle.

When you are sad, he will persuade you with sincere and simple words, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom and tell you some truth. A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend can accompany you through your life until forever. True friends are of no age, no matter whether they are male or female, nor are they classified as ranks, nor are they rich or poor, as long as you are sincere enough.

A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke. True friends will try their best to help you, understand you, and pull you along! A true friend will not cross the moral bottom line to occupy your love or physical object!

True friends, let alone scolding, because friends respect each other, even if there are any contradictions, they are held in their hearts, at most they are estranged from the relationship, and they will not scold, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends. True friends, there are many sayings, in my eyes, this is a real friend, if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always rare, so when you have such a friend, you must cherish this kind of friendship, treat all kinds of emotions with your sincerity, and true friendship will last forever. ~

People need friends in their lives, and losing friends can be painful

But you have to be careful to figure out why

If it's your fault, then you shouldn't be miserable, you should try to change yourself, and then take the initiative to redeem this reason

But if it's someone else's fault, then you can be very tolerant to forgive him, but if he doesn't cherish it, then you don't have to suffer, you should be glad instead, because it's better to be hungry than to be in the long run.

Friendship is indeed a lifetime.、But if you don't know how to cherish it.、Then you need to divide the situation.、If he's confused for a while and doesn't know how to cherish it.

Stand where you are, and wait for him to turn back

If he has made up his mind, then it can only mean that you are not a real friendship, god pants.

Just because true friendship will not be broken by anything realistic, unless it is not true friendship, so after this encounter, do not suffer, learn a lesson, and find a true good friend whose friendship can last forever...

..I think it varies from person to person! Some people value love, and some people value friendship!

You are the stool visitor who puts friendship in the first jujube trembling pin! It might be painful! (But you have lost the friendship of the cave source?)

Ay. There's nothing to ask about! Whatever you think!

Tell for yourself! As long as you are happy and happy, what do you want so much? People are like this:

You can't win 'em all! Normal, normal! Simple happiness is better than anything else

I give you advice, do you think it's okay? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly, and exhale slowly after doing the old attack, and silently say "relax" in your heart whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!